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To consider cancelling my holiday because of the EES?

489 replies

idontwanttogoanymore · 30/05/2026 22:21

I just can’t cope with this stress. I will be travelling alone and I can’t afford (literally or mentally) to miss a flight because of this system.

I just don’t want to go. It’s looming over me. I did it in February going into Norway, but that makes no difference. You’re still in the queue for hours. I’m flying with Ryanair and they only open their bag drop 2 hours before, they’re now saying three hours to get through. So it’ll be literally impossible.

OP posts:
Urzurtixitxigcog · 02/06/2026 18:17

Just flown with Ryanair, was self check in and bag drop off, flew from Manchester, we were there 3 hours before, very very easy

Romanesk · 02/06/2026 18:19

AmethystDeceiver · 30/05/2026 22:39

Yes but if 100% of Ryanair passengers were missing their flight because of their policy they would have changed it by now. Most people must be getting to their destination with their suitcases. The odds are in your favor on this

I think a lot of people flying with Ryanair don't have any checked luggage, so they can arrive and go through security an hour or more before the bag-drop opens.

PrincessHedgehog · 03/06/2026 01:09

Cosmo8329 · 01/06/2026 11:47

A person does not have to have a physical disability to have supported assistance through an airport. That person or child may have other reasons to request assistance.

Very good point. I have often seen people online recommend that disgruntled & entitled posters specifically request “wheelchair assistance” (that they don’t actually require) in order to avoid the routine hassles of air travel, which repulses me, however other forms of disability certainly do need support. I am a big supporter of the sunflower lanyard programme which indicates ‘invisible’ disability and identifies those who may need additional assistance.

But this thread is wild. I don’t think that this amount of angry ranting about Keir Starmer & the footy warrants anything but an eye roll.

Cherrytree86 · 05/06/2026 19:45

Just stay home, OP

@idontwanttogoanymore

CaesarAugusta · 06/06/2026 11:24

idontwanttogoanymore · 01/06/2026 08:16

Is it?

It’s been how long and still nothing has been negotiated? Queues of tourists at the border, people missing connections, and flights. Bad enough to make national news. But all he cares about is Arsenal.

Don't you blame any of his predecessors for not negotiating this? After all, Johnson and his mates had 8 years after Brexit and actually negotiated the deal, if it's that easy surely they could have sneaked in a clause exempting British citizens from airport security queues?

HelloUndies · 06/06/2026 11:38

Why don't you people blame the EU for bad border control.......there are Aussies who live and work in the UK who want to go on holiday to the EU... Do they deserve a bad experience at the border?

Exasperateddonut · 06/06/2026 11:42

This is such a non issue. If you’re that worried just take hand luggage.

Acommonreader · 06/06/2026 12:19

idontwanttogoanymore · 30/05/2026 22:57

They wouldn’t call you though would they 😂 you’re a travel agent and it’s a Saturday. You’d be their last thought

Op please stop mocking all the very reasonable , informed replies from people who fly regularly and work in the travel industry.
You obviously really want to cancel your trip , and to blame the PM , Ryanair and Brexit for an unlikely scenario.
Get help for your anxiety and have a great holiday.

Livpool · 06/06/2026 13:11

idontwanttogoanymore · 30/05/2026 23:10

They could easily negotiate a deal with the EU wherein we’re excluded from those checks. But he has to pretend to be a man of the people with his “Gooner” status.

I’m sorry but WTAF. Do you hate Arsenal?? You are being ridiculous. We left the EU, we are just another country now, Starmer doesn’t have anything to negotiate.

And I was, and remain, against Brexit but we are where we are

HelloUndies · 06/06/2026 13:30

Also. The UK let's EU citizens use e-gates. If the EU is all so great why can't it design a smooth border process for non citizens?

SophieJo · 06/06/2026 13:37

This is such a strange thread that I think it’s a troll. The Op isn’t interested in the really informed replies she gets.

Clavinova · 06/06/2026 15:17

Livpool · 06/06/2026 13:11

I’m sorry but WTAF. Do you hate Arsenal?? You are being ridiculous. We left the EU, we are just another country now, Starmer doesn’t have anything to negotiate.

And I was, and remain, against Brexit but we are where we are

Starmer doesn’t have anything to negotiate

What was the government twittering on about last year then?

May 2025
Starmer says his deal with the EU will help British holidaymakers as they'll be able to use e-gates when they travel to Europe, "ending those huge queues to passport control".

The UK government said the move would end “the dreaded queues at border control."

Say goodbye to the long long queues at passport control
Labour is getting you on holiday faster.
Brits travelling to Europe will now be able to use e-Gates!

HelloUndies · 06/06/2026 17:19

There's only so much he can do regarding e-gates. Some countries have implemented it. The EU should be better at rollout.

There are way more important things to negotiate in the world than passport control.

Thechaseison71 · 08/06/2026 21:07

Maybe we should stop EU citizens using our egates then. That would be fair

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