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AIBU to think a tip worker’s comment was borderline?

30 replies

IffWhite · 26/06/2026 11:45

Taking a carfull to the tip with dh.

I threw a couple of sofa cushions in the wrong bit and was very apologetic to the man, who came along with his long hook to get them out. The staff are all quite loud and jokey there.

I was crawling into the boot on all 4s to get the rest - so my arse poking out. The tip man was being jovial and told DH, loudly, " you ought to give that wife of yours a good hiding". I think the cushions were heavy.

Aibu this was particularly inappropriate/weird)?

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PrettyLittleRose · 26/06/2026 19:52

Tootles1 · 26/06/2026 13:06

For those judging the intelligence of tip workers, you don’t know their backgrounds. There could be lots of reasons why they work there and lack of intelligence not being one of them. Never judge a book by its cover.

Some reasons could be because they get paid about £36,000 a year for a 4 and a half day week, (finish at midday on Friday/33-34 hours a week) with 5 weeks holiday (plus all the bank holidays.) Also, they have an excellent council pension, and for the most part, the job is a doddle. They're not daft, they know they've got it good, and they're laughing at people who look down on them.

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DuckyLuck · 26/06/2026 20:08

Bez72 · 26/06/2026 12:46

LOL 😂

Yeah we're about the same age, with the same sense of humour I see 😆

1970 born here and I laughed out loud 😂

LilacDrift · 26/06/2026 20:16

NCOneDayOnly · 26/06/2026 12:30

I’d have given him both barrels. ‘Jokes’ about men hitting women don’t sit well with me. There are similar misogynistic pricks at my local tip too. That’s why they’re working at the tip, presumably, and not carrying out anything that involves much in the way of intelligence.

Working at the tip is a relatively well paid job with a good pension. You sound like a snob.

Petrolhead01 · 26/06/2026 20:27

PrettyLittleRose · 26/06/2026 19:52

Some reasons could be because they get paid about £36,000 a year for a 4 and a half day week, (finish at midday on Friday/33-34 hours a week) with 5 weeks holiday (plus all the bank holidays.) Also, they have an excellent council pension, and for the most part, the job is a doddle. They're not daft, they know they've got it good, and they're laughing at people who look down on them.

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Edited

Not round here. All tips are privately owned and are open BH.

AWeeCupOfTeaAndAnIndividualFruitTrifle · 26/06/2026 22:24

Surely the fact that they have a long hook in the first place suggests that it's far from uncommon for people to make genuine mistakes or have a bit of a brain-fart and chuck stuff in the wrong skip?

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