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52 replies

spinninginmyhighestheels · Yesterday 07:33

I’m overweight. I always have been and likely always will be. I was a size 18 by age 15, and as you can imagine I was picked on mercilessly at school because of it.

From the age of about 12, I couldn’t stand to have a full length mirror in my room. I would cover them up, I covered them up at uni and would refuse to look in them. I hit a high of 26 stone a few years ago and over the last two years I have lost 10 and a half stone to get back down to a size 16-18.

For the first time in my adult life, I feel confident. So much so that I’ve just ordered a mirror. For the first time in 15 years I feel confident enough to look at my own reflection.

I know it sounds stupid, but I wish I could go back 10 years and tell my teenage self that there will be a time where I don’t hate her and don’t want to die.

I’m so proud of myself and the work I’ve done to get here 🥹

OP posts:
xhickentonight · Yesterday 09:05

You fucking legend, simple as!

omghereistrouble · Yesterday 09:16

You are a superstar! Well done and enjoy your mirror!

Namechangingregularly · Yesterday 12:11

Really well done. And I don’t mean this rudely but I hope that you have access to weight loss injections to help you on your way. I’ve had a life changing experience with them and I’m so glad I did it.
you deserve all the happiness and every joy in life

spinninginmyhighestheels · Yesterday 14:07

Thank you everyone!🥹

OP posts:
Ahwelltoobad · Yesterday 14:09

Very inspiring, thank you!

sunnydayyzz · Yesterday 14:29

Be proud OP! A new journey now OP, learning to love yourself ♥

IHateEmptyPockets · Yesterday 15:03

That’s amazing, you should be proud of yourself. We are! Grin Flowers

5128gap · Yesterday 15:44

A pity they don't sell mirrors that let us see what's inside as well. It's your courage and determination to improve your life and health that you need to celebrate. I'm glad there's a visible sign of that for you to enjoy. But don't forget, the important part that you need to love and be proud of lies underneath.

FaceIt · Yesterday 15:46

That’s an incredible achievement.
Well done 🤩

Sortingmyself · Yesterday 17:02

5128gap · Yesterday 15:44

A pity they don't sell mirrors that let us see what's inside as well. It's your courage and determination to improve your life and health that you need to celebrate. I'm glad there's a visible sign of that for you to enjoy. But don't forget, the important part that you need to love and be proud of lies underneath.

Aw that's lovely

Baking07 · Yesterday 17:04

Really amazing.
Congratulations.

60andcounting · Yesterday 17:10

Fantastic. Well done to you. Keep going, onwards and upwards.

Beingseenisneedy · Yesterday 18:26

What a great achievement! Well done OP 🎊👏🎉.
You should be proud indeed. 💖

ErinAoife · Yesterday 19:24

Well done congratulations

Dweetfidilove · Yesterday 19:26

That's a fantastic achievement! You've earned that confidence 👏🏾.

HappyMuma · Yesterday 19:53

Well done you!!

Horses7 · Yesterday 21:11

Very well done OP!!

TheLovelinessOfDemons · Yesterday 21:12

Well done!

LongDarkTeatime · Yesterday 21:20

Congratulations!
I’ve recently lost 5 stone and can empathise with the feeling of increased confidence (still don’t like mirrors though).
Enjoy yourself ❤️

Pearlstillsinging · Yesterday 21:25

Well done! What a wonderful achievement. Enjoy your mirror.

arfidisarealthing · Yesterday 21:25

this is so lovely to hear 💐 well done you!!!

chiccachicca · Yesterday 21:26

OP, I am genuinely so happy for you. What a wonderful achievement x

247achybreakyheart · Yesterday 21:47

Congratulations that’s fantastic! You should be soooo incredibly proud of yourself- that’s extremely hard to do- well done 👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻

Itsallanillusion · Yesterday 22:00

Well done, you're a star.

sobby · Yesterday 22:18

spinninginmyhighestheels · Yesterday 07:33

I’m overweight. I always have been and likely always will be. I was a size 18 by age 15, and as you can imagine I was picked on mercilessly at school because of it.

From the age of about 12, I couldn’t stand to have a full length mirror in my room. I would cover them up, I covered them up at uni and would refuse to look in them. I hit a high of 26 stone a few years ago and over the last two years I have lost 10 and a half stone to get back down to a size 16-18.

For the first time in my adult life, I feel confident. So much so that I’ve just ordered a mirror. For the first time in 15 years I feel confident enough to look at my own reflection.

I know it sounds stupid, but I wish I could go back 10 years and tell my teenage self that there will be a time where I don’t hate her and don’t want to die.

I’m so proud of myself and the work I’ve done to get here 🥹

What an amazing lady you really are. And then to post and give others hope too . Well done for just being you 🙏❤️🙏