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To think sportswomen shouldn’t have to forfeit competitions because male fckers are stealing their places?

87 replies

BronteH · 06/05/2024 18:39

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sport/darts/article-13387345/Im-not-playing-man-womens-event-Female-darts-star-FORFEITS-tournament-refuses-face-transgender-player-calls-ban-won-two-womens-titles.html

What a strong woman.

Why is it ok for men to ‘appropriate’ being women? Why is this not ‘sex appropriation’? Any other other form of ‘appropriation’ is unacceptable, it seems. Why are women supposed to accept this. Slight detour but applicable.

YANBU - Males should not be in female sports

YABU - Live and let live, males in female sport are just trying their best and mean no harm.

Darts star FORFEITS match as she refuses to face transgender player

Hedman is one of the most well known figures in the women's darts scene, and in the past has called on the PDC and WDF to exclude transgender athletes from women's tournaments.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sport/darts/article-13387345/Im-not-playing-man-womens-event-Female-darts-star-FORFEITS-tournament-refuses-face-transgender-player-calls-ban-won-two-womens-titles.html

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Rainbowshit · 06/05/2024 21:30

I'm so sick of this nonsense. Female sport exists to find the best female human, not the best sufficiently hobbled male.

GrumpyPanda · 06/05/2024 21:30

Those who don't see how there can possibly be male advantage in darts. FFS even the height the bloody board is hung at is geared towards the default male.

EasternStandard · 06/05/2024 21:32

BronteH · 06/05/2024 21:28

I suppose it is mainly men who support and push for trans ideology. It’s almost like they all have certain motivations for it.

Idk there’s a fair few women, on here and politicians - Dawn Butler and co

I don’t know why we keep the laws tbh when this is the outcome

jeaux90 · 06/05/2024 21:36

No woman should be pushed out of her own category for male performance of femininity.

BronteH · 06/05/2024 21:38

dementedpixie · 06/05/2024 21:29

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nationalreview.com/news/middle-school-girls-banned-from-track-competition-for-protesting-trans-sports-policies/amp/

And then these poor girls who refused to compete against a trans girl then got banned from other competitions

🤬 Those poor girls. Good to see the lawyer is pushing for them.

Ref the boy ’We knew that being treated like a girl made her happy because it affirmed who she was’

Ref the female athletes- On April 25, despite no previous warning or reprimand from school administrators, a principal informed the girls’ parents that the athletes who protested would not be allowed to compete in an upcoming track-and-field meet.

How about what made the girls happy, affirming who they are? Does that not matter? It would appear this is a one way street.

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Portakalkedi · 06/05/2024 21:48

pointythings · 06/05/2024 18:56

I think there should be three categories: Men, Women, Open. In practical terms that would mean that trans people would all compete in the Open category.

Notable exceptions would be sports which are already mixed, such as equestrianism.

Great in theory but the thing is that nobody would choose to enter the open or mixed category. Trans women, ie men, want only to bully their way into women's places.

hollyblueivy · 06/05/2024 22:09

The sports associations should stop anyone that was not born female from competing in women's sports. A man has no place in women's sport.

ArabellaScott · 07/05/2024 11:51

How is it when virtually everyone can see how fucking ridiculous and unfair this is, it's still happening?

Rainbowshit · 07/05/2024 12:20

ArabellaScott · 07/05/2024 11:51

How is it when virtually everyone can see how fucking ridiculous and unfair this is, it's still happening?

Because it's females that are affected and males see females sport as unimportant.

FrippEnos · 07/05/2024 12:24

BronteH · 06/05/2024 21:38

🤬 Those poor girls. Good to see the lawyer is pushing for them.

Ref the boy ’We knew that being treated like a girl made her happy because it affirmed who she was’

Ref the female athletes- On April 25, despite no previous warning or reprimand from school administrators, a principal informed the girls’ parents that the athletes who protested would not be allowed to compete in an upcoming track-and-field meet.

How about what made the girls happy, affirming who they are? Does that not matter? It would appear this is a one way street.

I think that they have have been re instated now. But it may be another group of girls.

https://www.cbsnews.com/minnesota/news/mshsl-reinstates-cambridge-shot-putters-after-coachs-accidental-omission/

heathspeedwell · 07/05/2024 12:32

Lia Thomas wasn't just stealing the trophies from the girls he was swimming against. He was getting a boner in the showers where 13 year old girls were undressing. And yet this kind of thing is still happening, and some women think they are being 'kind' and 'inclusive' to let it happen.

