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AIBU to think Theo James is the most beautiful man?

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Ishehe · 05/09/2026 12:51

Is Theo James the most beautiful man you’ve ever seen?!

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Ladybird69 · 05/09/2026 14:11

I LUVS him Sooooo much. He’s my boyfriend in my fantasy life 🤣 He’s part Greek and he does remind me of George Michael a bit. He’s just well lush he is ❤️

TamarindCottage · 05/09/2026 14:11

OP I suggest you don’t have sex with him in a stately home as he might snuff it (he played Mr Pamuk who snuffed it after sex with Lady Mary in Downton Abbey 🤣😱🤪)

Onelifeonly · 05/09/2026 14:12

Had to look him up but no. Hard features, pouty mouth, not my type at all.

CarpeVitam · 05/09/2026 14:20

OtterlyAstounding · 05/09/2026 14:10

Oh gosh, his abdomen actually disturbs me a little here. It's like he has sausages sewn under his skin.

Otherwise, his features remind me a little too much of an ex who was a bastard and smarmy to boot. I can see the appeal, but as a pp said, he's got a cold, arrogant look that I'd swerve now if I were single and he offered himself up to me (very unlikely 🤣)

Haha…fair enough! 😂

Whereland · 05/09/2026 14:21

Yes he’s absolutely beautiful. But I think my number one is Ethan Browne (random home and away actor 😂)

TangyChina · 05/09/2026 14:24

I find him too self aware of himself

RVectensian · 05/09/2026 14:25

I thought so in the Divergent films, not so much in anything else.

Thecatspantaloons · 05/09/2026 14:29

He reminds me of my brother too much 😣.

HoldsNoCurrency · 05/09/2026 14:33

He’s gorgeous but I wont be watching The Gentlemen. Started the first series when it came out but I didn’t like it at all. My family finished it and liked it, but it’s really not for me, despite the lovely Mr James.

Sgtmajormummy · 05/09/2026 14:34

Like PP I’ll always associate him with the cringeworthy seduction and eternal embarrassment of Lady Mary in Downton Abbey.

PrettyLittleRose · 05/09/2026 14:35

Ishehe · 05/09/2026 12:51

Is Theo James the most beautiful man you’ve ever seen?!

No.

HoldsNoCurrency · 05/09/2026 14:35

Ladybird69 · 05/09/2026 14:11

I LUVS him Sooooo much. He’s my boyfriend in my fantasy life 🤣 He’s part Greek and he does remind me of George Michael a bit. He’s just well lush he is ❤️

OMG this explains it! George was my first love (age 5😂).

PrettyLittleRose · 05/09/2026 14:37

Ishehe · 05/09/2026 12:51

Is Theo James the most beautiful man you’ve ever seen?!

He's OK, but I could never fancy him after the scene in The Inbetweeners Movie, where his character ends up with a streak of shit on his face during a messy nightclub altercation.

I can't unsee it.

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tinaabbot · 05/09/2026 14:38

Sgtmajormummy · 05/09/2026 14:34

Like PP I’ll always associate him with the cringeworthy seduction and eternal embarrassment of Lady Mary in Downton Abbey.

I did not recognise him in Downtown Abbey!! Must have been the longer hair or something

Credittocress · 05/09/2026 15:01

I agree he is beautiful, but far too perfect for me to find attractive. Not that I’d imagine he’d lose much sleep over that! 🤣

JHound · 05/09/2026 15:02

Ishehe · 05/09/2026 12:51

Is Theo James the most beautiful man you’ve ever seen?!

I have been watching The Gentlemen.

He is quite good looking.

Dweetfidilove · 05/09/2026 15:05

CarpeVitam · 05/09/2026 13:07

Oh yes! (Image pending)

This is not a great picture. Abs look like that movie with those dreadful cgi fish things. I feel terrible, as I thought he looked fine on that Netflix series.

Userengage · 05/09/2026 15:11

I’m enjoying him in The Gentlemen, didn’t know his name before I started watching it.

SquirrelFan · 05/09/2026 15:16

He looks a bit like Russell Brand... So, no.

DreamingOfGeneHunt · 05/09/2026 15:20

No not for me. I'm sure he's a very nice man.

The most beautiful man in the world is Wesley Snipes. Or Martin Shaw, or Brendan Fraser, or all three.

MrsShawnHatosy · 05/09/2026 15:21

No. This man is. Sex on legs.

AIBU to think Theo James is the most beautiful man?
Millytante · 05/09/2026 15:24

Thecatspantaloons · 05/09/2026 14:29

He reminds me of my brother too much 😣.

Snap! He’s a dead ringer for mine, too. (The lucky so and so inherited beauty genes from my mother’s very handsome father’s family, I think. Grrr)

PerdreLeBleu · 05/09/2026 15:25

calflions · 05/09/2026 12:58

he's nice but he's got a little rosebuddy mouth. reminds me of a doll I used to have

Exactly this. I’ve always thought he had a weird mouth that spoilt his looks.

truebIood · 05/09/2026 15:28

No.

He's one of those men you feel you ought to find attractive but there is nothing I find even remotely sexy about him. No idea why.

Now, Idris Elba or Jason Momoa? - YUM

tinaabbot · 05/09/2026 15:30

tinaabbot · 05/09/2026 14:09

Loved him in the Divergent movies, loved him in the first season of The Gentleman, looking forward to watching season 2. Initially saw him in a movie years ago about an all boys club in Oxford, movie was a bit hard to watch, but I stuck with it because of him 🙈
Interestingly, he has a half brother who is an Irish politician and very different.
Yes I’ve googled him, as yes I think he is a most beautiful man

Apologies, I mixed him up with Max Irons for the earlier film and half brother.

Max Irons is also a very beautiful man!!