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Dd to learn in an automatic from the start?

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makemineadecaf · 01/11/2026 11:46

Dd will be 17 next year and is already nagging me about lessons for her birthday. My husband and I both drive autos (but both drive manuals for donkeys before). Now I’m in an automatic, I’ll literally never go back. And isn’t it the sign of the times for manuals to become redundant?

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TaptheCap · 02/11/2026 13:05

Scarcityvarcity · 02/11/2026 12:59

I don't think so. I can type as fast as I can think on a computer and spellcheck quickly sorts out errors. A couple of colleagues can Touch Type after doing RSA courses in the 80s and 90s and they aren't getting reports done any quicker because of it nowadays.

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I'm amazed you can type that quickly and aren't touch typing.

I'm also amazed you haven't just picked up touch typing, most people who use computers and type quickly just pick it up.

It's rare to see a two-finger typist these days!

TaptheCap · 02/11/2026 13:07

Scarcityvarcity · 02/11/2026 13:05

How do they know it will be hard though if they have never done it?

Because once you've passed your test, having to spend more money and time on lessons and redoing your test is a pain in the ass. It's hard enough finding money for your first set of lessons, without doing it all over again a second time.

InterIgnis · 02/11/2026 13:09

I passed my test in an auto, and in the years since I’ve never needed to drive manual.

If she’s not interested in learning manual, why force it? If for whatever reason she wants to learn it in the future, she can. Let her learn in and pass for automatic if that’s what she wants.

Scarcityvarcity · 02/11/2026 13:11

TaptheCap · 02/11/2026 13:05

I'm amazed you can type that quickly and aren't touch typing.

I'm also amazed you haven't just picked up touch typing, most people who use computers and type quickly just pick it up.

It's rare to see a two-finger typist these days!

I don't think we are talking about the same thing regarding touch typing. I am referring to the old fashioned RSA typing that secretaries used to do on a type writer. You can't just pick it up.

Crwysmam · 02/11/2026 13:25

My DS learned to drive in an automatic. The car he was going to drive was an automatic and I wanted him focussed on road awareness rather than gear changing and clutch control.

One bonus is that insurance is significantly cheaper. Premiums are calculated on accident statistics so the most expensive cars to insure for teenagers are the ones that most of them drive. Very few teenage boys drive automatic Polos so accident rates are low as are insurance premiums. Fortunately DS is not a petrol head and a car is just for getting him from A to B, a recycling container for MacDonalds containers and overflow wardrobe for sports kit, his and several of his friends.

TheNoisyGreyLion · 02/11/2026 13:49

I think manuals will soon be redundant and I don’t think the argument about only being able to hire manuals abroad holds up. HOWEVER, my DD’s have learnt in a manual and now drive a manual, purely to slow them down.

CitrusBlossom · 02/11/2026 15:23

I have an auto licence. It’s never disadvantaged me.

IMO there’s no point learning on a manual unless you want to do a job that involves driving vehicles other than your own. Manuals are fast becoming redundant.

330ml · 02/11/2026 15:24

Scarcityvarcity · 02/11/2026 11:27

You would probably get kudos for being able to touch type on a typewriter too. Doesn't mean it is useful.

Errrr… touch typing is a very useful skill. I can do that too.

I usually drive an auto, as does DH, but we also have several manual vehicles so being able to actually drive them is quite useful.

I do appreciate that driving a manual isn’t essential for most in this day and age.

AltitudeCheck · 02/11/2026 16:51

BoredZelda · 02/11/2026 12:56

It isn’t hard at all. People talk about learning in a manual takes a monumental effort. It doesn’t. It’s a bit of clutch control. The vast majority of learning to drive is vehicle position and handling, road awareness etc. The mechanics of changing gear is really minimal in the scheme of things. I switch between the two a lot and sure, every once in a while, I stall at the first roundabout I come to because I forgot I was in a manual, but once you are on your way it is not a problem.

Think you misunderstood me, if you learned manual then it's easier to switch to an automatic because you can just get in a car and drive.

If OP's DD learns in an automatic and then needs to learn manual later it is harder that way around, not just learning the clutch control, but also more hoops to jump through as you need to arrange a vehicle to practice in and take another test and I think a lot of qualified drivers might find a practical test quite daunting!

Isobel201 · 02/11/2026 17:05

I've driven automatic only for twenty years since 2007 and had no problem sourcing small automatic cars. Now some manufacturers are not even making manual cars anymore and the move to hybrids and EVs are increasing, I don't see the point in anyone learning to drive manual unless it was a specific HGV driving job they were training for.

Scarcityvarcity · 02/11/2026 17:23

AltitudeCheck · 02/11/2026 16:51

Think you misunderstood me, if you learned manual then it's easier to switch to an automatic because you can just get in a car and drive.

If OP's DD learns in an automatic and then needs to learn manual later it is harder that way around, not just learning the clutch control, but also more hoops to jump through as you need to arrange a vehicle to practice in and take another test and I think a lot of qualified drivers might find a practical test quite daunting!

Very unlikely they would need to switch to a manual license and if they did I don't think it would be difficult if someone was already used to driving. It wouldn't be like starting from scratch and probably would only need to pay for a couple of lessons.

Scarcityvarcity · 02/11/2026 17:27

330ml · 02/11/2026 15:24

Errrr… touch typing is a very useful skill. I can do that too.

I usually drive an auto, as does DH, but we also have several manual vehicles so being able to actually drive them is quite useful.

I do appreciate that driving a manual isn’t essential for most in this day and age.

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Did you take RSA exams or similar? I know a couple of people who have those qualifications and while they are very fast (about 90 words a minute) I don't think they need to be. I can type as fast as I can think as can most people nowadays if they use the computer a lot. Plus there is now dictation software which is extremelt speedy too.

MumDadBingoBlueyy · 02/11/2026 19:11

Scarcityvarcity · 02/11/2026 08:38

People aren't allowed to drive minibuses anyway nowadays with an ordinary license if they received it after a certain date (I think 1997).

There’s a loop hole that many schools use which means you can drive a light minibus on a regular licence 😬

Shteen · 02/11/2026 19:51

MumDadBingoBlueyy · 02/11/2026 19:11

There’s a loop hole that many schools use which means you can drive a light minibus on a regular licence 😬

I think I'd quite glad of an excuse not to drive the school minibus!

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