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AIBU to think if you're a net negative in tax you shouldn't be able to vote?

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SBGM247 · 12/01/2026 13:21

Trigger warning: strong political views / rant incoming. A shrinking group is expected to fund an expanding system. The system increasingly penalises work while rewarding dependency.

AIBU to think the modern state is a parasite, and that only those who are a net positive in taxes should be able to vote, rather than forcing working people to support an ever-growing dependent class?

Currently ~21% of working-age adults are economically inactive, meaning not working and not actively seeking work (according to a research brief from the House of Commons). Democracy is broken if voters can vote themselves benefits paid for by others. Representation should be weighted toward those with demonstrable responsibility and contribution.

Currently, the state is extractive and hollowing out the middle class. As anyone that has the eyes to see and ears to hear will know, dependency is rising and and demographics are changing at a rate not seen outside of wartime.

To address this simply, I think if you’re on benefits you should lose the right to vote until you’re a net positive. That would restore equilibrium.

This is essentially Chesterton’s test of a society.

"An honest man falls in love with an honest woman. He wishes, therefore, to marry her, to be the father of her children, to secure her and himself. All systems of government should be tested by whether he can do this.

If any system, feudal, servile, or barbaric, does in fact give him enough land, work, or security that he can do it, there is the essence of liberty and justice.

If any system, Labour, Conservative, Liberal Democrat, Green, Reform, or technocratic, does in fact give him wages so low and conditions so insecure that he cannot do it, there is the essence of tyranny and shame."

If the state could stop turning people into dependents that working people have to pay for, that would be great. The state is bloated, fixated on wealth redistribution rather than wealth creation, and actively working against the people it is meant to represent. It is incapable of creating the conditions for wealth, stability, and independence. This is managed decline, and we need some adults in the room who have read a book. AIBU?

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NeverDropYourMooncup · 12/01/2026 14:48

SBGM247 · 12/01/2026 14:26

I'm listening @NeverDropYourMooncup. What you thinking?

That it's a lousy idea that hasn't been thought through.

You're describing a form of Novus homo.

Your modern day nobilis wouldn't be happy with that. Or your newly created mancipium.

throwawayimplantchat · 12/01/2026 14:48

If someone was born with a disability that meant they were unable to safely work in an employed role but (for example) they are a law abiding citizen, perhaps do some volunteering if able… you don’t think they should have the right to vote in elections that will hugely impact their quality of life?

FuzzyPuffling · 12/01/2026 14:49

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 12/01/2026 14:47

Christ l know.

Get to fuck with them🤮

He's done it to me too.
Strange MO.

TheCompactPussycat · 12/01/2026 14:49

SBGM247 · 12/01/2026 14:43

Review timestamps if in any doubt.

What would the timestamps prove exactly?

LostInTheDream · 12/01/2026 14:49

SBGM247 · 12/01/2026 14:38

To build up a political base by offering free stuff and making people dependent on you. I lived in a deprived area and people were institutionalized for want of a better word, in the benefit system. That I got out of it was a miracle really.

Most people working within the public sector are not doing this and not making any decisions on policy.

Benefits for working people remain essential as employers continuously fail to provide a decent living wage. Every time the minimum wage goes up there is back lash and for those sat above it, the rises are often below inflation. Including for those working in the public sector.

It's really great for you that you no longer live in the environment you grew up in, it's clearly something you are pleased about. But this is often through luck, personality, intelligence being in the right place at the right time for an opportunity etc. There are lots of people who don't get those chances, so it isn't just a case of anyone can do this if they just try harder

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 12/01/2026 14:49

SBGM247 · 12/01/2026 14:43

You sound like an expert. Very credible. I'll let the poll decide.

Last time I checked, 81% of the 390 people responding to the poll thought you were unreasonable.

So if you're letting the poll decide, will you now accept that your idea is a shit one?

Thought not.

SBGM247 · 12/01/2026 14:49

NeverDropYourMooncup · 12/01/2026 14:48

That it's a lousy idea that hasn't been thought through.

You're describing a form of Novus homo.

Your modern day nobilis wouldn't be happy with that. Or your newly created mancipium.

You sound like an expert on Rome. Very cool.

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BlackCatDiscoClub · 12/01/2026 14:50

SBGM247 · 12/01/2026 14:41

I'll have an island we drop them off on and every month we'll airdrop supplies. They can fight it out and they'll be removed from the gene pool.

Finally OP says something that makes sense. You get my vote. Just make sure the island is televised ok?

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 12/01/2026 14:50

LostInTheDream · 12/01/2026 14:49

Most people working within the public sector are not doing this and not making any decisions on policy.

Benefits for working people remain essential as employers continuously fail to provide a decent living wage. Every time the minimum wage goes up there is back lash and for those sat above it, the rises are often below inflation. Including for those working in the public sector.

It's really great for you that you no longer live in the environment you grew up in, it's clearly something you are pleased about. But this is often through luck, personality, intelligence being in the right place at the right time for an opportunity etc. There are lots of people who don't get those chances, so it isn't just a case of anyone can do this if they just try harder

Not sure we could include intelligence here though…..

SBGM247 · 12/01/2026 14:51

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 12/01/2026 14:49

Last time I checked, 81% of the 390 people responding to the poll thought you were unreasonable.

So if you're letting the poll decide, will you now accept that your idea is a shit one?

