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Pulled over by the police with blue lights flashing because I BEEPED at them!

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BeepedAtPoliceCar · 30/08/2026 22:26

Long but I've tried to make it easy to read!

Tonight, I dropped DS at work and on the way back had just started moving off from a large roundabout to go straight across it. It was 7pm and the road is an A road, not a residential area.

I had noticed a police car coming down from the opposite side of the roundabout (no lights flashing) and assumed it was going straight across as it had no indicators but it turned right towards me so I had to stop.

As I moved onto the roundabout after it passed me. I beeped. A short tap to say where the hell are you going. I had also had to stop. I was moving when I beeped. This is important.

I assumed it was going to take the same exit as me but it It then continued round the roundabout again. Still no indication. So I did another short beep. The direction he was going in was to our local police station about 2 minutes down the road.

Yes it was in frustration as there are many idiots who don't indicate in my area and I've had many near misses. It's pretty shit the police are driving like that as well and it was also a hazard to other road users.

Maybe the driver wasn't aware his indicators weren't working?

Anyway I drive on but see in the my rear mirror a police car speeding up the road behind me, lights flashing, in the bus lane. The speed limit is 40 and I was doing that so he must have been doing 60 at least as he caught up with me in seconds.

I immediately knew he was coming after me.

The car came alongside me and the driver wound his window down, as did I, and shouted at me to pull over now, pull over now. He looked apoplectic with rage!

I pulled over in front of him in the bus lane and he drove behind me, bumper to bumper. I have never been stopped by the police before and got out of my car to go to speak to him (oops lucky it wasn't in the US!).

He's screaming get back in your car now, get back in your car now!

So I get back in and luckily had the presence of mind to start videoing on my phone as he came over. I asked for him name and badge number which he fired off so fast I couldn't catch it. He refused to repeat it. Refused to tell me which police station he was stationed at. He said I had contravened the highway code for beeping inappropriately and would be getting a penalty ticket.

I admit I was a bit argumentative (not rude) and said he only stopped me because he was pissed off I beeped at him and the police should know better.

He then said they were looking for a 'criminal' and were on police business so didn't have to indicate (no lights except when they came for me!) and they also didn't know where they were going. He also said he didn't need to indicate unless he was exiting the roundabout.

I asked him why if he was looking for a criminal, he decided to go after someone who beeped at him for not indicating.

He said I was stationery when I beeped so that is a road traffic contravention. I was moving so I asked him why he was lying. He then stated he'd need to do drug and alcohol tests.

I asked if he was joking and what basis did he have to suspect I was driving under the influence. He said because my behaviour - beeping at him - was 'bizarre' and I was driving dangerously, then asked if I was refusing? So I had to do them. They were clear obviously.

I said I would be making a complaint as I believed he was abusing his power because he was pissed off I beeped at him and 'how dare he bully members of the public'.

He then said MOVE NOW because I was in an active lane (bus lane where he forced me to stop) and if I didn't move now I'd get another ticket for failing to comply with an instruction from a police officer. I said 'who do you think you're talking to'.

I was very WTF and asked him to repeat the law I had broken and told him to give me the ticket so I could challenge it in court, so he said he did and I would get it in the post.

Two tickets - £130 and 3 points.

I then drove off. He didn't come behind me so I can only assume he went back round the next roundabout in the direction of the police station and the looking for a criminal was rubbish. In fact he said it so sarcastically, I think he meant looking for someone to book!

I have video of most of the interaction and he comes across very bullish and rude, especially when he was shouting at me to 'move now'. Literally no more than a minute until I did but he still said he had given me a ticket.

I did tell him I was putting the video on TikTok and would be making a complaint.
Quite shocked about this, and on reading about challenging the tickets in court, it seems that you can end up with a criminal conviction if you lose!

The lie about me being stationery when I beeped (which I have on video) should be easily disproven by their dashcam. Would they have to give me this if I challenge it?

Sadly I don't have my own. I ordered one ages ago, kept forgetting to set it up and it was on top of the bookcase at home!

WIBU?

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maudelovesharold · 30/08/2026 23:40

DDivaStar · 30/08/2026 23:33

Honestly how can you not understand the police are not going from a to b. They are responding to changing events. Even without their lights and siren they may need to change course with limited notice, isn't that just common sense? Always give space to emergency vehicles, they may need to rush to an emergency suddenly.

There is no excuse for a police car without emergency lights on, not to obey the rules of the road.

stayathomegardener · 30/08/2026 23:41

I mean hats off to you OP.
I would rather tangle with most known criminals than the police.

maudelovesharold · 30/08/2026 23:45

Is the general consensus then, that the police can pull over people and fine them for being indignant that they beep at them for driving without due care and attention, and the public should be afraid of interactions with them?

