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Shame on you….

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minnierose92 · Yesterday 13:20

It’s been really pleasant getting a notification from mumsnet today to tell me I have a message…..

To sign in after inactivity for a while, due to being a first time mum and busy… to this.

As if there are people in the world who spend their down time sending vile messages to someone they don’t know, by name, face… nothing.

I didn’t respond, I just decided to bring it here. For all to see.
have a great day, @ThisPithyUser.

Mumsnet are reviewing the photo attached but the message was “your a failure as a mum and a vile b*tch, go to hell”.

Shame on you….
OP posts:
toomuchfaff · Yesterday 13:23

wow

vodkaredbullgirl · Yesterday 13:23

😳 charming person

LowPowerModes · Yesterday 13:23

Well, that poster has precisely one, one-word comment on one thread, ever, today, so I'll assume that what they do is send nasty PMs to people?

I wouldn't take a blind bit of notice, OP.

OneDreamyGreenMentor · Yesterday 13:23

Pointless posting a thread about it, what good will that do.

Report the account to @MNHQ and block.

YabbaDabbaDooooo · Yesterday 13:25

You're giving the troll the attention they clearly crave.

If they craved money, would you give them that too?

Just report to HQ and try not to let it get to you.

The internet is full of twats.

boundtobe · Yesterday 13:25

Hopefully you know the message isn't true. People who send anonymous messages like this are best ignored.

Hobnobswantshernameback · Yesterday 13:25

The @mnhq thing doesn't work
you need to email them or report this thread via the report button

yellowduckieswalking · Yesterday 13:30

How delightful. I bet this keyboard warrior is a real delight in person too…

Morepositivemum · Yesterday 13:40

Sorry you got that op, it’s an awful shock when people target you

Mayweatherisajoke · Yesterday 13:44

There has been some issues lately from what I saw

XenoBitch · Yesterday 14:03

This is why I disabled PMs.

IBlinkedAndBecameMiddleAged · Yesterday 14:05

Sorry OP that’s a horrible message to receive. Just ignore it. Definitely says more about the sender than the recipient!

shellyleppard · Yesterday 14:09

Report to mnhq and block them. Sorry you have had this happen

hotsoap · Yesterday 14:10

You have to ignore....
Once there was a post on fb about a very large young woman parading in bikini and everyone was telling her she is a queen. I posted: yes, but it is not healthy in the long run to live with so much obesity from an young age.

There was immediately a message from someone telling me to 😆to cut my head off....it almost sounds like the person who message you

BerryTwister · Yesterday 14:11

Vile.
OP I've reported your post so MN can see what's happened and ban @ThisPithyUser. Probably a previously banned poster anyway.

Then I'd suggest disabling DMs.

ilovesooty · Yesterday 14:12

I'm sure it will be a PBP.

I'm really sorry you got that message - it's horrible.

PipMumsnet · Yesterday 14:35

Hi @minnierose92
Thanks for flagging this. We are sorry you received that awful PM but we have banned that poster now.
MNHQ

gwrbakes · Yesterday 14:41

XenoBitch · Yesterday 14:03

This is why I disabled PMs.

Yes switch them off there has been some vile stuff messaged on here. If you do want to take something private you can mention to that poster and pop your messages back in temporarily.

HerbertHunterIWasBornToLoveYouNSoul · Yesterday 14:41

yellowduckieswalking · Yesterday 13:30

How delightful. I bet this keyboard warrior is a real delight in person too…

Or quiet as a mouse and brave AF on a screen.
Pathetic fucker.

HerbertHunterIWasBornToLoveYouNSoul · Yesterday 14:43

XenoBitch · Yesterday 14:03

This is why I disabled PMs.

Don't blame you,I've saw you getting some flack on some of the night time threads.

HarryKanesLeftSock · Yesterday 14:43

There have been loads of issues with PMs and weird threads lately. MNHQ needs to look into this and make sure it doesn’t happen again.

HarryKanesLeftSock · Yesterday 14:44

HerbertHunterIWasBornToLoveYouNSoul · Yesterday 14:41

Or quiet as a mouse and brave AF on a screen.
Pathetic fucker.

’Brave’ is not the word I’d use!

PinkyFlamingo · Yesterday 14:46

Have you reported it?

XenoBitch · Yesterday 14:46

HerbertHunterIWasBornToLoveYouNSoul · Yesterday 14:43

Don't blame you,I've saw you getting some flack on some of the night time threads.

Exactly. At least if people post on the boards and not be a coward and take it to PM, everyone else can see what a nasty person they are.
Although I can see the merit in screenshotting a PM and making it public too, like OP has done.

PickAChew · Yesterday 14:49

gwrbakes · Yesterday 14:41

Yes switch them off there has been some vile stuff messaged on here. If you do want to take something private you can mention to that poster and pop your messages back in temporarily.

You can also initiate PM conversations, even if no one can initiate them with you.

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