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Who should pay for flights?

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AIBU76 · Today 19:43

Person A and person B are going on holiday and paid separately for their flights. Person B had a bereavement so Person A cancelled the hotel believing that Person B wouldnt want to go anymore. Person A did not speak to Person B about this at all before cancelling. Person B hadnt said anything about not wanting to go and cancellation was done only a few days after bereavement. Person B can't get a refund for flights as travel insurance small print doesnt cover a relative dying from a pre existing condition and both flight companies only refund if the death was within 10 days of flight. Who should pay for Person B's flights?

OP posts:
AnnaQuayRules · Today 19:45

Person A

They should have checked before cancelling

blubberyboo · Today 19:45

A should rebook the hotel

BlueMum16 · Today 19:46

I'm confused.

Does person B want to still go? If so why are they cancelling the flights. Just book a hotel and go away.

TruffleSlinky · Today 19:47

Can't they book a different hotel?

BaronessBomburst · Today 19:50

Just book different accommodation.
But person A should pay and/ or cover any shortfalls; they made an assumption.

Savvysix1984 · Today 19:50

Person A. But why can’t person B book another hotel and just go?

Catza · Today 19:53

I am also confused about why would anyone need to pay for flights?
I am sure there is more than one hotel at their destination if the original one no longer has rooms.
If person A cancelled their own flights, they should pay for person's B accommodation. But good luck actually enforcing it...

LizandDerekGoals · Today 20:00

BlueMum16 · Today 19:46

I'm confused.

Does person B want to still go? If so why are they cancelling the flights. Just book a hotel and go away.

This.

GladysHeeler · Today 20:02

So nobody cancelled the flights.

DewDropsAndCobWebs · Today 20:04

Book a new accommodation?

Thisusernameisalwaysavailable · Today 20:07

Why would B cancel their flight?

ColdAsAWitches · Today 20:08

You're obviously Person B as Person A wouldn't include all the details about insurance. Assuming A cancelled flights not the hotel, they should pay because they cancelled without even discussing it. If they just cancelled the hotel though, why should they pay for flights?

NullaEffugium · Today 20:09

Book a new hotel? Failing to see why the flights need to be cancelled.

Jellybunny98 · Today 20:11

Not sure why anyone has to pay for the flights? If B wants to go all they have to do is book another hotel.

DaftFunk · Today 20:17

At least no one cancelled the cheque

HambleTheDoll · Today 20:19

Just book another hotel. What sort of idiot cancels without checking?

onewayanyway · Today 20:27

If it can’t be rebooked person A needs to
co er person B loss as they should have checked before cancelling

AIBU76 · Today 20:37

Person B doesnt want to go on holiday alone

OP posts:
BlueMum16 · Today 20:39

AIBU76 · Today 20:37

Person B doesnt want to go on holiday alone

So why doesn't person A want to go?

Catza · Today 20:43

AIBU76 · Today 20:37

Person B doesnt want to go on holiday alone

Then they should probably not force person A to compensate them for the flight which they can take but choose not to.

TruffleSlinky · Today 20:46

So did Person A cancel their own flights? Did they get a refund?

dairydebris · Today 20:50

So the flights aren't cancelled?
The hotel is canceled, was it refundable?
Do person A and B still wish to go on holiday together?

LIZS · Today 20:50

Both A and B should get the taxes and fees back on cancelled flights. A needs to refund B the difference as they unilaterally bailed on the break.

dreamingofgoodhair · Today 20:52

Why can’t they just both go and book another hotel ?

mrsm43s · Today 20:53

AIBU76 · Today 20:37

Person B doesnt want to go on holiday alone

In which case they should obviously pay for their own flight, since it is their choice not to go.

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