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Unable to open windows as people back of me smoking cannabis. Selfish *****

92 replies

Aerom · 23/05/2026 09:35

During hot weather, I open my windows before the sun hits it.

Came back from shopping and the direction of the windows I was planning to open, people in the garden on the other side of the wall are smoking cannabis. Oh great! I don’t want to have the smell of that vile stuff wafting in my home. I’m sure the varieties used now are more pungent. As my ex smoked it and the smell didn’t affect me

Live in a first floor flat

OP posts:
NotTheOrdinary · 23/05/2026 12:40

CieloElmers · 23/05/2026 11:24

Because people in “non scummy” areas never smoke weed 🙄

More likely to be snorting coke.

OtterlyAstounding · 23/05/2026 12:42

TheKittenswithMittens · 23/05/2026 12:10

I think it needs legalising, controlling and taxing.

This. The UK is very backwards in this regard. Legalising cannabis eliminates or shrinks the harmful black market, and means that on a medical and social level, it's much less harmful than alcohol.

Legalisation also provides easy, safe access to edibles, vaporisers, and other less stinky methods of consuming weed, which might mean fewer people have to smell it wafting over from the neighbours!

I don't think it smells bad, but I imagine it is irritating to have it drifting into your house when you live so close to the neighbours.

Goldengirl123 · 23/05/2026 12:42

Us too. If they want to smoke it they should do so inside their property. Why should we have have to put up with it?

PinkyFlamingo · 23/05/2026 12:45

youalright · 23/05/2026 09:46

So many people on this site seem to have such a strong sense of smell. Their outside how much is the smell really going to drift.

You would be surprised how far it travels! I can recognise the disgusting smell in the air, even when I'm walking along the street etc

smallgreenandsplitthreeways · 23/05/2026 12:45

Thechaseison71 · 23/05/2026 12:18

Hmm I have a friend who smokes it regularly but doesn't contribute to any of the things you are going on about. .

So your friend is happily and illegally growing their own plants, drying it and then smoking it? Because if they are not growing their own, where are they getting it from?

Hattermadness · 23/05/2026 13:02

youalright · 23/05/2026 09:46

So many people on this site seem to have such a strong sense of smell. Their outside how much is the smell really going to drift.

You would be surprised, I can smell when the bloke two doors down smokes it 🤢 it's rancid

Jamesblonde2 · 23/05/2026 13:05

Get the hose pipe out. Whoopsy daisy!

beeautifullif3 · 23/05/2026 13:40

Gosh all this drama over a plant 🤣🤣

SpaceRaccoon · 23/05/2026 13:52

This is why I moved to the arse end of nowhere.

SapphireSteel28 · 23/05/2026 13:58

GingerBeverage · 23/05/2026 09:49

I find a lot of people have very low sense of smell. They can’t smell their own BO, or the reek of cigarettes, or weed.

I have a ridiculously acute sense of smell-I am continually saying, “I can smell weed!” Or “Has someone farted?”

crazeekat · 23/05/2026 14:00

Clearly all u lot saying tuft put up with it all smoke it and have no sense of smell left. The stuff fucking is revolting and why the fuck should I and my kids have to suffer?? Absolute vermin who smoke this shit.

dottiedodah · 23/05/2026 14:02

I sympathise OP .We have a similar problem here .I doubt police would be interested anyway ,although it would never occur to me to report someone smoking weed .We dont open the windows all the time even in summer .A fan will work well

wombat1a · 23/05/2026 14:08

It stinks, it lingers, its worse than normal cigarettes, its anti-social to inflict this on neighbours. OP needs to escalate this as far as possible. No-one should be forced to endure someone elses weed.

AeriatedAnna · 23/05/2026 14:18

A strong sense of smell 😆 If you can’t smell that stench there’s gotta be something wrong with you.

Hotupnorth · 23/05/2026 14:22

Ablondiebutagoody · 23/05/2026 11:13

I quite like the smell. Reminds me of the good old days

Which good old days would those be then 🙄

EarthlyNightshade · 23/05/2026 14:28

beeautifullif3 · 23/05/2026 13:40

Gosh all this drama over a plant 🤣🤣

Do you feel the same about heroin? Also plant based.

SpaceRaccoon · 23/05/2026 14:37

AeriatedAnna · 23/05/2026 14:18

A strong sense of smell 😆 If you can’t smell that stench there’s gotta be something wrong with you.

Indeed, you hardly need the nose of a bloodhound to detect that wall of absolute BO reek.

Thechaseison71 · 23/05/2026 14:40

smallgreenandsplitthreeways · 23/05/2026 12:45

So your friend is happily and illegally growing their own plants, drying it and then smoking it? Because if they are not growing their own, where are they getting it from?

Yes they grow their own.

MissyB1 · 23/05/2026 15:22

beeautifullif3 · 23/05/2026 13:40

Gosh all this drama over a plant 🤣🤣

Oh yes because it’s exactly the same situation as someone putting a geranium in their patio pot 🙄🙄

OP, I feel for you, the stink of weed makes me gag, it’s revolting.

Ablondiebutagoody · 23/05/2026 15:32

Hotupnorth · 23/05/2026 14:22

Which good old days would those be then 🙄

My good old days. When I was in my prime and not a middle aged parent with responsibilities. I might get back on it when I retire 🤤

MissyB1 · 23/05/2026 15:37

Ablondiebutagoody · 23/05/2026 15:32

My good old days. When I was in my prime and not a middle aged parent with responsibilities. I might get back on it when I retire 🤤

I highly doubt it’s the same stuff you were smoking back then, you’d probably have a hell of a shock if you tried the stuff they are smoking now.

Badbadbunny · 23/05/2026 15:40

Thechaseison71 · 23/05/2026 12:18

Hmm I have a friend who smokes it regularly but doesn't contribute to any of the things you are going on about. .

So presumably they grow their own then??

Ablondiebutagoody · 23/05/2026 15:40

MissyB1 · 23/05/2026 15:37

I highly doubt it’s the same stuff you were smoking back then, you’d probably have a hell of a shock if you tried the stuff they are smoking now.

I've tried it every now and then and it hits me like a sledge hammer. Very good value. Like you would get it Amsterdam back in the day.

HoldItAllTogether · 23/05/2026 15:47

yanbu
it smells rank and it’s such a strong pungent smell. It’s different to how it smelt a few decades ago and I really don’t think that my sence of smell has changed.
Maybe the smell of a compost heap or big pile of manure would mask the smell and dissuade them from sitting there. Tbh I think I’d prefer the smell of manure to that vomit smell of weed.

Hopeful2go · 23/05/2026 16:14

SapphireSteel28 · 23/05/2026 13:58

I have a ridiculously acute sense of smell-I am continually saying, “I can smell weed!” Or “Has someone farted?”

I don’t say it, I just think it.

Someone complaining on a local FB group was told that what they were smelling might not actually be weed. There’s a particular shrub that gives off a weedy-like pong when the sun hits it (apparently).

I beg to differ.