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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To give up and order everything on Amazon?

63 replies

Pineapplesonpizza · 21/07/2026 21:39

Ordered sports shoes direct from shoe manufacturer's website. Had to pay £9 shipping, which I accepted. Shoes didn't fit so I returned them, but I did not get a refund for the shipping. If I had ordered from Amazon (where they were available at same price) there would have been free shipping and free returns. I'd MUCH rather support businesses and order direct from them, but I'm now out £9 (having purchased no shoes). So, in the future I will order from Amazon (unless free returns are specified). AIBU?

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LightningTree · 22/07/2026 14:17

It’s up to retailers to match the service from Amazon if they don’t want to keep haemorrhaging customers.

spiderlight · 22/07/2026 14:29

@Tippexy - you are absolutely right, I take it all back! My DH actually physically placed the order on my laptop and told me it was £18, but I've just looked at my bank statement and they had indeed only charged me £9.97. They've obviously bestowed some sort of promotional discount upon me, but when I looked up what 'promotional discount deduction' referred to last night after doing the return, there were lots of people frothing on Reddit about it being to do with shipping, and it was a heavy item that would probably have cost about £8 to ship, so I figured that was what it was.

Midlifecrisis2026 · 22/07/2026 14:56

Well you wouldn’t have your bus fair refunded if you bought them from a high street shop. Businesses, especially small businesses make a loss on refunding postage so it’s not to be expected although I do agree bigger retailers (I’m looking at you, Next) could do with refunding the postage.

Goldengirl123 · 22/07/2026 14:57

That’s why I only ever use Amazon if possible

Orangemintcream · 22/07/2026 14:58

maryberryslayers · 22/07/2026 03:26

By law the retailer has to refund the cost of standard shipping if you return the full order. They can't offer 'free' returns but keep your shipping cost. Contact them and ask them to return your shipping.

https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/consumer/changed-your-mind/changing-your-mind-about-something-youve-bought/

Just use Amazon in future, these brands are large corporations that have zero loyalty to you, if sold direct from the manufacturer they still get paid directly and if distributed by Amazon, they've already been paid. Focus on your own convenience and buy at the cheapest price you can. If they were that bothered they'd offer free delivery.

River Island wouldn’t even refund the shipping for an item I sent back because it was faulty.

I don’t shop there anymore.

Domiesjola · 22/07/2026 15:09

I cannot fault amazon. Have never had a problem with returns and they were exceptional when I asked a real human being on their customer services if I could return roller skates 2 month after the return deadline. Had bought them months in advance for granddaughter and on her birthday realised I had ordered wrong size!
They were collected following day and I was reimbursed same day ! Brilliant service.

LightningTree · 22/07/2026 17:35

Many times I’ve found shoes or clothes I want to buy in a high street shop only to be told they don’t have it in my size. Get home and they want high postage to purchase on line.

mondaytosunday · 22/07/2026 17:41

But Amazon has tons of small businesses on it! In fact 60% of what is sold on Amazon globally are from independent small and medium sized and in UK 50%.

NumberOneFanNot · 22/07/2026 17:44

malificent7 · 22/07/2026 04:45

Amazon is a brilliant service...which is why Bezos is loaded.

That and not paying tax

Echobelly · 22/07/2026 17:44

I'm weaning myself off Amazon, even if I have to pay more and wait longer. I realise I have the privilege of being able to pay more so no shade to anyone for whom that's not an option, but I don't want to give them my money anymore and I don't want to be reliant on them.

Lovesacake · 22/07/2026 18:07

@NumberOneFanNot but I think they pay all the tax they have to pay? Otherwise they’d be fined surely. The don’t voluntarily pay extra tax but no business would. It’s up to our government to change the tax regs if we want more tax from them

Lovesacake · 22/07/2026 18:09

AI seems to think they paid 1.3 billion in direct uk tax last year

Tableforjoan · 22/07/2026 18:12

I’ll always order from somewhere that has the product cheaper or free shipping for the item.

So sorry to whatever shop but if you want me to pay £7 shipping on my £50 Item and Amazon just want £50 then Amazon gets my order.

and yes free returns as a must. If you are sure of your product I won’t need to return it. But I shouldn’t have to pay to return a faulty or late parcel.

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