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Romancingthestone · 07/09/2026 00:08

Is there any way my parents can find out what they are dealing with. My Dad suddenly asked.

My Mum and Dad are worried silly (I think I understand) I’d invited a guy to spend 3 weeks at mine but parents are really cautious.

I’m leasehold - should I see a solicitor?

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GingerAndTheBiscuits · 07/09/2026 00:13

Not sure I’ve fully understood but if your parents have concerns about someone you are in a relationship with, they could make a Clare’s Law application to the police.

DallazMajor · 07/09/2026 00:15

Somebody make it make sense.

rathersleepy · 07/09/2026 00:15

Huh?

Romancingthestone · 07/09/2026 00:30

Ah thank you. GingerAndTheBiscuits.

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SerendipityCat · 07/09/2026 00:33

According to your previous posts you're 45 years old - I can understand your parents will still worry about you, but surely by now they've learned to trust you to make the right decisions?
Not sure what being leasehold has to do with anything, by the way.

AbsintheMakesTheHeartGrowFonder · 07/09/2026 00:39

What are you actually asking? What’s the leasehold got to do with inviting someone to spend time at your house? And what have your parents got to do with any of this?

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