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How are people using AI to help with everyday life?

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Question12458 · 02/10/2026 20:44

How is your household utilising AI to your benefit? Looking for some inspo

I’ve been using ChatGPT (paid) for 2 years, this week I spoke to somebody who’s got a 2nd brain. (Collects all data from multiple sources) and is totally customised to them. Totally opened my eyes to what we can achieve

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whatsgoingonhey · 04/10/2026 09:42

TheKeatingFive · 04/10/2026 09:31

If people see the benefits to them they will use it. Nothing you can do about that.

I don’t care what other people do. But I’m saying it will destroy any creativity and human interaction with the internet. It just steals and regurgitates.

PenCreed · 04/10/2026 09:43

664eek · 04/10/2026 06:42

A year ago I felt a bit like this. Now the culture at my employer has completely changed and we’d be considered incompetent if we weren’t using AI- it’s an ordinary skill that employees are expected to have and insisting on writing everything yourself would be treated a bit like insisting on writing letters with a quill rather than sending an email- fine in your own time but at work you need to be more efficient than that. And as the technology continues to improve it will go more and more this way.

I don’t know how this will all end up. Quite pleased to be retiring in the next few years because mass redundancies seem likely, and I fear that people who can’t/wont adapt will be first to go, in my area at least.

That’s depressing. I can see the benefits of using it for data analysis etc (which isn’t part of my job) but I write better than AI does! And I understand my subject better too. The enquiries we get which are written using AI really show that AI doesn’t understand the complexities of research.

RikthePoet · 04/10/2026 09:43

Periperi2025 · 03/10/2026 23:09

I used it to get a significant promotion.

I've always struggled with interview, to the point that it has held me back in my career.
I asked Gemini and ChatGPT to give me an interview via the voice function based on the person spec/ job description i uploaded.
Due to the ridicolously short notice we were all given from advert to interview, none of us got recruited first time round 'because we weren't prepared enough' (?!). But the interview was pretty fair, so i hedged my bets, and got AI to run through the same full length interview a dozen times before round 2.

AI is amazing for this, it even butts in and prompts you if your hesitating or fluffing. Then gives its usually affirming/ validating feedback which is a nice confidence boost, but i would also ask it for honest critic, and then when it told me the questions i was struggling on, ask it to script me a perfect answer (it had my CV/ personal statement, plus all my pervious answers to build from) which it would. Then I'd start from the top again.

I got the job with a unanimous decision and there were a lot of applicants.

Definetly a game changer, and levels the playing field for talented people who have a block when it comes to interview.

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How?

You've just regurgitated what the robot told you to say!

Anyone can do that.

I could do that with no knowledge of the job.

You've found a way of creating bland, machine-supplied answers which ultimately are of no use at all to employers because anyone can create them.

So they will have to create new ways to test candidates which actually test candidates' abilities.

YouHaveAnArse · 04/10/2026 09:44

UniquePinkSwan · 03/10/2026 18:29

So is driving and having children.

I assume you have neither…

I don't. But someone needs to keep having children to keep the species going, so this is an odd argument to me.

YouHaveAnArse · 04/10/2026 09:51

Impostermum · 03/10/2026 14:27

Before AI ...

Dear SENCO,

That sounds great. It's good to know he's totally fine once in.

Thx.

And now...

Dear SENCO,

Thank you for your response. While I appreciate your reassurance that he appears "totally fine" once inside school, outward presentation should not be treated as reliable evidence that a child is not experiencing distress, particularly where masking may be a factor.

Please could you confirm, in writing, how the school intends to meet its duties under the Equality Act 2010, the Children and Families Act 2014 and the SEND Code of Practice, including what reasonable adjustments will be implemented to support his emotional regulation, transition into school and access to education.

I would also be grateful for copies of all relevant policies, the name of the person responsible for monitoring these measures, a proposed review date and the minutes of any meeting at which somebody has used the phrase "resilient young man."

Should an appropriate support plan not be forthcoming within five working days, I reserve the right to escalate the matter to the local authority, Ofsted, the Department for Education, the European Court of Human Rights and, depending on how the afternoon goes, the United Nations.

Kind Regards

Concerned Parent

Haha I could have written this!

I deal with a lot of people who for various reasons are not very confident writers, and I can completely see that AI would be useful to help them put together a formal email. However, I find I get a lot more useful information and insight out of a badly written massive paragraph someone typed out themselves than the kind of generic legalese that MLMs will come out with for someone who doesn't have the knowledge/experience to know which parts are unnecessary or irrelevant.

