Do you think she will regret this in years to come?

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YANBU - sweet revenge
YABU - better left unsaid

Doubt it’s real.

Presuming they were still married when he died, saved a costly divorce and splitting of assets.

I reckon it’s an art project or similar. I mean look at the dates.

Bit late to tell him now!

Well she hasn't wasted money on buying a brand new bench! I suppose it depends on whether Roger is still alive. If he's alive then no reason why she shouldn't let him know that she knows.
If he's no longer in the land of the living a bit pointless really. And mean.

If she regrets it, she can have it removed. Her own business.

I reckon there’ll be more appearing … it’s the Bench Banksy

I don't reckon it's real- like someone else said- strange dates- 69 and Xmas Day?

If it is real it's pointless and potentially upsetting for his kids.

I think it’s a joke too. Roger, 69 etc

I hope it spawns more.

It would have to be Clifton.

I do so hope that it is real.

I wonder whether this was Roger’s Christmas present…

If it's real, I'd say this sort of thing would be difficult for the kids. The same with any genuine public announcements

Art project?

What do the dates infer?

Hadn't occured to me the end date might have been their divorce, not death date.

Agree totally a plaque like this could be hurtful to any children.

Which reminds me of a friend, lovely woman, dedicated wife, 3 young children who's husband abandoned her to set up home with his younger secretary. Friend soldiered on as a single parent, working and bringing her children up, who rarely saw their father as he never bothered with them.

3 weeks before decree absolute, the husband died suddenly. He hadn't' altered his will, life insurance, work insurance benefits or ownership of house. Friend and children got the lot. OW ended up penniless.

That is karma.

For starters, while obviously many, many people were born on the 6th of September 1969, when coupled with an unusual inscription like this the DOB of 6/9/69 does stand out. As does the second date of Christmas Day (on which no divorces are finalised in this country).

Oh come on, that’s obviously not real with those dates 🤣

It’s a bit pointless without his surname - Could be any old Roger!

I doubt it’s real though.

Yeah the dates are very suspicious. But I like it - real or not!

OP this is definitely a project

dates.

Roger.

I doubt Roger’s bothered.

Most likely not real as they’re going to know Roger’s not reading that plaque anytime soon.

I mean even the name, “Roger” 🤣
It’s funny, but it’s obvious.

I'm of a similar age and don't know any Rogers my age. I think they were a couple of decades or so before me.

Rogers are in their 70s by now. Although of course there are exceptions.

Fake!
tatty old bench and oral sex dates.
Rodger.