OK OK firstly yes I did read messages on his phone. I needed to know what time to get him up to go to footy (he works nights, not lazy!!) and knew there would be a text...
They were to his ex, who we still see socially once in a blue moon, as we don't get out much.
She asks him a question about dd's birthday...
He replies 'hey there sexy, blah blah, how are you...
She say I'm fine, at work in beautiful house with nice views blah better get back to it...am feeling ill, happy halloween...
He says take vit c for throat gorgeous, don't you mean cheeky little devil (eh?) house sounds nice blah, must get my lazy fay arse out of bed but don't want to, happy halloween to you too cheeky little devil...
She says she has to agree on cheeky, going out tonight not dressing up over the top blah...
He says have fun with the ladies, that cheeky devil outfit was a sexy little number, blah blah lol, big hugs sexy.
Sorry to give a detailed thingy but you need the whole picture here...
I'm pissed off that his texts are full of sexy and gorgeous and reminding her of some dressing up thing they got up to. I would not do this to an ex on text. it makes me feel a bit weird talking about sexual things with ex's, had one before who used to go on about it after we broke up and asked him to tone it down as it was weird, now my dp seems to be doing it.
It makes me livid to read this and I know the obvious answer is not to snoop, why does he do it, what would you say/do/think?
Having read that through for typos (as you do!) I have seen how silly it sounds, however I am still angry and upset he is so over familiar with her...