Help me choose! A sibling for Finley, Rupert and Clara...

[BunnyWilliams]

A sibling for Finley (Oliver), Rupert (Theodore) and Clara (Elowen).

Middle name this time will be Maria if a girl in honour of my mum, or Charles if a boy (mum's name is Carole Maria and Charles and Carole have the same name roots, plus it's DH's AND my dad's middle name).

These are our top choices:
Girl:
Sadie
Dulcie
Tessa

Boy:
Wilbur
Casper (this would have been Clara's name had she been a boy)
Barnaby

Opinions please! Surname starts with P with two syllables and is quite unusual (English).

Florence

Sadie or Casper!

Finley, Rupert, Clara and Rose

Tessa or Wilbur.Wilbur is such a lovely name.

Can I throw into the mix
Claudia
Alicia
Hugh/Hugo
Marcus
Elliot

Out of the names you've posted I think Sadie and Casper blend well with your other children.

Have you considered Martha for a girl? I think that would work perfectly!

I like Sadie and Wilbur best from your shortlist, and with your other DC names.

Sadie doesn't have an 80s/90s connotation for me, I just think of Aunt Sadie, the wife of Uncle Matthew in the Nancy Mitford books.

Hannah Josephine

Dulcie is super-tacky. Tess classier and cooler than Tessa.

Dulcie is super-tacky. I don't like the way it feels to say it.
Tess classier and cooler than Tessa. I agree.

Dulcie is my preferred girls name and love Wilbur. Also like your other boys names.

Suggestions-
Marnie
Esme
Adelaide
Eliza
Georgia
Tilly

Callum
Hugo
Tobias
Willoughby
Thomas
Adam

Yes, the Aunt Sadie reference helps me to not mind it so much. But I still can't totally get on board with it.

Dulcie does have quite nice meaning and a direct link to Latin dulcis, but somehow I just can't see it in the same bag of names as Clara. One sounds like the lady of the manor and the other her maid! I think Clara and something like Alice or Elizabeth work together a sisters, while Dulcie would work with something like Mabel or Betty.

Angus & Tessa

Tessa and Barnaby are gorgeous.

My favourites with Finley Oliver, Rupert Theodore and Clara Elowen ..

Tess Maria
Sally Maria
Maria Charlotte
Alice Maria

Wilbur Charles
Charles Casper
Barry Charles
Montagu Charles

Tessa and either Casper or Wilbur.