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Had a run-in with a store detective

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MeetMyCat · 14/04/2023 17:48

I bought some make up in my local Boots at lunch time. The self serve till asked me if I wanted a receipt, I said no. On the way out the store, my shopping obviously triggered some sort of alarm; hardly an unusual occurrence so I stepped back into the store, expecting a member of staff to approach me. I realised the item I’d purchased had some sort of security tag on, I assumed this had caused the problem. However Security came straight over, I assumed they would help me and de-tag the item. The woman asked to see my receipt, but I didn’t have one. I rarely request a receipt for small items. She kept repeating over and over ‘I need to see proof of payment’ and I kept repeating that I’d paid but didn’t obtain a receipt. In the end she said that if I didn’t provide proof of payment I would be detained.

I realise store detectives/security don’t have any powers of arrest, and also she was really petite and probably wouldn’t have been able to force me, if I had refused to go with her.

Quite a few people were watching by this point and it was getting quite embarrassing. Thankfully I then remembered that I’d paid using Barclays debit, and any transactions show up on my app almost immediately. So I logged into the app, showed her the transaction, she de-tagged my item and said I was free to go.

I think I’m just posting because I’m pissed off. What on earth would have happened if I hadn’t had my banking app as proof? Where would I stand? Surely failure to obtain a receipt is not the same as failing to pay, and most tills now ask you whether or not you want a receipt.

The moral of the story: forget about being green, always get a receipt

OP posts:
enchantedsquirrelwood · 01/01/2024 16:15

Hopefully the security have been trained to a standard where they know the law

Unfortunately retailers cut corners on lots of areas of training, from this to Think 25 to consumer laws.

enchantedsquirrelwood · 01/01/2024 16:19

Male101 · 18/04/2023 12:19

He obviously had a reason to follow you. You either looks like someone he knows to be a shoplifter or something about you made him suspicious. Either way in his head you've confirmed what he thought with your actions

Or he was just bored and decided to follow her for fun?

I mean, men never hassle women for no reason at all, do they?

enchantedsquirrelwood · 01/01/2024 16:21

I've got to say though that if I had an item with a tag I'd always go to a staffed till.

I guess sometimes you might not realise there was a tag.

TheHateIsNotGood · 01/01/2024 16:24

I always get a receipt for every card transaction, I'll stop when they are completely redundant. Same with my bank statements, sometimes a printout isn't enough. I also check my receipts against my statements, it's quite a useful exercise. Sadly I do realize this does use paper and it contradicts my avid re-use and recycle policy.

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