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Help with 1 week old baby boy - NO NAME!

137 replies

armt · 11/05/2025 14:48

Help please
i’m in tears every day about this but he has no name. Im desperate to settle but i cannot find a name we like.

We have 100 girl names but nothing for a boy.

we do not like “traditional common” names such as Chris, Tom, Harry, Nick, Ben.

we do not like names like Otto, Otis, Arlo.

we have a little girl called Aria (was not popular when we chose it) if this little one was a girl he would have been Otillie or Delilah.

we liked Jude but I’ve now met so so many baby Jude’s I just feel lost….

we quite liked Ellis but DH thinks it’s girly sounding. Also quite liked Dylan and Quin for a while but now it sounds so…. Over used?

urgh

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mathanxiety · 11/05/2025 15:57

I kind of agree with your H about Ellis. Can't put my finger on it but it does have a feminine ring to it.

LilyCandelabra · 11/05/2025 16:02

If you like Jude how about Judd? Not common at all and a bit more masculine.

Edwin doesn't have to be Ed - Win/Winnie is such a fab and positive sounding nickname instead.

ItsReallyOnlyMe · 11/05/2025 16:15

Vincent
Gregory

orion678 · 11/05/2025 16:19

Dylan was our second choice name and it was a very close call - I still absolutely love the name. And Ethan as pp suggested. Elliot is great too

ItsASunnyDayToday · 11/05/2025 16:22

Congratulations on your baby! Don’t cry… you’ll find a name.

however about

dexter
dylan
ethan
Hudson

DelphiniumBlue · 11/05/2025 16:31

If you like Jude, maybe Julian? Justin or Jasper?

Viviennemary · 11/05/2025 16:37

I don't like a lot of the names listed on here. Ilikd Isaac and Joshua. Some are really pretentious.

Reddelilah · 11/05/2025 16:38

Congratulations op!

I also love Quinn - it’s strong, cool and not too common. Aria & Quinn sound great together.

I also like Dylan, Cameron and Quentin (could shorten to Quin?)

ImaginedCorners · 11/05/2025 16:40

LilyCandelabra · 11/05/2025 16:02

If you like Jude how about Judd? Not common at all and a bit more masculine.

Edwin doesn't have to be Ed - Win/Winnie is such a fab and positive sounding nickname instead.

Jud reminds me of the obsessive farmhand in Oklahoma! who is in love with Laurey, gets nastily taunted by Curley who sings about imagining Jud’s funeral, and ends up falling on his own knife and dying.

Apollo365 · 11/05/2025 16:41

Not Ellis but Elias?
Ellis not girly sounding to my ear

Apollo365 · 11/05/2025 16:42

Or Elliott? Not met a single one

polarsystem · 11/05/2025 16:42

mathanxiety · 11/05/2025 15:54

Jonah
Luca
Elliott
Elijah
Isaac
Eli
Ivo
Ezra
Isaiah
Eden

These are all beautiful names.

Soubriquet · 11/05/2025 16:42

If I were to have another boy, I would call him Eric

HallidayJones6779 · 11/05/2025 16:43

Congrats! Go easy on yourself! So many hormones right now will not be helping the tension! Here are some suggestions in case any help...

Asher
Ezra (I think this is my fav with Aria)
Frasier
Elijah
Moses
Noah
Henry

Apollo365 · 11/05/2025 16:44

Ps I didn’t name my first child until I got to the limit of days you were allowed. It’s such a huge thing. Go easy on yourself

Zuve · 11/05/2025 16:45

Marvin any time

Ikeameatballs · 11/05/2025 16:46

Marcus
Jonah
Lucas
Dazliel
Corey
Ethan
Nate

TheHerboriste · 11/05/2025 16:50

Logan is not bad.

Gotabadfeelingaboutthis · 11/05/2025 16:50

Hugo
Ralph
Rufus
Felix
Douglas
Nathaniel (Nate?)

Good luck @armt !

Moreteaandchocolate · 11/05/2025 16:50

I love Dylan!

How about

Evan
Ethan
Ewan
Finley
Lewis
Liam
Leo
Felix
Toby
Jasper
Flynn
Reuben
Zachary
Koby
Dexter
Rory
Nathan
Harvey
Logan
Joel
Jonah
Casper
Callum

Catsinaflat · 11/05/2025 16:50

My ex mil was Greek. She told me that traditionally, way back (don’t know about these days!) babies were not named until the day of their baptism. All baby boys would be called Bebis and all baby girls Bebba ( meaning baby boy and baby girl).
I wouldn’t worry too much - It’s not that important right now, relax and enjoy your new baby and when you least expect it I bet a name will come to you!

potplants · 11/05/2025 16:54

Bison.
Barr.
Fah.
Fadel.
All thai names.

Mumofgirls2017 · 12/05/2025 07:48

I like Ellis. And Quinn. Neither overused.

aria and

flynn
Elliot
elio
elias
jasper
rio
torin
rowan
ralph
rafferty
casper

MinPinSins · 12/05/2025 07:54

Congratulations on your lovely boy!

How old is your Aria? It's been a top 50 name for 8 years, so if she's younger than that, you may well be overthinking the popularity thing, and it's not as much of a concern. Dylan is a fantastic name and ranked at 67 (much less popular than Aria, so I'd go for that if you really like it)

Reddelilah · 12/05/2025 07:57

What puts me off Dylan is the nickname Dill or Dilly!

i prefer Quinn.