Are you in a happy relationship?

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Yes or no and how long you been in it?

I'm not and I been in it a year. Not married.

Very, 11 years together, married for 5. He's the most amazing man.

Yes, with myself..... single for 3 year's

Yes. In this edition for a year, but we were together for 8 years after we met 20 years ago.

It's been a beautiful reunion and we're happier than we've ever been.

Very happy 26 years.

Why are you still together if you're not happy. Life is too short.

We about 20+ years together, 18 years married. Quite happy. Two kids but lots of 'us' time and weekends away.

Yes. 8 years. I spent too long in one that I didn’t realise was making me unhappy, until I left and the fog lifted. I’m never putting up with that again.

Very. Only 2 years but the best relationship of my life (and there have been some doozies) If it’s shit get out. Don’t waste your life

Yes about 12 years. If you aren’t happy you don’t have to stay there, lifes too short. You aren’t married so it’s easier to nip it in the bud quickly x

Yes me too - 15 years and still going strong - very happy

Very much so, and we have 47 years on the clock!

Yes. Married 21 years, together for a couple of years before that, two kids. We’ve been through some difficult times together, things are pretty shit right now to be honest, so neither of us is massively happy, but we are happy to be dealing with it together.

18 years and very, very happy.

If you're not happy after only a year why stay? I know plenty of people stay in long relationships that have gone stale due to finances, kids etc but if it's only been a year you can't be that entangled already? Leave, find happiness, life is too short.

Trying to break it off but he makes me feel sorry for him.

Yes, 11 years. If you’re not having fun one year in I would drop it. Life is too short!

Yes. Not perfect but can't imagine wanting anyone else. Nearly 18 years now. We are quite different in a bunch of ways which helps I think. I'm hyper extrovert and he's pretty shy in social situations. But we have our own space and interests but plenty in common too. Hes my best friend and ally.

No, not for the last 7 years. I ended things with last boyfriend when he wanted me to 'get rid of DS 50% of the time.' DS was 9 at the time. 😡

I haven't pursued another relationship because I'd rather not cause hassle in ds' exam years.

Relationships are just too difficult.

Very much so. Been together for 19 years now and have 5 children together.

Yes, couldn’t be happier. 8 years. But I’ve also never been in an unhappy relationship, so I count myself quite fortunate as that seems to put me in a minority.

If you’ve only been together a year, what’s keeping you, if you’re unhappy? Get out now, before you start making daft commitments which will get you stuck.

Yes. 16 years together, married 11.

Harden your heart OP. Don't waste your life on the wrong man.. You cannot base a relationship on pity.

No.
Have 2 kids and no family of friends here (in the 500 miles radius) so breaking up isn't as easy with absolutely no help around.

Yes, together 13 years and married 7.

Life is too short to be unhappy in a relationship ( my dh is my second marriage)

Happy relationship with myself. Properly single for 12 years and no desire to try to change that.

Yes 35 years. And happy from the night we met.

You cannot continue to date somebody because you feel sorry for them. You will feel extremely sorry for yourself if you stay.