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Mary

83 replies

brightwave · 18/09/2021 13:36

Opinions?

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GreeboIsMySpiritAnimal · 19/09/2021 18:24

My grandma and mum were/are Mary, and it's DD's middle name.

I like it. Strong if unglamorous name.

Pieceofpurplesky · 19/09/2021 18:28

Gorgeous. Have a couple where I teach (high school)

bloominglovelyorange · 19/09/2021 18:39

It's nice but I'd worry about "Virgin Mary" jokes at school particularly if a religious school

SingingGoldfinch · 20/09/2021 11:20

@mummatomason oh yes - I remember the ' Mary had a little lamb' jokes at school now you mention them! I used to get asked where my lamb was quite a bit. It clearly didn't scar me though! Every name comes with potential playground jokes I think? I don't remember ever hearing any 'virgin Mary' jokes - and I never even got to play Mary in the school nativity!

PoolNooodle · 20/09/2021 11:22

I’m not too keen on it, there was a little girl in the park called mary the other day and I do remember being surprised to hear it on a young girl (maybe 5 or 6)

MrsBungle · 20/09/2021 11:23

Lovely

WaitinginVain · 20/09/2021 11:39

I'd like to like it but don't - it doesn't sound strong or classic to me, just a bit ugly sounding.

Strangely, like a PP, I do quite like it if used together with another name, especially Mary Ann. Also agree Maria is a prettier alternative.

DocAutumn · 20/09/2021 11:52

I would never say May Ray.
I say Mare ree
I love it!

Kindertonguehappierlife · 20/09/2021 17:21

Beautiful

mummatomason · 20/09/2021 19:38

[quote SingingGoldfinch]@mummatomason oh yes - I remember the ' Mary had a little lamb' jokes at school now you mention them! I used to get asked where my lamb was quite a bit. It clearly didn't scar me though! Every name comes with potential playground jokes I think? I don't remember ever hearing any 'virgin Mary' jokes - and I never even got to play Mary in the school nativity! [/quote]
Yer exactly, kids will always find a way to tease about every name, just wanted to let the OP know about my experience personally with the name, and hairy mary come to me after i posted, used to drive me mad.
I had the opposite, i was always picked to be mary in the school play and i was mega shy so it was a nightmare Blush.

But i do get alot of compliments now im older on my name. I think it suits all ages too Smile

LizzieAnt · 20/09/2021 20:03

Love Mary

manhattenrain · 20/09/2021 20:19

Mary is a beautiful name.

bigbeatmanifesto · 20/09/2021 20:19

It was on my list for DD beautiful name.

SirChenjins · 20/09/2021 20:20

I love it - classic, classy and not too popular.

reprehensibleme · 20/09/2021 20:21

Great name. Classic, underused, no issues with spelling or pronunciation.

OnceMoreOnToTheBeach · 20/09/2021 20:25

I absolutely love it! I also love Margaret.

We very nearly used Maria for one of ours, which is another option. We liked Maria on its own and also because it had some NN potential, which Mary may not really.

Yogsgirl · 20/09/2021 20:27

It's a classical biblical name. I know an 11 year old Mary and it really suits her.

Enough4me · 20/09/2021 20:27

Prefer Maria, Marie, Marianne or Marianna.

adrianmolesmole · 20/09/2021 21:27

Bit of a 'Jane' name but not unattractive.

BeeandG · 20/09/2021 21:32

Really like it. My sister is a Mary and it's my dd1 middle name in honour of her. Solid strong name.

daisypond · 20/09/2021 21:38

It’s a great name - simple, elegant, pedigree and really refreshing these days.

WhenZoomWasJustAnIceLolly · 20/09/2021 21:44

I think it’s really lovely. But be aware that it means vulva in some parts of the country.

Elisemum · 21/09/2021 00:34

Hairy Mary, Virgin Mary- that’s what’s she would be called :( anyway this is a name absolutely reserved for grannies or some church obsessed people I think.. it’s ok name but there are hundredths of better names. I wouldn’t do it to a child , I’m sorry OP

MyPatronusIsACat · 21/09/2021 00:42

Shock Noooo.

PaolaDiLorenzo · 21/09/2021 00:42

It's my middle name and I absolutely hate it. It just seems so o!d fashioned. My first name is not much better either.