I was right next to my partner as he got me to look at something on his phone, we were out with friends. As I was flicking through, I somehow got his photos up, of which there were some dick pics from 2 months ago. It's his dick.
He was turned Away when they came up and I was so shocked I gave him back his phone and we went home shortly after.
He knew something was up so I told him to get his photos up on his phone so we can look through them.
He did so where I couldnt see initially. Then very obviously deleted said photos, and tried to tell me he doesn't know what's wrong.
He's a crap liar so his game was over in less than a minute.
The fact he tried to cover it up amd tell me he didnt know what i was talking about has pissed me off more than the pictures.
As background he's insecure of the size of his manhood and puts himself down alot. It's smaller than average, but I've never made an issue of it and we've had a good sex life.
He sometimes gets a bit of ed. He's had a much more sheltered sex life than me, and can be quite shy talking about that stuff.
Anyway, he then tried to tell me its not like he's cheated. I told him that makes him sound guilty.
He tried to say he was embarrassed, so that's why he deleted them.
But if he was that embarrassed why not delete them in the first place.
The only other pics I saw in the brief moment were of semi naked women, one which was screenshot yesterday, so I'm guessing they're pics he looks at on his own iykwim. The others are dated before the dick pics. They're very tame tbf. Famous celebs, posed type thing.
So, is it unreasonable to think these dick pics have been sent to others, or is it as he says, he forgot they were there / doesn't know why he took them, he just did.
We've been together almost 8 months. He's Been very kind, generous, loving, supportive always listened if somethings bothered me and never tried to Gaslight me about anything before.