Thought not.

I consider this thread to be a great success and an adventure so far. A little debate and discussion is good for the soul. I was thoughtful enough to put a trigger warning at the start so I assume we're all here because we want to be.

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BrownTroutBluesAgain · 12/01/2026 14:51

SBGM247 · 12/01/2026 14:48

Let's not discriminate.

This entire thread of yours is based on wealth / earnings based discrimination
You are definitely in no position to dictate on that front.

SBGM247 · 12/01/2026 14:51

BlackCatDiscoClub · 12/01/2026 14:50

Finally OP says something that makes sense. You get my vote. Just make sure the island is televised ok?

Edited

Brilliant idea! Like Big Brother but they get no prizes.

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MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 12/01/2026 14:52

SBGM247 · 12/01/2026 14:51

I consider this thread to be a great success and an adventure so far. A little debate and discussion is good for the soul. I was thoughtful enough to put a trigger warning at the start so I assume we're all here because we want to be.

How do you measure "success" exactly?

Is it a function of how many people you've managed to wind up with your trolling?

BrownTroutBluesAgain · 12/01/2026 14:53

FuzzyPuffling · 12/01/2026 14:49

He's done it to me too.
Strange MO.

Creepy and belittling

TheCompactPussycat · 12/01/2026 14:53

SBGM247 · 12/01/2026 14:46

From the age of 18 you have the right to vote. You will be contributing from the point you earn. if you become net negative you will lose the right to vote. That's the basic idea. Will prob need some details working out but there you have the intent.

You said net positive over a lifetime. Now you're saying net positive at a specific point in that lifetime. Which is it?

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 12/01/2026 14:53

BrownTroutBluesAgain · 12/01/2026 14:53

Creepy and belittling

Don't allow yourself to feel belittled. He isn't worth it.

SBGM247 · 12/01/2026 14:54

TheCompactPussycat · 12/01/2026 14:53

You said net positive over a lifetime. Now you're saying net positive at a specific point in that lifetime. Which is it?

You start from 18.

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SBGM247 · 12/01/2026 14:55

Cortexiphan · 12/01/2026 14:22

So in this system where women with 2 or more kids don't pay tax (which is daft) would mean they'd also automatically lose their vote anyway? So it's a trap?

You could have kids early in your 20s then a blossoming career later if you so chose.

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SBGM247 · 12/01/2026 14:55

Rewis · 12/01/2026 14:09

Do you have to earn the right to vote? Once you're 18, you will be net negative for how much public money have been used towards you so once you've paid back the first 18 yesrs do you then get a vote?

Blank slate from 18.

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TheCompactPussycat · 12/01/2026 14:56

SBGM247 · 12/01/2026 14:54

You start from 18.

That doesn't answer the question though does it.

Over a working lifetime or only at specific points in that working lifetime? Which is it?

BrownTroutBluesAgain · 12/01/2026 14:57

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 12/01/2026 14:53

Don't allow yourself to feel belittled. He isn't worth it.

Honestly I’m finding this thread a blast.

It does go to show we need more women in positions of power though
and maybe a bigger island for men like OP

SBGM247 · 12/01/2026 14:58

Swissmeringue · 12/01/2026 14:10

I've got questions about this proposition.

How do we work out who is giving and who is taking? So, for example. My husband earns in the middle six figures and is absolutely a contributor. But I don't work, does half of our children's schooling and our NHS usage count against my "account"? Does that make me ineligible to vote? Or do we count as a unit?

Also, our children are healthy and have no additional needs, so there aren't huge costs associated with their medical care and schooling. If there were, regardless of the over 100k he's paying in tax a year do we count as "drains on society" and therefore lose our vote?

Do we get "credits" if we use private school or healthcare? Are we gonna work out how far everyone drives in a year so we can work out precisely how much pothole damage they are responsible for?

Do parents need to earn more in order to be able to vote as kids take up more state resources?

Obviously I think this is all a terrible idea. I appreciate that our economy is screwed, I really do, but no, I don't think conditional democracy is the answer.

Conditional democracy is the answer. Demonstrate you're competent and can make good decisions to vote. It's a good enough heuristic when compared to our current system which is woeful. To answer your other question, DW and DH are a unit so you can vote together if you're net positive.

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SBGM247 · 12/01/2026 14:58

TheCompactPussycat · 12/01/2026 14:56

That doesn't answer the question though does it.

Over a working lifetime or only at specific points in that working lifetime? Which is it?

At any point you can do the maths on whether a person has put in more than they've taken out. It's a maths question.

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SBGM247 · 12/01/2026 14:59

BrownTroutBluesAgain · 12/01/2026 14:57

Honestly I’m finding this thread a blast.

It does go to show we need more women in positions of power though
and maybe a bigger island for men like OP

I have a suggestion for that too. Men won't be allowed to vote unless they've had a daughter. I think the world would look very different if we selected the ability to vote by that... to make it fair we can apply the same logic to Women too / having had a son but less needed IMO.

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ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 12/01/2026 15:01

SBGM247 · 12/01/2026 14:58

Conditional democracy is the answer. Demonstrate you're competent and can make good decisions to vote. It's a good enough heuristic when compared to our current system which is woeful. To answer your other question, DW and DH are a unit so you can vote together if you're net positive.

Sounds more like eugenics to me.
Disabled won’t be able to vote. So they’ll disappear eventually.