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Stunning or beautiful

84 replies

irenestubbs · 10/03/2025 17:41

That stunning is more of a compliment than beautiful

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Jemandthehollograms · 10/03/2025 17:42

Definitely stunning!

Butchyrestingface · 10/03/2025 17:43

Radiant tops either. 😊

VivaVivaa · 10/03/2025 17:43

I’d be happy to be called either right now to be honest 😅

irenestubbs · 10/03/2025 17:44

And this is a compliment from a man

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AllProperTeaIsTheft · 10/03/2025 17:44

I'd say the opposite! Beautiful sounds more classy and about your inherent natural looks. I associate 'stunning' with shit newspapers saying '21 year-old blonde stunner, Tracy' etc.

DoYouReally · 10/03/2025 17:45

I think stunning can be both permanent or temporary. (I.e. looked stunning on wedding day).

Beautiful is less fleeting.

Tbh, it depends on the compliment covers definition.

irenestubbs · 10/03/2025 17:48

Or gorgeous?

Stunning
Beautiful
Or gorgeous

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Pumpkincozynights · 10/03/2025 17:51

I find stunning to be a bit downmarket. Like a previous poster said it smacks of tabloid smuttiness. Page 3 and all that.

ItGhoul · 10/03/2025 17:53

What's the context for this? Why are you asking?

I would prefer to be called beautiful as I think 'stunning' is an overused cliche, but I wouldn't give it any actual headspace.

irregularegular · 10/03/2025 17:54

Butchyrestingface · 10/03/2025 17:43

Radiant tops either. 😊

Nah, radiant is just what people say when you are getting married or pregnant. It doesn't mean much!

RaspberryScrubs · 10/03/2025 17:54

tbh stunning pairs with brave nowadays so nah, I would put stunning in the bin.

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 10/03/2025 18:00

RaspberryScrubs · 10/03/2025 17:54

tbh stunning pairs with brave nowadays so nah, I would put stunning in the bin.

Yep, this too!

Isometimeswonder · 10/03/2025 18:01

I prefer clever.
Or kind.
Or nice.
Or helpful.
But perhaps I'm just pig-ugly.

irenestubbs · 10/03/2025 18:02

I've been called gorgeous by one man
And stunning by another

No overthinking either just what would you prefer

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JaneJeffer · 10/03/2025 18:02
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TwattyMcFuckFace · 10/03/2025 18:03

Butchyrestingface · 10/03/2025 17:43

Radiant tops either. 😊

No I don't agree.

You can look radiant when you're glowing but not particularly beautiful or stunning.

TwattyMcFuckFace · 10/03/2025 18:06

Isometimeswonder · 10/03/2025 18:01

I prefer clever.
Or kind.
Or nice.
Or helpful.
But perhaps I'm just pig-ugly.

The thread is about looks though.

DoYouReally · 10/03/2025 18:09

irenestubbs · 10/03/2025 18:02

I've been called gorgeous by one man
And stunning by another

No overthinking either just what would you prefer

Words come cheap and often with an agenda.

I would look at how they treat you overall as opposed to random compliments but that's just me.

Onthemove4 · 10/03/2025 18:11

I think stunning is a much overused word rather in the same way so many things are amazing.

I was in the McDonald’s drive thru recently. When I got to the kiosk a young girl popped her head out and said with sincerity “I love your car, it’s stunning!

My car is an 10 year old bright orange Honda Jazz 🤷‍♀️ 😆

EmotionalSupportShotgun · 10/03/2025 18:12

I would prefer to be called beautiful, but it hasn't happened yet and I don't think it will now.

GeorgeMichaelsCat · 10/03/2025 18:13

I know i am not beautiful, but I will accept lovely.

Fifthtimelucky · 10/03/2025 18:14

I think more people are beautiful than are truly stunning, so I think stunning is more of a compliment.

However, I agree that stunning is overused more these days, so beautiful would be better!

GlitteringBall · 10/03/2025 18:16

Depends who was saying it and what their agenda is. It's just words. Don't read too much into either.

5128gap · 10/03/2025 18:18

Beautiful is the go to compliment amongst younger men 'you're beautiful you are' to mean they fancy you, its so overused its devalued. Stunning is a bit tabloidy to me 'page three stunna' so not keen on that either really.
I'd rather have something personal and genuine that I could actually believe. (Though in fairness 'wearing well for your age and pretty when the lightings too low to see your wrinkles' is hardly cassanova territory.)

Jackiepumpkinhead · 10/03/2025 18:21

irenestubbs · 10/03/2025 18:02

I've been called gorgeous by one man
And stunning by another

No overthinking either just what would you prefer

Most men will say anything to get what they want.