Did you call your dc a name you didn't love ?

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30wks with ds1 (dc2) and we have settled on a name but only because I can't find any that I like more than the picked one , not because I love it. I loved DDs name and still do so I'm finding it hard to just "settle" but it really is the only one I can imagine using .

Dis anyone else use a name that was best od a bit lot type thing and do you get used to it?

We did tbh. Dd1's name we love, dd2's name was nice, she needed a name, & she was a week old so time was ticking. She's 11m now & I really like her name but it's still not a patch on Dd1's name to me.

We did with one of our triplets. I think I loved it at the time, but I was in a bit of a state with 3 prem newborns and couldn't decide between the 2 names - both beginning with 'A'.
It probably sounds horrible, but I know most children 'grow into' their name, regardless of what it is, but DD just really suits the other 'A' name :(
I wish I'd changed her name earlier, but DTriplets are 3 now and its a bit too late!!

Yes, DD1s name was a compromise as DH and I foolishly vetoes each others no.1 choice. So, her name is one I initially liked but took a long time to love (she's 3.6yo now).

Didn't make the same error with DD2. I love, love, LOVE her name. Well, she took 2 years TTC and 6 Clomid cycles, so
I had more time than most to think about it!

MammaT

I couldn't, I think.

I know mine will be end up with a name I don't love because I can't think of a single one that feels 'right', I've spent hours trawling name websites with no luck, all my favourite names have been used up on my dogs over the years :(

I'm 11 weeks pregnant and am hoping it's the sickness that's causing the apathy and I'll feel better in tri 2 and able to make a decision.

Yes, although I liked it.

DH was adamant; "This baby will be a boy, and we will call him X"

If DS had been a girl, I would have chosen the name, and DH would have taken about 2 minutes to get his head around the fact he had a daughter.

Now, I cannot imagine DS being called anything else.

And really, Amadeus wouldn't have suited him.

I have 3 DC's and I don't love any of their names.
My DH and I have such differing tastes that each name was one we could both 'tolerate'.

I still feel quite sad about it. But what can you do?

He wanted to call our DC Alan or Samantha
When we married I had no idea he was stuck in the seventies.

He thought (and still thinks!) Evie is too way out there

DD got a name we both loved.

The two boys however got compromise names, as we had very different ideas on what was a suitable boy's name. However, I am more than happy with their names, so it all worked out fine in the end. On the other hand DD's name I would quite happily change if I had my time again.

Alan and Samantha! :o :o :o

It it difficult, I think. Our DS2 was named after my uncle, but it wasn't the name I wanted. DH had said in no uncertain terms that my no. 1 name was not to his taste even when I bought it up again when I was being stitched up after labour, looking to blackmail him emotionally... So we named him something I liked, but didn't adore.
I absolutely love it now. It suits him so well. It's a brilliant name!

We had kind of run out of names we loved by DS4

My dd has a name I like, but don't love. I love her middle name but I was swayed by other people's opinions. Neither of them are the name I loved though. Dh didn't like it the bastard

I didn't even like ds1's name. Dp and i couldn't decide, so he told friends and family Ds1 had a name. His patents git to hospital, told me they were ok with his name, i Saudi i hated it. They told me i couldn't as they were used to it. I quite like it now.

Ds2's name i really love, even though it isn't my number 1, 2 or 3.

• 1, 2 or 3 favourite name.

Yes, DS1 we couldnt rdecide on a name and went with one we quite liked, our fave name didnt go with surname (well known sportin person). Im still a bit about it 19 years later

DS2, DP had a name he really wanted to use - I wasnt sure but love it now.

Yes because DH had his heart set on it and it's a nice enough name

Oh no I'm scaaaared

What if I never find a name I love ??!!!! Heeeelp !

i don't love DD's name but there was no way exH was going to agree on the name i like, so it's a compromise name.

When I had DS1 we were so convinced he would be a she (thank you new sonographer for getting it wrong) that we had a girls name and pink babygrows in the hospital.. we had no boys names at all. Fast forward to DS being 6 weeks old and still no name and I got a phonecall from the registry office to say I would get fined if I didn't register him asap.

We then sort of agreed on the only name we hadn't hated.. fast forward to nearly 3 years later and it is perfect for him, he could never have been called anything else!

Yes. DH really wanted DS to be called the name we ended up giving him. I wanted him to be called Oliver. I don't mind his name but I still love Oliver. My best friend has just had a son and named him Oliver. Of course I am thrilled for her but I admit I had a little pang of jealousy over the name

Well the name we have decided on is jacob . Others we considered were Gabriel , Noah and alexander nn Xander . But I went off all the rest quickly Jacob seems to be the one that's really sticking around .

dd1 got a name dh loved and a family name from my side. Dd2 got a name I loved and a family name from dh's side. Really can't imagine them being anything else. We're a bit out of good ideas for number 3 though, hence lots of threads on here.