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Someone loitering outside my house

33 replies

Wereallgoingonasummerholidayy · 24/08/2022 22:58

Hi all
there is somebody pacing up and down outside my house for the last ten minutes or so looking a bit shifty. I peeped out and they looked up at my bedroom window. Worried as I currently have a brand new hire car parked up outside mine. Can hear his footsteps but he isn’t actually moving from where he is. He’s stopped in the same kind of spot but just pacing. What would you do?

OP posts:
Hill1991 · 24/08/2022 23:06

If it was me as I really don't generally think before i act would ask him if he's either alright or what he's up to, but if your concerned ring the police.

caramac04 · 24/08/2022 23:14

Shout out the front door asking if he’s lost

TiredzzZZ · 24/08/2022 23:16

He's probably waiting for someone. Do you have lots of neighbours? He's maybe waiting for a mate

SuperlativeOxymoron · 24/08/2022 23:19

I'd open the window and ask if he was OK. He knows you know he's there from peeking out.

Yellowcakestand · 24/08/2022 23:19

Turn the lights on

Unicorn717 · 24/08/2022 23:22

He knows you're there now so I'd probably ask if he was alright or needed anything. If you're worried about it or he hangs around longer ring the police.

worriedandannoyed · 24/08/2022 23:29

Turn all your lights on including outside lights if you have any

bruce43mydog · 24/08/2022 23:32

I would probably get the police to do a security patrol if he's there any longer.

LucyAutumn · 24/08/2022 23:34

Lights on, ask if he's OK from upstairs window. He's either innocently waiting for someone of the confrontation will rattle him and make him go away.

OnTheBrinkOfChange · 24/08/2022 23:37

It depends where you live. Where I am I could ask the police to do a drive-by but if you're in an area where the police are overworked they probably wouldn't do that. Do you know any neighbours who would do something?

LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL · 24/08/2022 23:39

bruce43mydog · 24/08/2022 23:32

I would probably get the police to do a security patrol if he's there any longer.

Good luck with that!

Saz12 · 24/08/2022 23:39

Pretend to be super-confident and in charge. Open the window and ask if he needs help, (he’ll say no!) or is he lost (he’ll say no), then ask what is he hanging around your house for?

MrsMoastyToasty · 24/08/2022 23:40

Can you set your car alarm off with the key fob?

Solongtoshort · 24/08/2022 23:46

Can you Google dogs barking and play it loud near an open window? then shout down boy.

NoHomers · 24/08/2022 23:56

Why don't you put on a gangster movie, turn the volume up loud, and put some firecrackers in a pan by the door and set them off.

Cas112 · 24/08/2022 23:59

NoHomers · 24/08/2022 23:56

Why don't you put on a gangster movie, turn the volume up loud, and put some firecrackers in a pan by the door and set them off.

😂😂😂😂

SucksToBeYouHun · 25/08/2022 00:00

Ring 999 immediately

EmmaH2022 · 25/08/2022 00:09

I would leave it but round here, that would be a dealer.

SweetsAndChocolates · 25/08/2022 00:09

How close are your neighbours?
He could be waiting for one of your neighbours to come out...but I'm going to take it you've figured out what he was doing op (seen as it's been over an hour since you posted Grin )

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Leafy3 · 25/08/2022 00:30

Alternatively, go heavy with the eyeliner, keep the lights off and stand at the window with a torch lighting your face from below.

SouperNoodle · 25/08/2022 00:35

I'd open the window and ask what he's up to

workiskillingme · 25/08/2022 00:37

Can you do some cardboard cut outs operated with string to make it look like people are dancing and play rocking around the Christmas tree loudly?

HintofVintagePink · 25/08/2022 00:43

Drug pick up

ComeOnThenFanny · 25/08/2022 00:49

Leafy3 · 25/08/2022 00:30

Alternatively, go heavy with the eyeliner, keep the lights off and stand at the window with a torch lighting your face from below.

😂😂

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