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Denver & Dallas for twins

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Greenisbeautiful · 10/11/2022 11:17

I am 31 weeks pregnant and my husband keeps insisting on the names Denver and Dallas for our identical twin girls. He told his entire family (without my knowledge) that it was the names WE picked. Personally I find it ridiculous.

My favorite names are Aurora and Elisa or Lola and Helena.

What do you think ?

Btw I am American and he is British. I am from Chicago, Illinois. So far away from Denver,Colorado or Dallas, Texas.

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Frazzled2207 · 10/11/2022 19:46

Awful but surely he’s just joking

anyway you’re absolutely not calling the kids those names so discussion over

Luredbyapomegranate · 11/11/2022 00:00

Get him a pair of goldfish - and he can call them what he likes

But he can’t take the piss out of his kids

Spookypig · 11/11/2022 05:24

Greenisbeautiful · 10/11/2022 12:53

Oh! I didn't know Lola was short for Lolita. I watch a lot of telenovelas, and seen plenty of characters named Lola. But yes, I'd rather avoid any names associated with child abuse.

Lola is not short for Lolita. Lolita itself is a nickname for Dolores! Lola is another nickname for Dolores. Dolores is obviously a name linked to the Virgin Mary (‘Nuestra Señora de los Dolores’ - Our Lady of Sorrows).

So Lola is perfectly usable. It’s no more connected to the novel Lolita than it is to Dolores and the Virgin Mary! It’s close to Lolita which is obviously a novel but Lola has plenty of uses in popular culture outside of that. Lolita isn’t usable because of the book, but Lola is fine. I think the PP got their information wrong.

Era · 11/11/2022 05:32

I’m assuming he was a massive 1980s American soap fan? Bizarre names. Do not let him persuade you. Anyone of my sort of age (late 40s upwards) will assume he couldn’t choose between Dynasty or Dallas!

Why not go the whole hog and do Blake Carrington Smith and JR Ewing Smith?

MyMumSaysALot · 11/11/2022 05:45

I’m from California.

You should insist on Sacramento and Albany.
Or Silver City & Deadwood.
Or Bronco & Cowboy

Because they’re all as legit as Denver and Dallas (aka the Denver Broncos & the Dallas Cowboys)

Please hold firm. Your names are lovely. ❤️

Sunbird24 · 11/11/2022 05:45

Lola just makes me think of the Kinks’ song… “I’m glad I’m a man and so is Lola”

SeasonFinale · 11/11/2022 11:35

la la la la Lola now I have an earworm

Spanielsarepainless · 11/11/2022 11:38

After the big sluice in Norfolk and a soap opera? He's nuts.

Justlovedogs · 11/11/2022 12:06

WinterLobelia · 10/11/2022 12:00

Debbie Does Dallas was a porn film from ages back. The 70s. That was my firs thought and probably not an association you/he would want?!

Showing my age, I think, but this was my first thought too! I also think of John Denver rather than the place, too.
Your choices are lovely, OP.

WalterWexler · 11/11/2022 12:17

Is presume this is what PP was referring to with Lola/Lolita?

"Lolita, light of my life, fire of my loins. My sin, my soul. Lo-lee-ta: the tip of the tongue taking a trip of three steps down the palate to tap, at three, on the teeth. Lo. Lee. Ta. She was Lo, plain Lo, in the morning, standing four feet ten in one sock. She was Lola in slacks. She was Dolly at school."

Ikeabag · 11/11/2022 14:35

I say go for Bath and Wath. Just because they're pronounced differently. That's extra fun.

Ikeabag · 11/11/2022 14:41

Also, I know a boy snake named Dallas. Am I helping?

CheeseIsMyPatronus · 11/11/2022 14:48

Tell him they are baby girls, not football teams.
(If he wants place names, how about Penistone and Wetwang? Both actual villages in Yorkshire.)

Your names are much nicer.

LoveMyPiano · 11/11/2022 14:50

I had some neighbours move in who had teenage twin sons, named Darrell and Darren.
Then went to the other side of the world, and met a family(JW, not bogans) with six daughters - most of their names escape me, but there were sisters named Chanel and Chantelle* - and one of their sisters was named Cinnamon.

  • My (half-)brother was cheating on one with the other (slimy git).

I thought the Denver and Dallas names were a joke!
(I say this as someone who was given the name of a famous film star's notorious daughter in the 60s - and the name is now very very chavvy, if used at all - and I have always hated it.)

Re. Alien; does anyone know the first names apart from (Ellen) Ripley?

Choconut · 11/11/2022 14:52

CheeseIsMyPatronus · 11/11/2022 14:48

Tell him they are baby girls, not football teams.
(If he wants place names, how about Penistone and Wetwang? Both actual villages in Yorkshire.)

Your names are much nicer.

Penistone - how would one pronounce that exactly?

AngelDelightUK · 11/11/2022 14:52

I’d have had Denver down as a boy name anyway!!!!

I can’t believe no one has suggested you LTB yet!

LoveMyPiano · 11/11/2022 14:54

Jennifer Aniston's dog (one of ) is named Chesterfield 💕

Place names only really work for animals I find.

(We did have a horse called Monkey though - and also had a Magic Roundabout Theme going one year with the foals.)

Head in the clouds 101 · 11/11/2022 14:59

Dallas sounds tacky don't do it please!

MintyGreenDreams · 11/11/2022 15:01

Porn star names sorry

CheeseIsMyPatronus · 11/11/2022 16:44

@Choconut - Pen-iss-tun

FayCarew · 11/11/2022 17:10

Penistone and Scunthorpe?

RambamThankyouMam · 11/11/2022 20:17

Awful!

Greenisbeautiful · 13/11/2022 16:38

I am so glad I posted here. Now my husband stopped with the whole Denver and Dallas "A long as you give up your names too". So we started from 0 and made a new list. I have to share his names,because they are so ridiculous Hahahaha. It is proper funny. He is not talking to me because I laughed at it, but I had to hahahaha.

-Paula and Pauline ( I let you guess his name)
-Rose and Valentina ( May has well called them chocolate and February)
-Harper-Lily and Lily-Harper

  • Joy and Precious

I hate the whole matching names.

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FayCarew · 13/11/2022 16:45

What's your name, @Greenisbeautiful . You could name them Paulette and Greenisbeautifulella.

WinterLobelia · 13/11/2022 16:48

Rose and Valentina is actually quite lovely IMO.

How about Eleanora and Henrietta? (Just random, plucked from the air names).