I would hope not. Very dangerous attitude.

5MinuteArgument · 30/08/2026 23:47

IMightMentionGriddlebone · 30/08/2026 23:27

Ironically, beeping at anyone to indicate you find fault with their driving is... breaking the Highway Code.

Exactly.

US comedian Chris Rock did a sketch years ago called 'How not to get your ass kicked by the police.' I recommend OP watches it.

CelestialGazer · 30/08/2026 23:47

BeepedAtPoliceCar · 30/08/2026 23:36

No sadly, this is not made up. Would would dream up this scenario just so they could post it on Mumsnet? Seriously!

I've never been pulled over in over 30 years of driving. I assumed they pulled me over to ask why I beeped at them so I got out to go and talk to them.

It didn't occur to me that they thought I might be a threat because I beeped at them!

The policeman said on video they didn't know where they were going, not that they'd been diverted elsewhere. There were no lights or sirens. If get confused on which exit I'm taking on a roundabout, or miss it and go round again, I would indicate I'm going round again.

It's classed as driving without due care and attention not to signal to other road users the direction you're going in on a roundabout.

Cop didn't know the Highway code himself but pulled me over for it.

Thinking about it, it makes sense as the direction they were coming from (motorway) may indicate they came into town from another station and they were going towards our police station (and WERE going in the right direction if they had gone straight ahead) so that's why they didn't know where they were going. Don't police cars have sat nav though?

Is the general consensus then, that the police can pull over people and fine them for being indignant that they beep at them for driving without due care and attention, and the public should be afraid of interactions with them?

I didn't waste police time, they did. The criminal they were looking for would have been miles away with the 20 minutes they wasted on me!

TBF I've never posted anything on TikTok but I've seen a few videos come up with them acting badly just recently so I certainly didn't create the situation for content! I know people with big followings though and it will be posted. Just have to figure out how to edit out me giving my name and address!

Yes, the general consensus is that they can pull you over and fine you because you committed two offences in quick succession by using your horn inappropriately. It is not legal to use it as a means of communicating your irritation to another road user.

You then failed the attitude test badly when stopped, so any chance of them giving you a ticking off and letting you go on your way vanished in an instant.

maudelovesharold · 30/08/2026 23:48

TBF I've never posted anything on TikTok but I've seen a few videos come up with them acting badly just recently so I certainly didn't create the situation for content! I know people with big followings though and it will be posted. Just have to figure out how to edit out me giving my name and address!

Just out of interest, op, are you a celeb, or someone with some ‘status’? You certainly have the chutzpah for it!

BeepedAtPoliceCar · 30/08/2026 23:51

SeeMeRun · 30/08/2026 23:37

From experience, his reaction was inappropriate, but honestly the last thing people need in that very very difficult job dealing with the lowest of the low, and violence constantly is a member of the public policing them. Not sure why you found it appropriate to beep at anyone. Funnily enough you are not traffic police and should have minded your own business, it’s not for you to police the police, or others. I doubt your driving is flawless enough to award yourself a special ‘public driving assessor’ status. And getting out of the car to speak to them, wtf is wrong with you. They have pulled you over, they keep themselves safe by approaching you. It’s not a casual chat. You should follow all instructions given.

There were no instructions before I got out of the car, other than this red faced angry man shouting 'Pull over, pull over'. I was quite shocked by his demeanour.

It's not like they had a valid reason to race up behind me, lights flashing and I immediately knew he had done it because he was pissed off with my beep. I just though I'd get out of the car and go ask him what his problem was.

There were 2 of them in the car. The other one in the passenger seat didn't get out.

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LadyWiddiothethird · 30/08/2026 23:52

Height of stupidity,beeping twice at a police car! Putting it on Tik Tok will give a few people a good laugh though I suppose.

You sound rather naive and daft.

maudelovesharold · 30/08/2026 23:52

You then failed the attitude test badly when stopped, so any chance of them giving you a ticking off and letting you go on your way vanished in an instant.

See, this is where it becomes really dangerous. So you can’t disagree with the police - you have to be totally compliant, even when they might be wrong? Slippery slope…

Facethesun · 30/08/2026 23:53

Who actually beeps at a police car going about its business. Show them the respect they deserve for goodness sake. They trump you on the road. Sound your horn when an arsehole cuts you up but beeping miffed at a police car is the most mind boggling act of fuckwittery

BeepedAtPoliceCar · 30/08/2026 23:53

CelestialGazer · 30/08/2026 23:47

Yes, the general consensus is that they can pull you over and fine you because you committed two offences in quick succession by using your horn inappropriately. It is not legal to use it as a means of communicating your irritation to another road user.

