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AIBU to think Theo James is the most beautiful man?

91 replies

Ishehe · 05/09/2026 12:51

Is Theo James the most beautiful man you’ve ever seen?!

OP posts:
MrsShawnHatosy · 05/09/2026 15:31

truebIood · 05/09/2026 15:28

No.

He's one of those men you feel you ought to find attractive but there is nothing I find even remotely sexy about him. No idea why.

Now, Idris Elba or Jason Momoa? - YUM

Beauty in a man is not always sexy imo and in ime!

Weeellokthen · 05/09/2026 15:34

hotmumshit · 05/09/2026 12:56

Yanbu

Eewwww, wtf is this 👆

ErrolTheDragon · 05/09/2026 15:35

OtterlyAstounding · 05/09/2026 14:10

Oh gosh, his abdomen actually disturbs me a little here. It's like he has sausages sewn under his skin.

Otherwise, his features remind me a little too much of an ex who was a bastard and smarmy to boot. I can see the appeal, but as a pp said, he's got a cold, arrogant look that I'd swerve now if I were single and he offered himself up to me (very unlikely 🤣)

He was good at playing that type in White Lotus.

hotmumshit · 05/09/2026 15:36

Weeellokthen · 05/09/2026 15:34

Eewwww, wtf is this 👆

🤷‍♀️ I am only human ladies

ItsmeMargo · 05/09/2026 15:36

LividRoasting · 05/09/2026 13:17

So. No.

I find him borderline creepy looking. Smarmy.

That advert where he's driving Range Rovers over stately homes is awful.

And every time there's a "who should be James Bond" post and his name comes up repeatedly I want to stab my eyes with a fork.

There's just something... regressive about him.

You don't have to agree. But it's visceral.

I find him incredibly creepy.

I kind of get that he should be good looking: that he is good looking. But there’s something about him that makes my flesh crawl.

I can’t watch anything that he’s in.

Weeellokthen · 05/09/2026 15:39

hotmumshit · 05/09/2026 15:36

🤷‍♀️ I am only human ladies

Sorry, but that was pretty 🤑
Who is she and what was she trying to mime? 😂

Ratbag7 · 05/09/2026 15:40

I know his brother, lovely family, parents adopted a number of kids when they were young

fiveyo · 05/09/2026 15:45

i went to school with him. Well, he went to the boys school and I went to the girls school opposite. We were in the same friendship group so although we weren’t good mates I went to his house on a couple of occasions. He was always a nice bloke. It’s surreal watching him on TV 😂

CorvusPurpureus · 05/09/2026 15:47

He’s objectively good looking, but I’m not keen on the gym bod. Also, he’s got a bit of a squint.

so based on no further information (I don’t know who he is) I’m going to say OP is welcome to him 🙂

Katflapkit · 05/09/2026 15:49

PrincessHoneysuckle · 05/09/2026 13:24

He'll always be the lad with shit on the end of his nose in The Inbetweeners Movie

No, he'll always be Kemal Pamuke from Downtown. He died in the middle of the night shagging Lady Mary.

Kevinbaconsrealwife · 05/09/2026 15:52

No my darlings not Theo James….mine is the actor Alan Ritchson who plays Reacher….fully expecting a pile on of disagreements 😂x

truebIood · 05/09/2026 15:55

Kevinbaconsrealwife · 05/09/2026 15:52

No my darlings not Theo James….mine is the actor Alan Ritchson who plays Reacher….fully expecting a pile on of disagreements 😂x

I agree! I would happily climb him like a mountain 😏

He's so hot

hotmumshit · 05/09/2026 15:57

Weeellokthen · 05/09/2026 15:39

Sorry, but that was pretty 🤑
Who is she and what was she trying to mime? 😂

Jameela Jamil - sex 😩

UniquePinkSwan · 05/09/2026 16:01

I was just saying this to my DH last night. He is gorgwous

biggestcatmom · 05/09/2026 17:07

ExtraOnions · 05/09/2026 13:21

Oh no … whenever I see him I just think about that bit in The Inbetweeners Movie, where he is walking round with shit under his nose

Me too, I just can’t like him after that role, I’ve no idea why because I’ve never felt like this about any other actor

HambleTheDoll · 05/09/2026 17:33

I can only picture him with shit hanging off his nose. It’s a shame really but it’s glued into my memory

HambleTheDoll · 05/09/2026 17:34

biggestcatmom · 05/09/2026 17:07

Me too, I just can’t like him after that role, I’ve no idea why because I’ve never felt like this about any other actor

That’s me too! I don’t understand why

KittyCatPuss · 05/09/2026 18:12

He was in the Time Traveller's Wife playing said time traveller. A very strange and borderline pedo concept (effectively grooming his future wife when she’s a very young girl), never mind the scene where he has sex with himself. I know it’s not the actor’s fault, but unfortunately he’s the face of a plot that requires brain bleach. Hard no from me.

Kevinbaconsrealwife · 05/09/2026 19:07

truebIood · 05/09/2026 15:55

I agree! I would happily climb him like a mountain 😏

He's so hot

Omg omg !!!! I actually use the phrase “ I’ d climb it” when I talk about him…. Hello sister of my soul 😁x

truebIood · 05/09/2026 19:26

Kevinbaconsrealwife · 05/09/2026 19:07

Omg omg !!!! I actually use the phrase “ I’ d climb it” when I talk about him…. Hello sister of my soul 😁x

🤣 Love it!

I watched episode 6 of season 4 this afternoon in fact, and he took his shirt off at one point.

His body is so ripped!

faint GIF
Kevinbaconsrealwife · 05/09/2026 19:32

truebIood · 05/09/2026 19:26

🤣 Love it!

I watched episode 6 of season 4 this afternoon in fact, and he took his shirt off at one point.

His body is so ripped!

Oh God he is beyond ripped !!!!! I’m a menopausal woman but I’d happily forget that for him …lol…I do tell my husband all this , he just nods and smiles 😂yes ep 6 …the plot really hitting up now…but with him looking as he does , who gives a shit about the plot 😂x

lippylip · 05/09/2026 19:33

He is so sexy, his voice! 🫠

lippylip · 05/09/2026 19:36

@tinaabbotI don’t think he has a brother like that

lippylip · 05/09/2026 19:37

grinandslothit · 05/09/2026 14:09

No, he has these narrow beady little eyes and no upper lip

He has full lips though…

lippylip · 05/09/2026 19:40

@fiveyowas he always hot? 😆