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Average age 1st time mums

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moonsovermiami · 19/01/2026 15:50

What's the average age of a first time mum in your area?

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PollyPlumPeach · 23/01/2026 11:10

Firetreev · 19/01/2026 16:04

What a snooty and stereotyping response!

It's true though

CatLady1994 · 23/01/2026 11:23

I was 28 when I had my first - probably on the younger side for my area but not strangely so. I was the youngest by a fair few years in my NCT class though - the next nearest mum in age to me was 35! I guess it depends where you go as well in terms of the impression you get- at least in my area, traditional soft plays seem to attract the younger mum crowd wheras the new trendy 'play cafe's' definitely attract an 'older' (30+) demographic.

Pleasepleasepleaseletmesleeep · 23/01/2026 11:31

I'd say early to mid 30s here. I had my first at 25, in my previous village that was totally the norm and most Mums in DCs class were a similar age. When DC moved schools to where I live now I was the youngest by a long way and I'd say most of the mothers in DC's class view me as a teen mum 😂 I was 30 when I had DC2 and I'm still on the younger side of her class but of a more similar and acceptable age.

Thepeopleversuswork · 23/01/2026 12:16

Firetreev · 19/01/2026 16:04

What a snooty and stereotyping response!

Its not snooty: there’s a huge amount of data that backs this up. The more prosperous women are, the later they have children.

HeadyLamarr · 23/01/2026 12:19

Firetreev · 19/01/2026 16:04

What a snooty and stereotyping response!

It's just stats. Not judgment, merely an accurate reflection of reality -maternal education and income are hugely significant when it comes to age of having a child.

DrCoconut · 23/01/2026 13:12

Meadowfinch · 19/01/2026 16:56

Most mums at the reception class gate are in their 40s so I guess 34 to 38.

Not surprising given that a two bed house/flat is £350k+

Round here they would be the grandma. Although of course there are exceptions (I was one with third DS) most mums collecting from reception look to be early 20s.

ResusciAnnie · 23/01/2026 13:15

Around here it’s a mix of early 30s and early 20s. I was 25 with first; 32 with my last (of 3).

Surrey, no degree, household income comfortably 6 figures.

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