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Vinted - not clicking all ok

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loveawineloveacrisp · 09/08/2026 20:40

If a buyer doesn't confirm all ok and waits for it to default so that you have to wait for their payment, is it unreasonable to leave a bad review? I posted next day as well.

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feelingalittlestuck · 10/08/2026 13:05

I hate buyers who do this!

KitsyWitsy · 10/08/2026 13:07

Just wait.

milkhater · 10/08/2026 13:21

@feelingalittlestuckwhy?

theneighbourhadaparrot · 10/08/2026 13:33

babyproblems · 10/08/2026 11:13

This is definitely unreasonable!! Why would you leave a poor review for this?? Your problem is with the way Vinted works, and how they have designed their app, not the buyer.
If you did this to me, I’d block you from buying from me again. That might not bother you. I am a big seller on vinted Europe with a curated vintage store; I block people if they behave very unreasonably and I would consider this in that category. It also makes other people think you are nuts because they’ll see this feedback. Remember the seller can leave you poor feedback in return and if they say ‘left me negative review because I didn’t click all ok quick enough’ you may find other people block you aswell!

it's funny that you would be offended when someone just posted a factual review.

If you are that comfortable and certain you are correct, fine, but why would you want to keep it secret?

I am a big seller on vinted Europe with a curated vintage store
you need customers more than they need you, you are not the only one 😂
Etsy is better than Vinted for "curated vintage stores" anyway

KatharinaRosalie · 10/08/2026 13:44

it's funny that you would be offended when someone just posted a factual review.

for me it would depend - if someone gives me 5 stars but also states in comments that I didn't confirm immediately, fine, that's factual. But it's not OK if they also give me 1 star when I did nothing wrong.

feelingalittlestuck · 10/08/2026 13:49

milkhater · 10/08/2026 13:21

@feelingalittlestuckwhy?

Because it’s rude, holds up the seller’s money and it’s lazy.

Boymum2104 · 10/08/2026 13:53

Try bare in mind just because you get the ‘buyer received’ notification doesn’t mean they’ve actually received it and able to check it over.. they could be at work, delivered to a neighbours house etc

ablastfromthepast · 10/08/2026 16:20

Alwayswonderedwhy · 09/08/2026 22:52

When you buy on vinted it tells you the time frame it should be posted in so why comment on how long it's taken someone to post. . If you want something posted quickly do you ask before buying or do you just assume they're posting a few times a week?

It's like leaving a negative review because you bought something from a company that said delivery would be in 3-5 business days, and it took 5 days to show up. The seller has a time period to send the item in and it's perfectly reasonable for them to use that time.

If I ever need something quickly, I'll ask (nicely!) before I buy whether it's possible to post quickly, otherwise I assume it'll turn up when it turns up. Sometimes things are listed on Vinted for months before they find a buyer and you've got no idea when you press the "buy" button whether that's landed when the seller is sick, got a busy work week, has run out of packing tape, or just hasn't been able to treat getting your £3 top down to the post office as a high priority.

milkhater · 10/08/2026 17:59

@feelingalittlestuckso I’m lazy & rude if a package is delivered to my neighbour or a locker and I can’t get to straight away because of work etc? How odd!

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