Being told that as a size 18 I can’t wear certain clothes

[isaidmaybeyoure]

I do appreciate that when posting canvassing for opinions on outfits etc., you will get all sorts of responses.

But I have been told a few times now that as a size 18, I should cover up and not expose too much skin, basically purely because of my size.

AIBU to think this isn’t okay? I have as much a right to get my shoulders out as any other size!

😂

I don’t think there should be, or is, any rules about a certain size wearing certain clothes.

Do certain styles look better on certain bodies? Yes, obviously. Does that mean anybody who doesn’t have that body shouldn’t wear those styles? No.

What mission are you on? To try to make her feel shit about herself?

Yes there was a thread commenting on the number of ‘certain threads’ on here lately and I think this is another. Why do they do it?

Anyone with views like that can get to fuck imo.

I mean, look at Paloma E, she’s disgusting isn’t she? In her horrible size 16/18 ness. 🙄🙄😴. Awful. And with her curved tummy and shoulders on show. Nothing remotely attractive about her, no way she’d ever make a living as a… I dunno- a model?

Wear what you like OP. Wear whatever makes you feel good. Get your shoulders or any other body part out which pleases you 💪

Come on though. Op first tells is that an obviously overweight model isn’t overweight. Then posts an AI photo of herself in a dress that has changed her body. I’m not sure any of this can be real. 😂😂😂

Wait, in those pics you posted @isaidmaybeyoure are any of those women you? (I am assuming white dress with black polka dots? Is that you?)

If so, why are some people saying that the MODEL is clearly overweight (the woman in the brown dress?) She isn't remotely overweight.

The woman in the white and black polka dot dress (the OP?) is - a bit - but she looks fine though. The dress looks nice. Lovely and cool. 😎

What are you on about?

She has repeatedly implied a woman cannot be overweight and gorgeous.

Repeatedly on both threads.

There is a 'hide thread' function on here. Feel free to use it.

I have no dress sense. How does one acquire this? Genuine question.

Yes, the black and white dots is me

I use ChatGPT a lot for outfit planning, it’s really useful!

Read the thread. It’s what has happened on this thread.

People are discussing the photo in the second link on the OP's original thread.

Here for the drama. 😂

Side by side I’d say my shoulders look pretty similar!

Would you not rather than it made you look what you actually look like though?

Yes! Strapless bras are awful. Either mono boob look or fiendishly uncomfortable. I do what you do too with my ordinary bras.

I look pretty similar to that. Sorry if it offends you to see someone fat and confident in their body

The stick on ones are awful. I had a square boob situation going on

Well you look fine! 😘 Ignore the haters. As has been said, some people think ANYone over a size 10 is a big heifer who should not come out of their house in daylight!

Why does ChatGPT do this? Unless you ask it to slim down your arms or whatever, why can’t it keep things real?

Oh love wear what you want. I spent my youth worried about the size of my arse and now I don't care and it's the least of my problems. I bet you look fabulous!

Life is so short.

It’s interesting how, according to some people, some flesh seems to be ok and other flesh doesn’t. Wear what you like. It’s your body and your life.