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HappyBinosaur · 20/08/2022 13:55

I am about to go to a very posh wedding drinks reception. Someone has made a negative comment and now I’m worried! I am wearing a lovely dress with lace top and midi length pleated skirt, bare legs and low heels. It is black and this person says I can’t wear it to a wedding for this reason.

But….. I am the vicar that took the wedding! And it’s the nicest and most formal vicar dress I have to wear with my vicar dog collar. Also everyone knows that vicars often wear black so I thought it would be okay. I am wearing a dog collar so it is obvious that I am the vicar!

AIBU to wear it?

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Giveaschitt · 21/08/2022 13:18

MuffinMcLayLikeABundleOfHay · 20/08/2022 21:20

@gardegardenmumma I'm intrigued to know where you are from if you don't know what a Vicar is.

And I'd like to know why you just accepted the OP saying she was going to wear a dog collar with her dress!

Because she's a vicar and a dog collar is the name of the white collar vicars wear?

Saracen · 21/08/2022 13:31

Whowhatwherewhenwhynow · 20/08/2022 21:37

Tell them God told you it was okay

😂😂

Saracen · 21/08/2022 13:32

It's a lovely dress and perfect for a vicar.

I am not sure whether it would have been a faux pas to wear black to a wedding if you weren't the vicar.

picklemewalnuts · 21/08/2022 17:53

@Giveaschitt macmuffin was surprised she was accepting of a dog collar- if she didn't know what vicar meant, why would she accept dog collar?

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