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Flying poorly (tomorrow) ?

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SENSummer · 09/08/2026 15:39

So we fly first thing tomorrow on a family holiday (me, hubby and two kids <6).

A week ago I started with cold and have had horrid sinus/general cold symptoms. Went to the doctors got a steroid spray (they were thoroughly disinterested as I didn’t have a temperature) but the sinus pain was so bad I felt sick. The steroid spray did very little, I’ve been struggling all week. Doesn’t seem to be improving and awful post nasal drip (tmi sorry). I just feel rubbish but it’s been a week now usually I shake things off or they at least improve. I’ve spent today in bed covered in Vicks and felt awfully sick.

I said to hubby I didn’t think I’d manage it tomorrow. I struggle with my sinuses on planes at the best of times and it can be really painful. He looked at me like I was nuts because it’s ’just a cold’.

We have insurance but given I’m ’not that unwell’ and the doctors shrugged it off I doubt we’d be able to claim on it. Hubby thinks I’m at the end of it and will start to feel better in the next couple of days so should just push through. I do push through things quite well usually but I just feel grotty and so disappointed that it’s a week in and I’m still this rubbish!

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CJP45 · 11/08/2026 01:20

SENSummer · 09/08/2026 15:39

So we fly first thing tomorrow on a family holiday (me, hubby and two kids <6).

A week ago I started with cold and have had horrid sinus/general cold symptoms. Went to the doctors got a steroid spray (they were thoroughly disinterested as I didn’t have a temperature) but the sinus pain was so bad I felt sick. The steroid spray did very little, I’ve been struggling all week. Doesn’t seem to be improving and awful post nasal drip (tmi sorry). I just feel rubbish but it’s been a week now usually I shake things off or they at least improve. I’ve spent today in bed covered in Vicks and felt awfully sick.

I said to hubby I didn’t think I’d manage it tomorrow. I struggle with my sinuses on planes at the best of times and it can be really painful. He looked at me like I was nuts because it’s ’just a cold’.

We have insurance but given I’m ’not that unwell’ and the doctors shrugged it off I doubt we’d be able to claim on it. Hubby thinks I’m at the end of it and will start to feel better in the next couple of days so should just push through. I do push through things quite well usually but I just feel grotty and so disappointed that it’s a week in and I’m still this rubbish!

I suffer with sinusitus and have flown when I thought it was just a cold. I survived of course but the pain was quite bad and didnt stop once the flight was over. Negative bit out of the way my advice would be to go and then utilise your insurance to see a doctor once there and you should be prescribed the antibiotics that are needed to clear sinus infections xx

abbynabby23 · 11/08/2026 03:31

SENSummer · 09/08/2026 15:39

So we fly first thing tomorrow on a family holiday (me, hubby and two kids <6).

A week ago I started with cold and have had horrid sinus/general cold symptoms. Went to the doctors got a steroid spray (they were thoroughly disinterested as I didn’t have a temperature) but the sinus pain was so bad I felt sick. The steroid spray did very little, I’ve been struggling all week. Doesn’t seem to be improving and awful post nasal drip (tmi sorry). I just feel rubbish but it’s been a week now usually I shake things off or they at least improve. I’ve spent today in bed covered in Vicks and felt awfully sick.

I said to hubby I didn’t think I’d manage it tomorrow. I struggle with my sinuses on planes at the best of times and it can be really painful. He looked at me like I was nuts because it’s ’just a cold’.

We have insurance but given I’m ’not that unwell’ and the doctors shrugged it off I doubt we’d be able to claim on it. Hubby thinks I’m at the end of it and will start to feel better in the next couple of days so should just push through. I do push through things quite well usually but I just feel grotty and so disappointed that it’s a week in and I’m still this rubbish!

Depends how long is your family holiday. If you are that bad and your holidays are for a week, i would let them fly and catch another flight a day or two after. Or worst come worst, let them go and have fun!

dreamingofgoodhair · 11/08/2026 03:48

Foolish1984 · 10/08/2026 22:45

Her ‘hubby’ is a doctor! Have you not read all of her updates

I know he is, doesn’t mean he is right.

Passthecake30 · 11/08/2026 05:53

OP if you get post nasal drip often, try cutting out dairy for a while and seeing if it improves (obv find other ways of getting calcium in your diet)

GotMarriedInCornwall · 11/08/2026 06:04

I had this earlier this year. Felt rotten for weeks. Pain as well as earache and a completely blocked ear and the most awful taste in my mouth. Eventually went to the doctors and they said sinusitis isn’t something that goes away in a few days, it can take weeks.
She said there was no point in giving me antibiotics because they probably wouldn’t do much and said the best thing would be to use a saline spray to clean out the sinus passages.
All in all it lasted around 5/6 weeks.

RubyFlax · 11/08/2026 06:31

Tralalalalatata · 09/08/2026 16:08

Think very carefully about doing this. I once did exactly the same with same symptoms and was totally deaf upon landing for 24 hours, then deaf in one ear for the next 48 hours. Then I had to fly home and it started all over again 🙃

I felt I had to go as it was a vital work trip. It went well, happily - industry colleagues found it "charming" that I was ploughing on once I was only deaf in one ear... (!)

Edited

This happens to me about 75% of the times that I fly. Has done all my life.

NavyTurtle · 11/08/2026 08:22

SENSummer · 09/08/2026 16:18

It’s such an odd one because I’m not snotty at all and it doesn’t hurt when I bend down or lean forward etc which has always been agony in the past when I’ve had sinus issues.

Ive not had a temperature, cough, sore throat etc I’m literally just in pain between my eyebrows and nose with horrific post nasal drip (which I’ve never had before but hate).

My husband suffers the same. He gave a kidney so cannot take the tablets. Speak to pharmacist and get the nose spray instead. Works a treat and does not effect your stomach.

Velumental · 11/08/2026 08:26

SENSummer · 09/08/2026 15:47

I vomit really badly on ibuprofen so I’ve been scared to take sudofed as worry same thing would happen. I’d rather have the sinuses than be throwing up but I’m not sure if it’s similar or not??

Sudafed is very different to nsaids like ibuprofen so shouldn't make you vomit. Take paracetamol and sudafed or lemsip. It's 2 hours.

Dogmum6 · 11/08/2026 10:26

Have you tried anti histamines? And lots and lots of water ? Also the ginger shot you can buy is really good for clearing sinus. Plus I had that Sterimar salt spray. But drinking loads and loads and loads often does it (add lots of soup for salt etc )

Fearandanxiety · 11/08/2026 10:41

DriveboyDogboy · 09/08/2026 15:50

Not similar at all, and I'm surprised decongestants weren't suggested by your doctor. Definitely grab some at the airport if you can get any before then.

This^. My son has been prescribed antibiotics from a pharmacist

BadLad · 16/08/2026 10:28

Wrong thread

7698mom · 16/08/2026 12:22

Hate this sh*t if your unwell don’t fly, my elderly mother was hospitalised and on oxygen for weeks after catching an illness on a flight. Selfish

Imightbeinthewronghere · 16/08/2026 13:44

7698mom · 16/08/2026 12:22

Hate this sh*t if your unwell don’t fly, my elderly mother was hospitalised and on oxygen for weeks after catching an illness on a flight. Selfish

She didn't catch something before she flew, at the airport, or when she arrived?

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