Hello hello!
Just to let people know that I just deleted my thread from yesterday, which was about whether I was being unreasonable for wanting to see Dad without my stepmother. I got a bit freaked out by how much personal info I'd revealed (seem to have conveniently forgotten, when I posted it, that MumsNet is quite a popular website and someone who I know irl might see it!).
But I wanted to say a big thank you again to people who contributed. Some of it was so incredibly helpful. I'm going to try to recede back into "watching, but not commenting" mode now, but feel free to DM/PM/whatever the lingo here is if you like!
Massive thanks again!
PS: I found this quite funny - literally 50/50 as to whether I'm being a total dickhead (which, tbf, mirrors my own self-assessment) 😅