HappyViewer · 04/10/2026 09:54

whatsgoingonhey · 04/10/2026 09:12

Not remotely similar

Totally the same, lots of these posts remind me of comments people made when the internet was brand new.

Waitingfordoggo · 04/10/2026 10:01

HappyViewer · 04/10/2026 09:54

Totally the same, lots of these posts remind me of comments people made when the internet was brand new.

And to be fair, they had a point. While the internet has been a brilliant thing in many ways; it’s pretty bad for the planet, and social media and internet porn have both caused very significant problems for humanity.

AI seems likely to cause problems for the environment, and for human intelligence, communication, creativity and resilience. It’s completely valid for people to be extremely concerned about it, and people mocking us/calling us Luddites or whatever doesn’t change that.

Dorsetisbeautiful · 04/10/2026 10:01

I have quite a few rare auto immune diseases and it’s more helpful than a doctor and kinder.

DoubleShotEspresso · 04/10/2026 10:05

Brendayouknowthatyouremuchtoolazy · 02/10/2026 22:24

It appears an increasing number of parents use it to write extremely long, tedious emails to school. I am very fed up with them already and I suspect this is the tip of the time wasting iceberg.

Have these awful parents all taken time out their day purely to irritate you?
Or are they perhaps seeking answers to missing provisions?
I know an increasing number of mainstream SEND parents using AI to convey the queries they are not getting answered any other way. The fact that many schools have placed barriers to communications with class teachers & SENDCO’s just drives this trend, whilst we all know that teaching teams are limited on free time, this shouldn’t mean that parents are not provided with updates needed.
Just making the point that working with parents is so much easier than the cat & mouse game so many are forced to navigate…
I don’t doubt some communications are to you minor or pointless, but often a little response / info goes a long way…
(I don’t use AI but am sad how easily spotted it becomes in such emails these days)

Melarus · 04/10/2026 10:08

TheKeatingFive · 04/10/2026 09:28

For day to day things it can easily be avoided for now.

My elderly father has avoided the internet thus far, for example. If he can do that 😂

However in a general sense I do agree, life does move on. That’s true on multiple fronts. Most people don’t like all the various changes they see, but change is inevitable.

In a general sense, yes, we have to accept that technology develops and our lives change. But in a specific-to-me sense, no. If I was sacked and replaced at work by an AI agent, I wouldn't be so breezy about it! And in my industry that's a real risk.

TheKeatingFive · 04/10/2026 10:17

Melarus · 04/10/2026 10:08

In a general sense, yes, we have to accept that technology develops and our lives change. But in a specific-to-me sense, no. If I was sacked and replaced at work by an AI agent, I wouldn't be so breezy about it! And in my industry that's a real risk.

I think it’s a real risk in lots of industries, but we’ve been through plenty of these events before where automation replaces workers, it’s just life. Employment has (thus far) adapted to new conditions. Think of how different the working world is now compared to 40years ago.

I think there’s plenty to be concerned about with AI, but it’s part of a bigger picture where technology comes in, is adopted and changes how we do things. It’s not an anomaly in that sense.

Beachtastic · 04/10/2026 10:25

AI is incredibly useful. I use Copilot to

Troubleshoot software glitches that would previously have had me trawling through pages of Microsoft/Reddit suggested answers in search of an effective solution

Identify emotional patterns in tricky situations

Offer sensitive feedback on creative writing - it's very good for this, with insightful comments on revisions

Refine my training plan (running etc) and measure progress in detail

Also other random stuff like identifying an unusual pebble found on a beach!

Ginmonkeyagain · 04/10/2026 11:05

As someone who has to read and answer some of those emails and letters people get AI to wrote to organisations.... I really wish peope wouldn't.

Everyone has seen massive increase in verbose, badly written and often down right wrong letters nd emails. It's really tedious having to try and extract the relevant detail from the acres of badly written robot wank. And oh my god tbe bullet points. Make it stop!

ccccccccc · 04/10/2026 11:31

I avoid it whenever possible. When I use Google search it is the top of the list and is often obviously incomplete and sometimes wrong - but you can't turn it off.

escapegoats · 04/10/2026 11:37

Ginmonkeyagain · 04/10/2026 11:05

As someone who has to read and answer some of those emails and letters people get AI to wrote to organisations.... I really wish peope wouldn't.

Everyone has seen massive increase in verbose, badly written and often down right wrong letters nd emails. It's really tedious having to try and extract the relevant detail from the acres of badly written robot wank. And oh my god tbe bullet points. Make it stop!

