I think it was accidental troll hunting because some one weirdly thought it was fading ring that ops name was oliva and the poster in the Madilyn thread had a son called Oliver And there both called Grey. Instead of using what a coincidence. (Not really Grey is a very common surname and Oliver is a common boys name) they used, equally as weirdly as finding it interesting there were two people called Grey on the Board, "small world" which does imply the Op either knows the other person or while troll hunting is the other person.
I don't think any offence was actually meant, or they were knowingly troll hunting just noticed something not partially relevant or interesting and uses a phase that has a common meaning to mean something else that only the poster uses it for.
Sorry for your loss Olivia, and Ronan Angel flows better, but are you of Irish desent is that why you want to use Ronan?! I just think it would be nice to have both your cultures if that's the case Ronan Kai Angel, or Angel Ronan Kai?!
Actually no I've said that out loud Angel Ronan Kai sounds lovely.