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Andrew Tate, I just don’t get it?

87 replies

Thenightwemet13101 · 23/07/2026 14:07

How is there anyone on this earth looking up to this specimen?

I hasn’t really heard of him until about a year ago but my gosh. I’ve seen a few interviews with him and he can’t even speak properly, he just shouts constantly. He says that men who have sex without the intention of impregnating the woman are gay.

I know he can’t help with way he looks but he’s ugly with a bald head and no chin and have you seen his arrest pictures with that ridiculous outfit with the purple shirt and the women’s shoes?

Well if you hadn’t you have now?

How is there a single person alive thinking that this cretin is something to aspire to, not to mention how he’s found a woman willing to have sex with him.

Andrew Tate, I just don’t get it?
OP posts:
Mydogisagentleman · 24/07/2026 11:49

I read something this morning that is horrendous. I won't report it but I honestly hope that he has to face his victims in court just just before he and his hateful brother are sentenced to life in China

Vinvertebrate · 24/07/2026 11:59

I didn’t get it either OP. But then I saw a video of him crouching on the floor in tight Speedos, and now I totally understand why he became a bitter and obnoxious misogynist turd.

SadiraOfTyr · 24/07/2026 12:05

Mydogisagentleman · 24/07/2026 11:49

I read something this morning that is horrendous. I won't report it but I honestly hope that he has to face his victims in court just just before he and his hateful brother are sentenced to life in China

I’m willing to bet that the Is government will block the extradition. They are in deep with Trump Jr and his cronies.

Happyjoe · 24/07/2026 13:38

regista · 23/07/2026 20:39

My son as a young teenager told me that Andrew Tate had a lot of positive things to say. And as per a previous poster there is some truth in that - on the surface he had a work hard and achieve message, he had this aspirational lifestyle, self made man, nice cars, he also appealed to young men as he fed them a victim narrative- the world is against men etc. but scratch the surface and he was saying some really vile things. It’s interesting to see clips from his paid for courses surfacing now where he is talking about how to charm women then coerce them into working on webcams to make your money for you and how he moved to Romania because they don’t act on rape allegations so he feels free. My son worked it out at some point, he didn’t even realise he had been arrested and laughed his head off at the outfit, hasn’t paid any attention to him in a long time.

I watched a YouTube video of him around this time. He told the story of how his dad abandoned his mum and she gave her everything to bring him up. He didn’t seem to have a lot of respect for her. Massive daddy issues. I wonder what his mum thinks of him.

Unfortunately I’m sure he still has followers out there who will believe he has been framed and it’s all a conspiracy etc. I don’t understand how people can’t see how nasty he is.

Don't know about his dad but his sister keeps well away from them. Someone in the family has sense.
Talking of which, am glad your son saw through him.

Lalgarh · 24/07/2026 14:00

It's true Tate hates women, but the people he really despise are the aspiring alpha male suckers he gets to give him $50/ month for his Pick up Artist courses.

I remain mystified why the violent incel losers who hate women (esp the Popular Girls) don't have a penny drop moment and figure out Tate and the PUA Bros are their true nemesis.

Naunet · 24/07/2026 14:12

Pistachiocake · 23/07/2026 14:35

When people criticise his looks/style, they're playing into his hands, because sexism is no more acceptable from an Adonis.
People will always follow daft things, like that woman who said any heterosexual sex is rape-but she was preinternet.
Sadly there seems to be more separatism these days-having lots of friends of both sexes tends to stop a lot of hatred.

Critiquing a dickhead abusers looks, is not sexism!!!

RanniTheWitch · 24/07/2026 18:05

He’s a dick, but feminism doesn’t just mean supporting women, but also supporting femininity. Including men wearing feminine clothes if they choose to.

MarmaladeorJam · 24/07/2026 18:41

RanniTheWitch · 24/07/2026 18:05

He’s a dick, but feminism doesn’t just mean supporting women, but also supporting femininity. Including men wearing feminine clothes if they choose to.

No, it does not.

Feminism is about women. Period. Pun intended.

Lalgarh · 24/07/2026 18:57

Nervousy wervous

https://nitter.net/DavidPGCSE/status/2079692817241125035#m

ElenOfTheWays · 24/07/2026 19:04

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 23/07/2026 15:53

He’s a prick but bring his looks into it is hardly fair.

It’s not his fault he looks like a Peparami…

It's entirely his own fault that he has that stupid beard though

ElenOfTheWays · 24/07/2026 19:06

Epoisses · 23/07/2026 15:57

He's a cunt

He has neither the depth nor the warmth to qualify for this designation.

He's a cock!

NeedAnyHelpWithThatPaperBag · 24/07/2026 19:09

The old adage of 'Empty Vessels make the Loudest Noise' comes to mind...

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