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Harper or Skye

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Sev100 · 03/07/2022 03:50

Hi there.

looking at a girls name of Harper or Skye

Harper Rai
Skylar Rai (but would be known as Skye)

family hate the name Skye but I don’t!

Not worried so much if a name is popular or not etc

Im quite a bohemian person 🤪

all comments and or thoughts appreciated 😎

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MerryMarigold · 03/07/2022 08:47

I like Ray spelled like that. I know a little girl called 'Sunny' which I think is a cool girl version of Sonny (but not with Ray as second name!). I love the name Starr. I know a Willow, River and a Pixie, all girls (Bohemian names I think). Also a Rayna. I like 'Lark' as a middle name. Just a few other ideas.

HelloAllll · 03/07/2022 08:52

Rai is an awful middle name that when put with any name (even a nice first name) screams chav.
Like PP Paw Patrol is my first thought when i think of Skye, although i dont dislike the name. Harper (without Rai) is fine

TurquoiseDress · 03/07/2022 08:57

I have nothing against the names Skye and Harper but with the middle name Rai you'll be forever correcting others who pronounce it "Rye"

Alwayswonderedwhy · 03/07/2022 09:00

Why would you choose those names if you're bohemian?
They are associated with a very different image.

GiveMyHeadPeaceffs · 03/07/2022 09:06

If I was going for a more bohemian name I'd go with River. River's can be gentle and soothing but also powerful, tumultuous and life giving and taking.

One of the rivers on the isle of Sky is the Talisker...Tali for short? (I'm kind of joking on that one Grin). But definitely go with a name you love and not necessarily one that gets MN approval otherwise we'd be overrun with Arlos and Arrabellas Grin

Sev100 · 03/07/2022 09:09

Alwayswonderedwhy · 03/07/2022 09:00

Why would you choose those names if you're bohemian?
They are associated with a very different image.

Says who? It’s subjective actually and in my opinion these are acceptable regardless

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Sev100 · 03/07/2022 09:09

HelloAllll · 03/07/2022 08:52

Rai is an awful middle name that when put with any name (even a nice first name) screams chav.
Like PP Paw Patrol is my first thought when i think of Skye, although i dont dislike the name. Harper (without Rai) is fine

Oh and you must be the queen

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ChagSameachDoreen · 03/07/2022 09:11

I would go back to the drawing board with all of those names.

NocturnalMe · 03/07/2022 09:19

Skye is ok, Harper is better. Skylar and Rai are both awful. To me Rai reads as Rye as well.

Sev100 · 03/07/2022 09:37

NocturnalMe · 03/07/2022 09:19

Skye is ok, Harper is better. Skylar and Rai are both awful. To me Rai reads as Rye as well.

I don’t mind them really but thanks 😊

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NocturnalMe · 03/07/2022 10:43

Why ask for opinions if you don't actually want opinions? Just call you kid whatever you want then!

Sev100 · 03/07/2022 12:09

NocturnalMe · 03/07/2022 10:43

Why ask for opinions if you don't actually want opinions? Just call you kid whatever you want then!

Well, after a few rude and elitist comments it’s made me realise that I will just do this.

your comments were appreciated But by that point I had already decided. And also, I had spelt Ray wrong lol

but thank you 😀

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Luredbyapomegranate · 03/07/2022 12:27

SunshinePie · 03/07/2022 05:38

They don’t sound bohemian to me…they scream chavvy.

This TBH

If Bohemian is what you want OP then you need to think again.

Aria999 · 03/07/2022 14:04

You have had some mean comments.

What did you decide in the end?

Not sure why people are saying Rae is chavvy (I hate the word chavvy), I think it's classic. A bit Star Wars maybe but 🤷‍♀️. DH has a cousin called Leia and it suits her. My mum's middle name was Rae, born in 1952.

sageandbasil · 03/07/2022 16:44

Prefer Harper. Know alot of new baby Harpers atm it seems to be the In name!

CP2701 · 03/07/2022 17:56

There is nothing wrong with your taste in names. Bunch of snobs on here! 😂

I prefer Harlow to Harper but they are both nice.

Harper Skye sounds nice? Skye as a middle name.

PurpleChairs · 03/07/2022 19:05

Some mean comments. A name doesn't make a child a chav.

