Washing machines have been available since the 1920s and were commonplace from the 1950s.
Dishwashers from the 1940s and fairly common from the 1950s. But many of those working now grew up without one or still do not have one. They are hardly essential to be able to work.
Hoovers have been available since 1919 and manufactured en masse in the UK since 1932. Most houses had them from the 1950s onwards.
Computers weren’t necessary for work until they became widespread and have no impact on household chores or whether people could go to work.
Indoor toilets have been commonplace since the 1950s-1960s and regardless, even if it was unpleasant or cold, I can’t see how an extra 20 seconds to walk to the loo outside prevented anybody paying tax or saving for a pension.
Childcare was far easier as people tended to live near to family and wider family groups actually helped with this far more than these days (as various social research has verified). Not to mention the fact that housing costs were so much lower as a proportion of salaries so parents could afford to split working and childcare between them often with one parent barely working/ not working at all and still have a higher proportion of their combined earnings left over after housing costs to save between them, than two parents now both working full time to pay extortionate mortgages or rents and paying childcare will have left to split between them to save once those essential bills are paid (as well as having less free time outside work/ with children).
Women have had the right to open bank accounts, take out a mortgage or open a savings account or pension account independently protected by law in the UK since 1975.
Freezers were available to buy in the UK easily by the early 1960s and by the late 1970s the majority of households owned a freezer.
Fridges were available to buy from the 1920s, the majority of households had one during the late 1960s and they were almost universal by the early 1970s.
Hot water systems began being installed in UK houses in the 1860s. By the 1900s a significant proportion of households had them and from the 1950s onwards they were standard in new builds (in all the post-war building). By the 1970s almost every household had modern central heating and hot water systems.
How old are you exactly? Because unless you are in your late 80s or older these complaints and excuses are ludicrous because they did not impact the vast majority of your adult life.