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Is this really that unusual? Leggings debate

86 replies

KristinaaTravels · 24/04/2026 22:57

My two besties have just left mine. Amongst the copious amounts of wine, we somehow got onto the subject of what we wear under leggings. As I thought was normal, my friend and I said we don’t wear anything, much to our others friend’s amazement! The leggings are tight enough without anything else 😂

Are we just weirdo’s or are you with us two?

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Northermcharn · 24/04/2026 23:53

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Yeah.. A bored sad little chap in his mums spare room..

Funnywonder · 24/04/2026 23:57

KristinaaTravels · 24/04/2026 23:14

We did wonder (our other friend got her taxi home first) if she doesn’t do the same as she’s a slightly plumper lady, but she said she wouldn’t even if she was a supermodel!

How very strange to think that a person’s size would influence their preference in this regard🤨

BerryTwister · 24/04/2026 23:58

No I know why some leggings actually show the outline of peoples pubes! They’re clearly not wearing pants underneath.

Out of curiosity OP, do you wear pants with jeans or joggers? If you do, then why are leggings different?

Princessconsuelabananahammock9 · 24/04/2026 23:59

I don’t understand why you wouldn’t?

I don’t have discharge but at the end of the day my underwear is a little musty.

I wouldn’t want to not be wearing any.

murasaki · 25/04/2026 00:02

Don't indulge the camel toe discharge pervert.

Fooledaroundandfellinlove · 25/04/2026 00:03

AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 24/04/2026 23:40

If it was a pair of those ultra tight scrunch bum leggings, worn without any pants, and your body unexpectedly 'took a screenshot' when you were convinced it was only going to be a powerful cough and nothing equivalent from further south, it would be saints preserve us and Goodnight, Vienna with no survivors at all.

🤣🤣

livelovelough24 · 25/04/2026 00:04

I never not wear underwear.😫

TheSpecialTwo · 25/04/2026 00:06

No woman speaks about her friend’s body in those terms. Get lost, weirdo.

Bristolandlazy · 25/04/2026 00:07

Sounds like a fetish that to me.

MoonWoman69 · 25/04/2026 00:09

I don't wear anything under leggings, I'm not unhygienic! And I only wear them once before washing them! I tried knickers of all types and ended up with them being dragged down underneath all the time. Then a friend asked why I bothered with knickers at all! Game changer! Much more comfy. The leggings I wear now have a little gusset in them anyway!

BunnyLake · 25/04/2026 00:09

KristinaaTravels · 24/04/2026 22:57

My two besties have just left mine. Amongst the copious amounts of wine, we somehow got onto the subject of what we wear under leggings. As I thought was normal, my friend and I said we don’t wear anything, much to our others friend’s amazement! The leggings are tight enough without anything else 😂

Are we just weirdo’s or are you with us two?

Do you mean you don’t wear underwear under leggings? That would never occur to me.

EBearhug · 25/04/2026 00:11

I mostly wear leggings for activities which means I'll get sweaty, so yes to knickers. But even if I was just mooching around- it's probably okay since I'm fast heading to menopause, but in younger days - we'll, I knew when I was ovulating. And also ot bleached my gussets a bit. So I think an extra layer is wise, but I don't really care what others do.

BabooshkaHaHa · 25/04/2026 00:11

Yuck.

ilovesooty · 25/04/2026 00:12

BabooshkaHaHa · 25/04/2026 00:11

Yuck.

Yes.

bittertwisted · 25/04/2026 00:13

No underwear here, hate layers of any kind because I’m small
they go in the wash after one wear so what’s the issue

bittertwisted · 25/04/2026 00:17

Flamingojune · 24/04/2026 23:18

Whats tightness got to do with it? So nothing under skin tight jeans?.

Yep

MoonWoman69 · 25/04/2026 00:19

Just to add, I don't suffer with a leaky fadge, that's grimmer to me than not wearing knickers under leggings! I think if some of you are suffering with so much discharge, you need to get that checked out!
Maybe I'm lucky that I don't have damp gusset issues!

Denim4ever · 25/04/2026 00:49

Personally, I just don't like leggings without a longer top or tunic so the current way of wearing them - even as sportswear - is not for me. If I was going to wear them, I would wear knickers. Plenty of seam free options out there. If they camel toe or do the equivalent look to the bum cheeks they look absurd

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ValueofNothing · 25/04/2026 00:59

I think it's seen as unhygienic because leggings material can often (thought not always) be quite thin, clingy and in general non-absorbent, so if you sit down anywhere and you have discharge, it could potentially soak though and be unpleasant.

Sensiblesal · 25/04/2026 00:59

I wear my comfy granny pants. My tops are generally long enough to cover my bum.

no underwear sounds a bit gross

KristinaaTravels · 25/04/2026 08:59

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Said like someone who is also a slightly plumper lady!

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ilovesooty · 25/04/2026 09:08

KristinaaTravels · 25/04/2026 08:59

Said like someone who is also a slightly plumper lady!

I'm sure your friend would be delighted to know that's how you described her on a public forum. 🙄

TheSpecialTwo · 25/04/2026 09:12

MoonWoman69 · 25/04/2026 00:19

Just to add, I don't suffer with a leaky fadge, that's grimmer to me than not wearing knickers under leggings! I think if some of you are suffering with so much discharge, you need to get that checked out!
Maybe I'm lucky that I don't have damp gusset issues!

Your post is the grimmest thing on this thread. “Leaky fadge” is a term I hope I don’t see again.