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I cannot decide between these two names! I need help!

60 replies

Raye19 · 07/03/2023 12:59

I have two names which I love, along with middle names.

  • Emelia Alexandra
  • Alexandra Elizabeth
I cannot decide! thoughts?
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Wotsitsname · 08/03/2023 09:23

Alexandra Elizabeth

KirstenBlest · 08/03/2023 09:37

You can enforce that the full name is used, but people tend to roll their eyes when you correct them, and people will try to shorten it.
I have a short name, and people try to lengthen it. Not the name, but along the lines of Ann being called Annie, Anna, Annabel and Annette. I wouldn't mind, but they sometimes insist that they are right.

user1492757084 · 08/03/2023 12:05

Inspired by your names I like ..

Eliza Alexandra
Amalie Elizabeth or Emily Elizabeth or Amelia Elizabeth
Alexandra Emma
Elizabeth Alexandra

MissHavishamsMouldyOldCake · 08/03/2023 12:10

TallulahBetty · 08/03/2023 08:45

Alexandra will not necessarily be shortened.

I'd bet it will.

TallulahBetty · 08/03/2023 14:32

RudsyFarmer · 08/03/2023 09:19

Long names get shortened.

I have a long name and I had the responsibility by my parents not to let my name get shortened. So that was fun 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️. Even now in middle age I hate the shortened version but no longer correct people…. I just have a little bit of contempt for those who choose to do it without any signals whatsoever that this would be welcomed.

What I mean is, yes it could be shortened, but it won't always be. I know an Alexandra that is just that - people accept that she doesn't like Alex, and it's not an issue.

Ohyouareawful · 09/03/2023 19:31

I prefer Alexandra as Amelia is done to death and Alex will always be a strong, classic name. Only caveat is Alexa (unfortunately).

Ohyouareawful · 09/03/2023 19:33

I know women with the following names that never get shortened:

Catherine
Alexandra
Alessandra
Vivienne
Marie-Clare

KirstenBlest · 09/03/2023 19:51

I know an Elizabeth and a Felicity who don't get their names shortened, but they tend to get said a Lizbeth and Flissty

17caterpillars1mouse · 10/03/2023 11:16

I've always liked Alexandra and like the nicknames Alex and Andie (love Andie) so that would be my choice. Alexandra Elizabeth is quite a grand name though, I think I would go for Alexandra Amelie which is similar to Emelia

The Emelia spelling looks a bit weird, either choose Amelia or Emilia. I know loads of both and find it a bit 'meh'. It's nice enough though

specialkallday · 10/03/2023 11:17

Agreed about no one misspelling Alexandra, it's a lovely name, I'd go with that!

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