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Vinted - not clicking all ok

84 replies

loveawineloveacrisp · 09/08/2026 20:40

If a buyer doesn't confirm all ok and waits for it to default so that you have to wait for their payment, is it unreasonable to leave a bad review? I posted next day as well.

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Madwoman94 · 09/08/2026 20:41

Yes it is unreasonable to leave a bad review

FilmsandBooks · 09/08/2026 20:42

Yes, it’s unreasonable.

NCForOneNightOnly · 09/08/2026 20:44

Why is it unreasonable?

FilmsandBooks · 09/08/2026 20:45

NCForOneNightOnly · 09/08/2026 20:44

Why is it unreasonable?

Because they haven’t done anything wrong.

tillyandmilly · 09/08/2026 20:47

If the item is shown as delivered you only have to wait 2/3 days and vinted automatically releases the money I believe ?

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 09/08/2026 20:48

I was speaking to a seller about this. I don’t think forcing people to wait for a payment over simple purchase admin is reasonable actually, do the decent thing it’s one click.

ShetlandishMum · 09/08/2026 20:49

Madwoman94 · 09/08/2026 20:41

Yes it is unreasonable to leave a bad review

This.

AzureLurker · 09/08/2026 20:50

I buy a lot from vinted, and always aim to hit OK quickly, but there are 2 times recently where I didn't as the items were not as described and so it didn't feel quite right. Don't have the energy and it's not worth it to try and get a return. In the past I have been called a B for just saying in feedback that the size listed was incorrect and therefore didn't fit at all, so I don't like giving negative feedback where it's due either!

FilmsandBooks · 09/08/2026 20:50

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 09/08/2026 20:48

I was speaking to a seller about this. I don’t think forcing people to wait for a payment over simple purchase admin is reasonable actually, do the decent thing it’s one click.

Not everyone opens their packages as soon as they get them though and not everyone actually realises money isn’t released until they click it: the time limit is reached.

kloderanous · 09/08/2026 20:50

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 09/08/2026 20:48

I was speaking to a seller about this. I don’t think forcing people to wait for a payment over simple purchase admin is reasonable actually, do the decent thing it’s one click.

Plenty of buyers, myself included, were completely unaware of this. Hence not realising it was a thing until reading on MN recently.

Be aware these people might not even know you won't get paid.

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 09/08/2026 20:51

@FilmsandBooks True. I had no idea until she told me but she was really clear she was relying on the money, so now I open immediately if I can

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 09/08/2026 20:53

Yeah @kloderanous I only know because this seller was extremely chatty and was explaining her experiences on Vinted

sweetpickle2 · 09/08/2026 20:53

There was a big thread about this recently.

I always hit ‘everything is ok’ as soon as I’ve checked the item and get annoyed when buyers don’t, but even then you would be very unreasonable to leave a bad review.

theneighbourhadaparrot · 09/08/2026 20:53

I have started to say in the review when items are not sent quickly, and when buyers don't accept the transaction quickly. It's factual, they don't want the sellers to have the money quickly, they should own it.

AllWasWell · 09/08/2026 20:53

vinted gives customers 2 days so I don’t think you can leave a bad review for it. I just see it as a bonus if they click it’s okay and release the funds earlier

badboss2020 · 09/08/2026 20:54

I hardly ever click it. I get the reminder but it’s not a direct link to the button.

ablastfromthepast · 09/08/2026 20:54

I’ve nought loads on Vinted before I started selling and only then realised you don’t get payment until the buyer has confirmed everything is OK.

Given it is complete pot-luck when stuff sells on Vinted, I think it is a bit unreasonable to be thinking of it as dependable cashflow.

KeepOnCleaning · 09/08/2026 20:56

I usually click everything is ok straight away. This week I ordered something and it arrived filthy - make up round the collar, grimy cuffs, smelled unwashed. Packaging closed with staples rather than tape so really lucky it didn't snag the item (a knitted jumper!). And i order a lot from vinted and this is the first time I'd really say something was that dirty when I received it. I messaged the seller and she never responded even with a short apology. It's not worth the bother of a fight. But I wasn't going to mark it as ok when it really wasn't. I never even gave her a bad review because I don't want to risk a bad review back so I would be furious if she gave me a bad review following that experience.

BIossomtoes · 09/08/2026 20:58

It seems a bit spiteful to me.

user1491396110 · 09/08/2026 21:10

Im often not home when they are delivered, dont want to click everything is ok without seeing it, that way if I manage to open it in time I still have time to check it. Its only 2 days to wait, its not like its 2 weeks

loveawineloveacrisp · 09/08/2026 21:10

I've messaged to ask if all ok and they've been online and ignored the message.

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ShetlandishMum · 09/08/2026 21:12

loveawineloveacrisp · 09/08/2026 21:10

I've messaged to ask if all ok and they've been online and ignored the message.

They don't owe you to click before the deadline.

NameChangeScot · 09/08/2026 21:23

Sometimes I'm not home to receive the order, like I'm working away or on holiday, so I can't click all okay as I haven't seen the item yet 🤷. It's unreasonable to leave poor feedback for that.

I sell too and don't mind waiting for the transaction to clear, I'd never harass someone with messages asking them to click all okay, that's just rude imo. Give people a minute, vinted admin might not be top of the priority list.

FoxRedPuppy · 09/08/2026 21:26

I always click as soon as I’ve checked item. I’m not always there when it’s delivered. If it gets delivered and I’m away for two days, how can I click all ok?

I always post immediately but would never give a bad review for this.

lebin · 09/08/2026 21:29

If someone clicks “all ok” quickly I leave them a good review. If they don’t I just don’t bother with a review and let them receive automatic feedback. I’d only leave a bad review if there was an actual issue.

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