You then failed the attitude test badly when stopped, so any chance of them giving you a ticking off and letting you go on your way vanished in an instant.

No the 2nd 'offence' was for not moving off quickly enough when he shouted at me to 'MOVE NOW'. He'd already told me I was getting a ticket for 'not complying' but I was asking him to explain how he could issue a ticket when he'd only just told me to move.

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Moveoverdarlin · 30/08/2026 23:54

If we all beeped at cars who didn’t signal at roundabouts the UK would be like wacky races. Do you do this a lot?

This sounds like a case of two egos clashing. The policeman sounds like an utter bellend, but you obviously wound him up by beeping.

Squishymama · 30/08/2026 23:55

I personally don’t think I’d have beeped, but mainly because I’ve seen far too many videos of absolutely twattish police officers doing things like this.

Unfortunately the police now seem to want to keep us all in check, and be cross at us if we dare to be offended or annoyed. I’ve seen lots of videos where they make up what you should/shoudn’t be doing and don’t seem to know the law. I remember once years ago in the days of tomtom loosing signal and I didn’t know where I was and pulled over on double yellows and when I looked up a police car had pulled up in front of me. I was practically crying by this point! He asked me if I was ok. Can’t imagine that would happen now.

GinaandGin · 30/08/2026 23:55

You brought a lot of this drama on yourself

Thisposthasbeendeleted · 30/08/2026 23:56

imnotwhoyouthinkiam · 30/08/2026 22:32

My dad got pulled over on the 90s because my brother 'oinked' out the window at a police car. Grin

😆

mulberrymilk · 30/08/2026 23:56

So dumb, so entitled, and so argumentative.

BeepedAtPoliceCar · 30/08/2026 23:56

Facethesun · 30/08/2026 23:53

Who actually beeps at a police car going about its business. Show them the respect they deserve for goodness sake. They trump you on the road. Sound your horn when an arsehole cuts you up but beeping miffed at a police car is the most mind boggling act of fuckwittery

RESPECT 😂

I used to have a lot of respect for the police. I'm pretty old school.

Absolutely zero now.

Why would anyone respect the police for trying to use intimidation, abusing their power and lying to someone's face, because they drove badly and got beeped at!!

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Harpsichord23 · 30/08/2026 23:56

the Highway Code clearly states that use of the horn is to indicate other drivers of your presence only. Is that how you were using it OP?

TheEdgyMoose · 30/08/2026 23:56

BeepedAtPoliceCar · 30/08/2026 23:51

There were no instructions before I got out of the car, other than this red faced angry man shouting 'Pull over, pull over'. I was quite shocked by his demeanour.

It's not like they had a valid reason to race up behind me, lights flashing and I immediately knew he had done it because he was pissed off with my beep. I just though I'd get out of the car and go ask him what his problem was.

There were 2 of them in the car. The other one in the passenger seat didn't get out.

He wasn't "pissed off" with your beep. He was pulling you over because your beeps were breaking the law. That was their valid reason.

And then you thought you ask "what his problem was"?! Bloody hell, OP. When you're in a hole...

BeepedAtPoliceCar · 30/08/2026 23:58

Moveoverdarlin · 30/08/2026 23:54

If we all beeped at cars who didn’t signal at roundabouts the UK would be like wacky races. Do you do this a lot?

This sounds like a case of two egos clashing. The policeman sounds like an utter bellend, but you obviously wound him up by beeping.

I wound him up?

So the police can abuse their power if they get 'wound up'?

OK.

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BeepedAtPoliceCar · 30/08/2026 23:59

Harpsichord23 · 30/08/2026 23:56

the Highway Code clearly states that use of the horn is to indicate other drivers of your presence only. Is that how you were using it OP?

Yep, warning the police car there were other road users on the road and as per the Highway Code, he should indicate where he was going.

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EatingSky · 30/08/2026 23:59

Police are generally low IQ, power hungry scum. Avoid them at all costs. I’d complain but can’t see it coming to much.

mumumental · 31/08/2026 00:00

why shouldn’t we come to the attention of the police, if we have done nothing wrong ? It’s a democracy.

Blimms · 31/08/2026 00:01

He gave you a badge number?

mulberrymilk · 31/08/2026 00:01

BeepedAtPoliceCar · 30/08/2026 23:59

Yep, warning the police car there were other road users on the road and as per the Highway Code, he should indicate where he was going.

Almost as if you were actually the police.

Crumbs, you're a wind-up merchant.

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