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spinninginmyhighestheels · 15/07/2026 07:33

I’m overweight. I always have been and likely always will be. I was a size 18 by age 15, and as you can imagine I was picked on mercilessly at school because of it.

From the age of about 12, I couldn’t stand to have a full length mirror in my room. I would cover them up, I covered them up at uni and would refuse to look in them. I hit a high of 26 stone a few years ago and over the last two years I have lost 10 and a half stone to get back down to a size 16-18.

For the first time in my adult life, I feel confident. So much so that I’ve just ordered a mirror. For the first time in 15 years I feel confident enough to look at my own reflection.

I know it sounds stupid, but I wish I could go back 10 years and tell my teenage self that there will be a time where I don’t hate her and don’t want to die.

I’m so proud of myself and the work I’ve done to get here 🥹

OP posts:
xhickentonight · 15/07/2026 09:05

You fucking legend, simple as!

omghereistrouble · 15/07/2026 09:16

You are a superstar! Well done and enjoy your mirror!

Namechangingregularly · 15/07/2026 12:11

Really well done. And I don’t mean this rudely but I hope that you have access to weight loss injections to help you on your way. I’ve had a life changing experience with them and I’m so glad I did it.
you deserve all the happiness and every joy in life

spinninginmyhighestheels · 15/07/2026 14:07

Thank you everyone!🥹

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Ahwelltoobad · 15/07/2026 14:09

Very inspiring, thank you!

sunnydayyzz · 15/07/2026 14:29

Be proud OP! A new journey now OP, learning to love yourself ♥

IHateEmptyPockets · 15/07/2026 15:03

That’s amazing, you should be proud of yourself. We are! Grin Flowers

5128gap · 15/07/2026 15:44

A pity they don't sell mirrors that let us see what's inside as well. It's your courage and determination to improve your life and health that you need to celebrate. I'm glad there's a visible sign of that for you to enjoy. But don't forget, the important part that you need to love and be proud of lies underneath.

FaceIt · 15/07/2026 15:46

That’s an incredible achievement.
Well done 🤩

Sortingmyself · 15/07/2026 17:02

5128gap · 15/07/2026 15:44

A pity they don't sell mirrors that let us see what's inside as well. It's your courage and determination to improve your life and health that you need to celebrate. I'm glad there's a visible sign of that for you to enjoy. But don't forget, the important part that you need to love and be proud of lies underneath.

Aw that's lovely

Baking07 · 15/07/2026 17:04

Really amazing.
Congratulations.

60andcounting · 15/07/2026 17:10

Fantastic. Well done to you. Keep going, onwards and upwards.

Beingseenisneedy · 15/07/2026 18:26

What a great achievement! Well done OP 🎊👏🎉.
You should be proud indeed. 💖

ErinAoife · 15/07/2026 19:24

Well done congratulations

Dweetfidilove · 15/07/2026 19:26

That's a fantastic achievement! You've earned that confidence 👏🏾.

HappyMuma · 15/07/2026 19:53

Well done you!!

Horses7 · 15/07/2026 21:11

Very well done OP!!

TheLovelinessOfDemons · 15/07/2026 21:12

Well done!

LongDarkTeatime · 15/07/2026 21:20

Congratulations!
I’ve recently lost 5 stone and can empathise with the feeling of increased confidence (still don’t like mirrors though).
Enjoy yourself ❤️

Pearlstillsinging · 15/07/2026 21:25

Well done! What a wonderful achievement. Enjoy your mirror.

arfidisarealthing · 15/07/2026 21:25

this is so lovely to hear 💐 well done you!!!

chiccachicca · 15/07/2026 21:26

OP, I am genuinely so happy for you. What a wonderful achievement x

247achybreakyheart · 15/07/2026 21:47

Congratulations that’s fantastic! You should be soooo incredibly proud of yourself- that’s extremely hard to do- well done 👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻

Itsallanillusion · 15/07/2026 22:00

Well done, you're a star.

sobby · 15/07/2026 22:18

spinninginmyhighestheels · 15/07/2026 07:33

I’m overweight. I always have been and likely always will be. I was a size 18 by age 15, and as you can imagine I was picked on mercilessly at school because of it.

From the age of about 12, I couldn’t stand to have a full length mirror in my room. I would cover them up, I covered them up at uni and would refuse to look in them. I hit a high of 26 stone a few years ago and over the last two years I have lost 10 and a half stone to get back down to a size 16-18.

For the first time in my adult life, I feel confident. So much so that I’ve just ordered a mirror. For the first time in 15 years I feel confident enough to look at my own reflection.

I know it sounds stupid, but I wish I could go back 10 years and tell my teenage self that there will be a time where I don’t hate her and don’t want to die.

I’m so proud of myself and the work I’ve done to get here 🥹

What an amazing lady you really are. And then to post and give others hope too . Well done for just being you 🙏❤️🙏