Really shows how men have done a number on us when women are so keen to prioritise men's wants over our own need for privacy, dignity and safety.

caringcarer · 07/05/2024 12:33

AnotherDelphinium · 06/05/2024 18:49

There should be two categories for all sports; open and women’s.

Open is for e v e r y o n e
Womens is for those born a female, who choose to remain a female and is there’s any question, also have a testosterone range of a biological female.

This hits the nail on the head.

Naunet · 07/05/2024 13:15

Just been reading about a boy/trans girl in the US who has been given a woman’s scholarship due to competing in girls sport. It’s a man’s world.

BronteH · 07/05/2024 13:22

Naunet · 07/05/2024 13:15

Just been reading about a boy/trans girl in the US who has been given a woman’s scholarship due to competing in girls sport. It’s a man’s world.

🤬🤢

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CantDealwithChristmas · 07/05/2024 13:29

LauraNorda · 06/05/2024 18:49

I can't see how being a male can give you a competitive edge in darts against a woman but regardless of that, blokes should not be competing in female events.

Men have a greater 'wingspan' than women and about 40% more upper body strength.

LauraNorda · 07/05/2024 14:26

CantDealwithChristmas · 07/05/2024 13:29

Men have a greater 'wingspan' than women and about 40% more upper body strength.

Eh? It's darts. The only sport I can think of where the participants supped pints of beer and smoked cigarettes whilst playing (back in the 80s, of course). Jocky Wilson, for instance was 5'4". How did his 'wingspan' contribute to his success?

I can't see any reason why a proper woman cannot go on to beat the best man in the world.

ArabellaScott · 07/05/2024 14:28

If sports are segregated by sex, then men shouldn't compete against women.

SOBplus · 07/05/2024 14:33

I agree and think along the lines of a previous poster, there should be 3 classes of sport: Men, Women, Open. Those who want to compete with the opposite sex may (ala Billy Jean King & Bobby Riggs) and those who identify with another sex than they were born to also may. If its really that big a problem, there will be more than enough participants and if not, still an option for them and they may race, lift, swim, etc against the clock if no others participating.

SoupChicken · 07/05/2024 15:29

AuContraire · 06/05/2024 21:08

If there is a women's category in anything, it's there for a reason. Might be strength/power reasons, might be social disadvantage reasons, doesn't matter.

No men should be in anything that is for women.

It's the women's category, it exists for women, not to give men an ego boost because they can't beat other men.

Exactly! There’s no separation by sex in equestrian sports because it’s not required.

ILikeDungs · 07/05/2024 19:55

I need the 3% to explain their reasoning

Tell me why women need to include men in their sport.

There is a category for males. If males are properly inclusive and accepting they will welcome ALL men, even the ones who say they have that womanly essence. No? What, are the men... transphobic??

FrippEnos · 07/05/2024 19:55

LauraNorda · 07/05/2024 14:26

Eh? It's darts. The only sport I can think of where the participants supped pints of beer and smoked cigarettes whilst playing (back in the 80s, of course). Jocky Wilson, for instance was 5'4". How did his 'wingspan' contribute to his success?

I can't see any reason why a proper woman cannot go on to beat the best man in the world.

Why should women have to play against the men?

The men's game is also the open version so there is nothing stopping any woman if she wants to play against the men.

Desecratedcoconut · 07/05/2024 19:59

ILikeDungs · 07/05/2024 19:55

I need the 3% to explain their reasoning

Tell me why women need to include men in their sport.

There is a category for males. If males are properly inclusive and accepting they will welcome ALL men, even the ones who say they have that womanly essence. No? What, are the men... transphobic??

🤣

Actually I'm surprised it's not more. I imagine 3% would cover the stubborn contrarians on MN before you even get to the die hard genderists.

ILikeDungs · 07/05/2024 20:27

I guess it shows how hard it is to maintain a die hard genderist position in the face of reality. But you are right, we should be happy it is only 3% when shit has been so crazy for so long

Igmum · 08/05/2024 12:29

Can't vote because I'm on the app but you are definitely definitely NBU. I gather that the darts authorities were originally going to safeguard women's competition but then the TRAs threatened to sue, so of course all women are sacrificed. About time the women players sued them for every penny they have. Data sounds like an incredible woman - I hope she does.

AngeloMysterioso · 08/05/2024 12:57

I don’t think men should be able to enter women’s competitions even when there isn’t a competitive advantage. That isn’t the only thing that matters. They exist to give women equal access, and somewhere out there is female darts player who didn’t get a place in this tournament because that entitled bloke took it.