Am I being unreasonable that I find it weird that the guy I’m seeing deletes some of our whats apps?
I realised this the other day when he accidentally deleted one of his messages he’d sent for me and him instead of just him. He immediately said sorry didn’t mean to delete for me as well. I asked why he was deleting messages as I thought it was strange and his response was he liked to scroll up our conversations and deleting some meant he could get to the more fun texts quicker, so basically in my eyes saying he likes to delete the boring texts. I still found this weird but it really played to a paranoia I have that he’s only really wants to talk to me for the flirty texts and doesn’t actually value me for me etc. I raised this and he said he keeps the flirty ones and the fun bantery ones we have. I obviously haven’t asked to see which he’s kept as that feels crazy. But I just can’t decide if this is seriously weird behaviour and if i’m over reacting by feeling really disrespected. I don’t know anyone else who goes through what’s apps and deletes messages.