I have ocd and I struggle to know what's a normal reaction and what's ocd-
If your 5 year old stepped in dog poo, but you didn't notice until the next day (not loads about a 20p size amount but could have been more and been walked off I suppose)- so they would have been at school with it still on their shoe and they grab the sole of their shoe when putting shoes on.
would you clean their shoes and leave it at that?
clean their shoes and stick their coat and bag in the washing machine (because they'd likely have touched the shoe and then coat etc) and wipe over the back seat in the car where they were kicking the seat with said shoes on whilst sat in the car seat?
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