I think Harper is lovely. I know 2 who are from 'old school money' families, and they are definitely not chavvy.

Pick a name you like and it will be perfect for you child.

kateandme · 04/07/2022 06:01

Sev100 · 03/07/2022 12:09

Well, after a few rude and elitist comments it’s made me realise that I will just do this.

your comments were appreciated But by that point I had already decided. And also, I had spelt Ray wrong lol

but thank you 😀

Skye is not chavvy.at all.its quite judgemental throw back a you've had here op.
This is one of the least chavvy names.and to be judgemental back I'd say it a certain group of people that would disagree or think it's chavvy 🙄aand poor Barnaby would faint if sky picked him to play with.
And I think you clearly like sky better.and eau is a beautiful name.and with your sky's the limit I think your little soaring ray of sunshine goes right on theme.
Go with what u like.you will bring her up to be the best of girls.not(chavvy) I assume.so her name will fit whoever she is just perfect.i see barrister Skye rai winning the Qc award. Or Skye rai running a dolphin retreat in the Bahamas.she might struggle with mental health not be able to dress and live at home forever,she might go on to make a rocket for NASA.who knows.is she loved.cared for.given the best family you can.then she'll be grand.
I think you like Skye rai.go for it

kateandme · 04/07/2022 06:03

Plus haha neighbours has just ended for good and Skye was a wicked character.one of the greats🤗

KirstenBlest · 04/07/2022 14:12

Rai i'd assume to be said as Rye, like the music

Skye isn't too bad but Skylar is awful. Not keen on Harper - it's fine as a surname, as is Rae, but Harper Rae Surname sounds like a firm of accountants

I'd check the surname if using Skye. There's a famous skateboarder whose name seems a bit ridiculous, or like the colour of heavily polluted atmosphere

AliBaliBears · 04/07/2022 15:54

Neither are 'bohemian names to me', the opposite really.

I like Skye, associate it with the beautiful island, but really dislike Skylar.

Harper is ok, not my style but if you love it, go for it.

Ray is better than Rai but just a bit boring - again, not bohemian in the slightest. It just sounds like a filler along with all the Mays, Maes, Raes, Roses, Graces etc. With either Harper or Skye so many names would work well as middle names as neither end in 'a' or 'ie/y' as so many girls names do.

Sgp91 · 19/10/2022 09:50

My two daughters are called Harper and Skylar 'Skye'. Couldn't look back now. Be warned though you'll get old people confused at the names and younger people thinking you're die hard Beckham fans. GL

S25 · 19/10/2022 12:57

Sev100 · 03/07/2022 08:30

Tbh I just liked the name, have family all over the world and these names are nice too.

Reminded me of ‘Sky’s the limit’ and then she can feel so empowered and confident to achieve her own goals, regardless of others 😊😌😄

Thank you so much 💜

Ah that’s lovely. For what it’s worth I think Skye is pretty and the nicer of the two. Harper is nice but so overused at the moment and probably has been since the Beckham’s had their Harper.

How many syllables will baby’s surname be? I guess that will help us with suggestions of middle names.

I think the following are super pretty and fit your boho vibe 😊:

Skye Juniper
Skye Joni
Skye Seren
Skye Brontë
Skye Ariadne
Skye Alyvia

caitlinrose · 19/10/2022 13:06

Skye. It's always on and off our list because I can't really make up my mind but I like it a lot. Skylar is a name my husband likes but I find it way too trendy.

Harper - this is way too popular, trendy and associated with a major celebrity's child so I would stay away from it. I think it will sound dated soon and doesn't really have a classy image.

Skye - this is pretty. Isle of Skye. Natural. I sometimes find it a bit 2000s dated but not overly so.

Skylar - Skye is better. I would strongly recommend just using Skye because I also think that Skylar will date more heavily and it's associated with a TV character. I do imagine a Skylar to be friendly and nice, though.

Skye but with a different middle name. Rai looks very trendy. Ray is better. Maybe Skye Raya?

caitlinrose · 19/10/2022 13:10

PurpleChairs · 03/07/2022 19:05

Some mean comments. A name doesn't make a child a chav.

I think Harper is lovely. I know 2 who are from 'old school money' families, and they are definitely not chavvy.

Pick a name you like and it will be perfect for you child.

Me too, but he's a boy.