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Would you want to be famous but not rich?

30 replies

RunnerBum · 12/01/2023 17:24

DH and I disagree on this.

Most people in the world appear to want to be rich and famous for obvious reasons. Obviously, many people will comment now that they don’t want fame or money and that’s clearly fine and personal preference but, in the main and in my experience, people do want that.

I think, however, most people who want to be rich and famous wouldn’t want to be famous without being rich. DH thinks people would still choose to be famous even if they weren’t rich.

So, if you’re someone who wants to be rich and famous, would you still want to be famous if you were only as rich as you are now?

YABU - Famous is famous, make me famous
YANBU - Give me the money, fame without money would suck

OP posts:
illiterato · 12/01/2023 17:27

It would depend why I was famous. If it was for inventing nuclear fusion and I’d be a global hero then bring it on. If it was for something embarrassing, then no

SirSamVimesCityWatch · 12/01/2023 17:27

God no. Fame looks shit; money is the compensation!

maddy68 · 12/01/2023 17:28

I have some pretty famous family and friends. The fame is awful. Constantly on your guard , being careful what you say or do ALL the time

Thatiswild · 12/01/2023 17:29

Would much rather be rich than famous 😆

OatFox · 12/01/2023 17:29

Nope. I would only ever want to be rich, not famous.

RunnerBum · 12/01/2023 17:30

I’m thoroughly enjoying the landslide agreement that I’m right!

OP posts:
EatYourVegetables · 12/01/2023 17:30

Can I go for rich without famous?

staybyyou · 12/01/2023 17:31

Rich but never famous!

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 12/01/2023 17:31

No, I want to be rich and not famous.

Or I could handle rich and slightly famous 😃

Moonflower12 · 12/01/2023 17:32

Very rich and totally anonymous.

AFS1 · 12/01/2023 17:33

Another vote for being rich without the fame!
No desire to be famous. Great desire to be rich!!

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 12/01/2023 17:33

illiterato · 12/01/2023 17:27

It would depend why I was famous. If it was for inventing nuclear fusion and I’d be a global hero then bring it on. If it was for something embarrassing, then no

Yes I could handle being famous for something that made me a hero!

Like if I found a cure for cancer or something.

RampantIvy · 12/01/2023 17:33

Why on earth would anyone want to be famous? I want to remain anonymous.

romdowa · 12/01/2023 17:34

I'd rather just be rich but if I had to be famous then I'd need the money too.

Wombats67 · 12/01/2023 17:34

You couldn't pay me to be famous. I look like shit & rarely go out. Would hate all the obligations.

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 12/01/2023 17:34

No wish at all to be famous but as Dorothy Parker said, 'I've never been a millionaire but I know I'd be just darling at it.'

ValerieDoonican · 12/01/2023 17:36

Ugh I cannot understand why anyone would want to be famous, anyway - I love my privacy! But famous with no compensatory dosh?? - surely the worst of both worlds!

ValerieDoonican · 12/01/2023 17:37

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 12/01/2023 17:34

No wish at all to be famous but as Dorothy Parker said, 'I've never been a millionaire but I know I'd be just darling at it.'

😂

LizBuin · 12/01/2023 17:37

I'd like to be rich, not famous, but someone who mixes with famous people. Maybe a successful songwriter or similar, so still get invited to events and parties, have influence, but be able to walk down the street with no hassle.

Fairyliz · 12/01/2023 17:38

I wouldn’t mind being famous for finding a cure for cancer or saving someone’s life. I wouldn’t want to be famous for something outrageous.

Choconut · 12/01/2023 17:39

If I was going to be famous then I'd want it to be for something worthwhile. I wouldn't want to be famous for being on Love Island for example. That would be more important than the money I think. But I wouldn't complain if that came along with it.

CalistoNoSolo · 12/01/2023 17:40

I can't express how much I would hate being famous, even slightly well known in a small town would be utterly vile.

I would very happily be rich as fuck though.

pinneddownbytabbies · 12/01/2023 17:42

I know someone who is both famous and rich. Very. Apparently, it isn't all it's cracked up to be. I've seen some of the paparazzi shenanigans with my own eyes. Give me anonymity and extreme wealth poverty any day.

NewYearNewName2023 · 12/01/2023 17:44

Nope, I would tolerate being famous if it meant I could be rich, but I wouldn't put myself through it without the financial benefit

I would much rather be rich but not famous

Tricyrtis2022 · 12/01/2023 17:44

Someone I know is a fairly well known stage actor and one of his issues is that people just assume, because he's visible, he has lots of money, when he most certainly doesn't. People expect him to pay for their drinks and meals but he can't afford to.