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Scarlet or Violet?

58 replies

Antty · 19/09/2016 16:40

Which do you prefer?

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ElvenMoonwings · 19/09/2016 22:13

I know both can be thought of as colours, among other things such as the flower, but to me they have drastically different images. For Scarlet the phrase "a scarlet woman" comes to mind, and for Violet the phrase "a shrinking violet" comes to mind. Scarlet is a colour associated with danger and sexual passion, while violet is a colour which is associated with mourning, and it means modesty in flower language.

Scarlett also reminds me of Scarlett O'Hara in Gone With The Wind. She was beautiful and attractive, but also impetuous and selfish and very strong-willed. Not really a "good woman" sort of character.

So they have such drastically different images to me. I like Violet much more. I love blue violet flowers and violet perfume, and I think Violet sounds very sweet and demure, and I personally would prefer sweet and demure to feisty and the other connotations.

I think Violet is rising in popularity now, so though Scarlett has been more popular, I don't think Violet's a rare name either

SpringBail · 19/09/2016 22:14

Violet is a really pretty name, Scarlet IMO is a bit meh!

Pudding01 · 19/09/2016 22:16

Violet! It's prettier & in my opinion, classier Smile

NoncommittalToSparkleMotion · 19/09/2016 22:17

Ooh, I love both!

One of those "wait til you see the baby" situations.

katemess12 · 19/09/2016 22:20

I like both equally, but only like Scarlett spelt with two t's.

funfunapple · 19/09/2016 22:21

Violet. Scarlett is dreadful and affected

WitchesGlove · 19/09/2016 22:23

Like both

Would go with Violet though

Sophronia · 20/09/2016 11:31

Violet

MrsCaecilius · 20/09/2016 11:54

Violet. Pretty, classic, graceful.

All the Scarletts I've met have been spoilt little Madams. But that's just my association with the name!

AdaLovelacesCat · 20/09/2016 11:58

Violet is a nice name, but add just one letter and you get 'Violent'.
Scarlett is a bit over-used these days tbh.

Pipilangstrumpf · 20/09/2016 12:05

Another vote for Violet! Beautiful and classic.

Really dislike Scarlet, sounds harsh and reminds me of a scar!

Fauchelevent · 20/09/2016 12:14

I know a wonderful, artsy and cool Scarlett who does a lot of great things. Violet reminds me a bit of violent.

BadToTheBone · 20/09/2016 12:21

Much prefer Scarlett, Violet is too wishy washy for me and I know 3 under 5 however, I know no Scarlett's.

Loafingaround · 21/09/2016 08:02

Much prefer Violet. Violet sounds graceful, feminine but ever so slightly whimsical/bohemian so individual. Scarlet to me is brash and very overused.

2015 baby name list if any interest- Violet= 83 Scarlett = 22.

Pudding01 · 22/09/2016 19:22

Have you made a decision?

KatieScarlett · 22/09/2016 19:31

Scarlett

Scarlet or Violet?
KatieScarlett · 22/09/2016 19:32

Violet

Scarlet or Violet?
cornishglos · 22/09/2016 20:19

Which colour do you prefer?

QueenLizIII · 23/09/2016 00:53

Dont like either of them. They are both very harsh sounding names.

Scarlett has the word Scar in it.

Violet sounds very similar to Violent / Violence.

I guess you could have the NN Lettie for Scarlett which would make me choose it as you can have a softer NN.

0pti0na1 · 23/09/2016 20:20

Violet

Stilldreamingofsun · 23/09/2016 20:28

Would you consider Viola?

MotherDuckSaid · 24/09/2016 09:43

IMO they r very different names, id go with Violet as it evokes beautiful things and would sit well on all ages, I like the name Scarlett, but its a much harder sounding name and the connotations of scarlet woman and fever put me off it! Its also quite popular now, whereas ive never met a little violet and defo think its due a comeback 😊

MotherDuckSaid · 24/09/2016 09:46

Oooh Viola is nice

Only1scoop · 24/09/2016 09:48

Violet by a mile

Ditsy4 · 24/09/2016 09:51

Scarlett, not keen on Violet. Wait until she arrives as it will help you decide.

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