Yes. It's wasting a huge amount of public sector time now I understand. And you will end up with the public sector deciding to get AI to write the response and then really what is the point any more ?

whatsgoingonhey · 04/10/2026 11:43

ccccccccc · 04/10/2026 11:31

I avoid it whenever possible. When I use Google search it is the top of the list and is often obviously incomplete and sometimes wrong - but you can't turn it off.

If you search and put -AI at the end it turns it off but you need to do it for every search

DoubleShotEspresso · 04/10/2026 11:51

I have this irrational fear if I leap down the AI rabbit hole my brain will not function as it does now.
I can research my own information perfectly easily , why is there a need?
It’s the same way I don’t want to forget important phone numbers just because my iPhone remembers them for me…
Agree wholeheartedly at the poorly written messages being so easy to identify too…

ChizzleMeNizzzle · 04/10/2026 11:58

PinkCatCushion · 02/10/2026 22:16

It’s absolutely terrible for the environment so I try and avoid it as much as possible. A simple Google search will usually do the trick.

How is it terrible for the environment?

BurntBroccoli · 04/10/2026 12:20

PenCreed · 02/10/2026 22:05

I don't use it. If someone told me they were using it to eg write emails or reports for work then I would genuinely consider that they weren't competent to do things themselves. My research skills are also pretty good (it's a crucial part of my job) so I don't trust it to do research because I see the enquiries we get at work, which would genuinely be easier to parse and answer if AI hadn't been used.

But Google gives AI as the first reply now.
Do you still use Google?

YouHaveAnArse · 04/10/2026 12:29

ChizzleMeNizzzle · 04/10/2026 11:58

How is it terrible for the environment?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Environmental_impact_of_AI

I'm personally irritated that the growth of data centres has led to memory cards being three times the price they were last year. Thankfully I don't need a new phone or computer any time soon.

Environmental impact of AI - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Environmental_impact_of_AI

YouHaveAnArse · 04/10/2026 12:30

BurntBroccoli · 04/10/2026 12:20

But Google gives AI as the first reply now.
Do you still use Google?

I use DuckDuckGo purely because you can configure it to be very stripped down and omit distracting things like AI summaries. That's more of an accessibility thing for me though.

RikthePoet · 04/10/2026 12:45

Beachtastic · 04/10/2026 10:25

AI is incredibly useful. I use Copilot to

Troubleshoot software glitches that would previously have had me trawling through pages of Microsoft/Reddit suggested answers in search of an effective solution

Identify emotional patterns in tricky situations

Offer sensitive feedback on creative writing - it's very good for this, with insightful comments on revisions

Refine my training plan (running etc) and measure progress in detail

Also other random stuff like identifying an unusual pebble found on a beach!

Using a robot to critique your human creativity is possibly the dumbest thing I've read so far on this thread.

It has no insights. It has no sensitivity. LLMs are literally "the kind of things people might say next in this kind of situation" machines.

Ginmonkeyagain · 04/10/2026 12:52

Exactly, it is a probability machine. It has no original insight or creativity.

I sometimes use it to do more complex searches or tidy up or shorten a document I habe writen. I have also found it quite good at making dull, wordy powerpoint slides a bit cleaner or better presented.

Periperi2025 · 04/10/2026 13:00

RikthePoet · 04/10/2026 09:43

How?

You've just regurgitated what the robot told you to say!

Anyone can do that.

I could do that with no knowledge of the job.

You've found a way of creating bland, machine-supplied answers which ultimately are of no use at all to employers because anyone can create them.

So they will have to create new ways to test candidates which actually test candidates' abilities.

No I haven't.
I have inputted my unique personal statement written by me and about me which included specific clinical scenerios that I have experienced of decades of clinical practice across several specialities, followed my multiple verbal answers inputted by me in every attempt.
All it does is put those thoughts in order, gives both positive and negative feedback and help me get me to 'regurgitate' my OWN personal epxeriences, thoughts and feelings using a recognised STAR format expected in interview.
It's then helped me practice them over and over in a reasonable mock up of an interview rather than feeling like an idiot stood in front of a mirror, which has only ever made my crippling interview anxiety (paranoia) a million times worse in the past, or in writting which never worked, i've never struggled with getting my thoughts down coherently on paper, it is turning them into a coherant sentence under pressure of a full interview panel that is my problem.

Beachtastic · 04/10/2026 13:04

RikthePoet · 04/10/2026 12:45

Using a robot to critique your human creativity is possibly the dumbest thing I've read so far on this thread.

It has no insights. It has no sensitivity. LLMs are literally "the kind of things people might say next in this kind of situation" machines.

Have you tried it? It was considerably more useful to me than a couple of professional editorial assessments.

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