Taken from a comment on another thread.
Do people really stay so obsessed about bedtimes that when they are on holiday the fo nothing all evening except sit in a hotel with a sleeping child?
And miss going out for dinner ( many restaurants open later abroad) or even hotel entertainment
From a personal perspective had mine as toddlers asleep in a buggy and carried on with the holiday. What's the point of actually going if you restrict yourself so much?
YABU. - bedtime routine is so important
Yanbu. Like to have a bit of freedom in holiday