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Tom Cruise on GQ cover…

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queenceleste · Yesterday 19:16

I mean, when will he be too old for the bare chest swagger? 🤢🤢

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TheShed7 · Yesterday 19:18

Very fair OP. We should absolutely body shame people once they hit a certain age. That definitely won't backfire

LizandDerekGoals · Yesterday 19:18

Well, that’s rude. Lots of reasons to disagree with the cover being tom cruise rather than age.

AgentPidge · Yesterday 19:22

I agree with you, OP. There was something 'try hard' about that picture. The shirt and jeans look a bit old hat. But it was the stomach that did it for me. Trying to look sexy, and failing, for me anyway. Sorry Tom.

AmazonAntiqueStore · Yesterday 19:25

I’m not a fan of that style of posing for anyone, but he certainly doesn’t look bad. Age should have nothing to do with it.

murasaki · Yesterday 19:26

I didn't even notice the chest, i was laughing at the hair.

NotrialNodeal · Yesterday 19:27

I am not aroused Tom. Quite the opposite.

seahorsessky · Yesterday 19:27

I'm against ageism whether it's a man or a woman. If he's comfortable with it, why not? Some people, through a mix of luck and hard work, keep very fit, and good for them. Just wish everyone had the luck to be like that (as in able to exercise, not be a cover model).

Hatty65 · Yesterday 19:29

Not seen it, but plenty of actresses this age (Demi Moore - looking at you) are still happy to pose for front covers and trading on being 'sexy' still.

Sandra Bullock, Nicole Kidman, Michelle Pfeiffer - they are all still playing romantic lead characters.

Good for them (although I think it must be exhausting trying to keep up at their age; I'm over 60 myself and thankfully don't have that sort of pressure)

MyManinCaracas · Yesterday 19:31

He’s never been sexy to me and this didn’t help. I miss Sam Neill; so handsome and kind.

havingdoubtsnow · Yesterday 19:34

Can we see the cover?

GarlicSomething · Yesterday 19:42

havingdoubtsnow · Yesterday 19:34

Can we see the cover?

Churlish not to include it!
The clothed picture is for GQ Middle East.

Tom Cruise on GQ cover…
Tom Cruise on GQ cover…
blankittyblank · Yesterday 19:45

I think the problem is, is that Tom Cruise isn't sexy! He was a bit of heartthrob in the 80s, but he's not a sexy older man. So pictures like this are just a bit embarrassing!

Candleabra · Yesterday 19:45

He looks like zoolander in that first pic

SpidersAreShitheads · Yesterday 20:15

Tom is physically in good shape. I think it's quite an attractive pose tbh - it's not too revealing but still has a hint of sauciness.

Sadly though I find this thoroughly unappealing. Not because of his age or his body, but because of what he's done to his face. He looks absolutely awful, so plastic and artifically bloated.

As I'm getting older myself, I quite appreciate an attractive older man. And I love seeing sexy older females, especially when they are natural as opposed to chasing youth with surgery and fillers.

And yes, yes, I know: their body, their choice. I just think that looking young has been over-prioritised - it's now deemed better to have smooth, plump, youthful skin but also look a bit strange, than dare to have any wrinkles. We've lost the ability to find beauty and sexiness in anything other than the radiance of youth. And I think that's really sad.

HollyhocksandPeons · Yesterday 20:16

Vomit!

Blarn · Yesterday 20:20

It's not his age, the whole thing is a bit try hard. The clothes and the pose, staring into the camera, it's just not working.

Shloopie · Yesterday 20:23

He seems preoccupied with staying youthful, as are much of Hollywood, and for many years he didn't really seem to age. But he's in his mid 60s and things start to inevitably give.

I saw him asked how he felt about getting older and he tried to be all nonchalant and breezy in his response, but I don't think he's very nonchalant and breezy about it.

www.tiktok.com/@gq/video/7685822802917625118

NCOneDayOnly · Yesterday 20:28

All that money and he looks like that! 😂

queenceleste · Yesterday 20:32

Candleabra · Yesterday 19:45

He looks like zoolander in that first pic

Yes it’s very Derek Zoolander!

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queenceleste · Yesterday 20:32

blankittyblank · Yesterday 19:45

I think the problem is, is that Tom Cruise isn't sexy! He was a bit of heartthrob in the 80s, but he's not a sexy older man. So pictures like this are just a bit embarrassing!

100% agree

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MaeshoweDragon · Yesterday 20:32

GQ isn't for the female gaze... do men buy more magazines seeing him bare chested on the front?

Namechangedoverandover · Yesterday 20:34

SpidersAreShitheads · Yesterday 20:15

Tom is physically in good shape. I think it's quite an attractive pose tbh - it's not too revealing but still has a hint of sauciness.

Sadly though I find this thoroughly unappealing. Not because of his age or his body, but because of what he's done to his face. He looks absolutely awful, so plastic and artifically bloated.

As I'm getting older myself, I quite appreciate an attractive older man. And I love seeing sexy older females, especially when they are natural as opposed to chasing youth with surgery and fillers.

And yes, yes, I know: their body, their choice. I just think that looking young has been over-prioritised - it's now deemed better to have smooth, plump, youthful skin but also look a bit strange, than dare to have any wrinkles. We've lost the ability to find beauty and sexiness in anything other than the radiance of youth. And I think that's really sad.

I have always wondered why so many women swoon over Tom Cruise. He's okay and takes on some interssting parts. But he was never a heart throb in my eyes.

Unfortunately, though I know it's a me thing and is a bit sexist, I can't take men of a certain age seriously if they are dyeing their hair. I'm also looking at you, Nicholas Cage and John Cusack. I just think why?

Silver foxes are so much more appealing!

queenceleste · Yesterday 20:36

I don’t think it’s ageist to see some expressions of sexuality as inherently about being younger. Older men seem sexier to me when they do less not more. More dignity and gravitas maybe?
But I was curious to know how other people found it. I was immediate “no tom NO”

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queenceleste · Yesterday 20:38

GarlicSomething · Yesterday 19:42

Churlish not to include it!
The clothed picture is for GQ Middle East.

Edited

Sorry, I couldn’t remember how to add pictures!

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SmokyMountainRain · Yesterday 20:38

He’s such a nob. Posing on a front cover, caught up in Scientology, yet hasn’t seen his daughter in years. What a loser.