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Why is he flipping the script ?

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Karlaken · 16/09/2025 19:01

Hooked up with a guy that Ive been talking to off and on for the first time. We had . Anyways we had very passionate sex, several times that night. I ended up leaving the next day. He has sporadically texted me afterwards. He called me I didn’t answer so I called him back, he didn’t answer…. Decided to call me two days later after I texted him and asked him why he called me. Said he wanted to call and check up on me? Said he couldn’t remember why he called me and didn’t call me back? Said that it feels like he called me two weeks ago instead of two days ago….. I ended up telling him that I regretted the sëx, cause I normally don’t get down like that.

This man flipped the whole script… said that he was drunk, which he wasn’t. Said that he didn’t even think he was going to hook up with me, that he was surprised he even seen me due to him being busy. Y’all when I tell you this man was all over me and feening to see me. He has basically flipped the script acting like I was the one pressing to hookup with him… said he couldn’t remember certain conversations that we had that night? At this point I was just wondering why the hell he was calling me … I don’t live anywhere near you nor did I contact you or initiate anything after sëx…. All I’ve been doing was responding?

This man has been watching every story I post, commenting on my pictures… yet acting like I’m doing this to him? Reversing psychology. Why are you evening reaching out to someone you obviously want to play games wih me? I ended up removing him from my socials and now he’s going to my page still watching things…

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Karlaken · 18/09/2025 18:19

ThatCyanViper · 17/09/2025 07:28

You’re not doing anything weird — he’s just trying to manipulate the narrative and maintain control while still grabbing attention. Let him go.

What’s the outcome, what will he gain from doing this ? Because people on here are making it seem like I’m the bad one ?

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