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spinninginmyhighestheels · 15/07/2026 07:33

I’m overweight. I always have been and likely always will be. I was a size 18 by age 15, and as you can imagine I was picked on mercilessly at school because of it.

From the age of about 12, I couldn’t stand to have a full length mirror in my room. I would cover them up, I covered them up at uni and would refuse to look in them. I hit a high of 26 stone a few years ago and over the last two years I have lost 10 and a half stone to get back down to a size 16-18.

For the first time in my adult life, I feel confident. So much so that I’ve just ordered a mirror. For the first time in 15 years I feel confident enough to look at my own reflection.

I know it sounds stupid, but I wish I could go back 10 years and tell my teenage self that there will be a time where I don’t hate her and don’t want to die.

I’m so proud of myself and the work I’ve done to get here 🥹

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mysparkleismissing · 15/07/2026 22:21

Absolutely brilliant well done!!!

ThingsCouldBeEasier · 15/07/2026 23:43

Well done, OP!

Roseyposey1 · 16/07/2026 12:49

Absolute QUEEN 👑 well done!!

spinninginmyhighestheels · 16/07/2026 12:50

Thank you all! It arrives this evening and I’m very excited!

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Lexy2345 · 16/07/2026 13:07

Lovely news, well done you superstar!

FishDogBird · 16/07/2026 15:34

Well done!!!! You bare those arms with pride. 💪

Pelsall116 · 16/07/2026 17:15

Wow brilliant, well done and you have every right to be massively proud of yourself x

Trishthedish · 16/07/2026 21:55

Absolutely bloody fantastic. Well done you.

Booboobagins · 16/07/2026 23:12

Well done!!! Absolutely blooming fab.

Get the mirror that you want not just any old mirror xxx

Shelleyblueeyes · 16/07/2026 23:15

Well done.

You must be over the moon.
X

youneverwalkedinmyshoes · 29/07/2026 14:37

spinninginmyhighestheels · 15/07/2026 07:33

I’m overweight. I always have been and likely always will be. I was a size 18 by age 15, and as you can imagine I was picked on mercilessly at school because of it.

From the age of about 12, I couldn’t stand to have a full length mirror in my room. I would cover them up, I covered them up at uni and would refuse to look in them. I hit a high of 26 stone a few years ago and over the last two years I have lost 10 and a half stone to get back down to a size 16-18.

For the first time in my adult life, I feel confident. So much so that I’ve just ordered a mirror. For the first time in 15 years I feel confident enough to look at my own reflection.

I know it sounds stupid, but I wish I could go back 10 years and tell my teenage self that there will be a time where I don’t hate her and don’t want to die.

I’m so proud of myself and the work I’ve done to get here 🥹

This is massive achievement, you should be very proud of yourself.

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