AIBU to feel hurt by DH speaking to me badly all weekend?

[Strugglingmumma88]

Had a family event today

Dh has spoken to me like something he picked up on his shoes all day. Well all weekend really. Nothing I have done has been good enough. I wasn't prepared to pack the car up early enough - fine but we both could have done it yesterday and neither of us did. I was running the kids to parties all afternoon and he had a nap in preparation for the football

Couldn't take a photo properly because the lighting was bad - also my fault even when I asked him to move

Haven't spent enough time with him all day - i was busy in the kitchen helping at the event

And then when we back to a relatives house after the party finally had 5 mins to sit down next to him but meant having to climb past people, he started making beeping noises like a lorry does when its moving - and he knows i'm really sensitive about my weight at the moment

Just had enough today

Does he have form for being unpleasant to you OP?

You're divorcing him when?

Your husband is a complete and utter cunt. I'm sorry he's done this to you all weekend. I'm assuming he's an abusive arsehole and your life would be so much better without him. You don't deserve to be treated like that and your kids shouldn't have to grow up watching their dad belittle their mom. So sorry for you💐

I don't think the beeping noise was a comment on your weight (unless he has form?). It's a thing to say "beep beep" when someone is trying to get through. I find it immature and irritating but I've never known it to be a comment on someone's size.

The rest of it, yeah, dickish. How would he react if you told him it upset you?

He does have form for going on (and on a oit my weight) he says itsvkiat banter etc but I have asked him to stop so many times and he just keeps going

He compares me to my thinner friends and says he imagines being with them instead or we should invite them back so he can compare. When i tell him to stop that he accuses me of being boring

He imagines being with your friends?!

WHAATTTTTTTTTTTTT. OP. Tell him to buck his ideas up immediately or leave that wanker to his "fantasies".

Good God. Ok, yeah, he's a nasty arsehole. And I don't need to hear any more to know he's shit in bed too.

Remind him that a micropenis is a medical condition and nothing to be ashamed of. Say it in crowded places. What a fucking tosser.

Wish he sounds gross. Show him this thread then put your foot down and stand up for yourself or play him at his own game and do the same back but really you should leave him asap as he is awful

Don't show him the thread, it won't help, he'll play the victim with you for starting it and dismiss us all as bitter, angry old crones. Which we are, but that's why we're right.

Reassess this relationship. I see no way it can bring you any happiness. He's a shit.

WTF am I reading? Is this what he does usually? Because why are you with him? He sounds about as emotionally mature as a brick and about as attractive.

Tell him to stop imagining being with your thinner friends, to put it into effect and make it permanent. You’d be much better off without him.

What on earth makes him think any of your friends would be prepared to.put up with his behaviour? I'm sure they've seen enough to be put off him for life.

The divorce form can be filled in online, start planning your future free from your abuser, never again to be mocked and treated with hatred.
The man is a monster.

He sounds awful. You can do better.

Your H is an absolute piece of shit. I presume you have told him to shut the fuck up and never, ever speak to you like that again…. I am sorry, he is treating you like this, I hope he does not do this to the kids?

He is an abusive, nasty man - please leave.

This is abuse. He sounds just awful.
you would be happier without him

I’m sorry but what???!! You do know that’s not ok don’t you? Why would you put up with that? Does he ever make you feel special or does he just focus on your weight?

Stop feeling hurt and start feeling angry! He's a complete prick and you can do so much better.

He’s disgusting

Tell him all your friends think he’s disgusting too

This marriage sounds more like torture honestly plan to leave this bastard

Oh my God. Do you realise he’s a massive twat!?
I’d have left this dickhead a long time ago.

Wow what an absolute asshole! Next time tell him you would but you’d probably have more chance of pulling them than he would!
He needs throwing out into a very big pond with all the other stinking rotten fish!!!!!!!!!

He will never change, most likely will get a lot worse. Leave him, you will be happier. I have personal experience of this type of situation.

Is being with a man, even one that vile, better than being alone? If he is this vile in public @Strugglingmumma88 it’s very like your friends know what a bellend he is and would vomit at his invitation. You can lose weight. He’s stuck being a cunt.