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WineIsMyCarb · 13/08/2022 01:48

Vis Salman Rushdie stabbing, JK Rowling's address being publicised on social media for giving her opinion (shared by majority of country) various people having their livelihoods or wellbeing threatened because they have said or done something that is legal but someone finds objectionable. I'm a bit drunk and fucking cross. Insult and offend me. Crack on. Exercise your right to attempt to give offence and my prerogative to not take offence. Here's some meat to get you started.

  • there are two human sexes. Wear what you fucking want but there's no such things as crossing or transient sexes. Just dresses and doc martin boots.
-dont like tattoos, you like like you think you're unique, you aren't.
  • its in the UK's best interest for the highest court in the land to be based here, not in a supranational organisation (Brexit voter, so juicy meat here)
  • the NHS has already failed and needs a northern / western European model replacement asap
  • most of the COVID lockdowns / restrictions did more harm than good

There you go. Be offended. Take umbrage. Shout at me. See how that's actually ok and we can agree to disagree and you don't need to send the rozzas round because we take a different view to one another or I put a POV on the internet.

Say what you like to me, I choose not be be offended.

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WineIsMyCarb · 13/08/2022 08:13

Haha no @cosy. Slept in-between posting and waking for the day. Sent DH in when baby woke at 4am.... Seemed safer to have groggy daddy than boozebag mummy!

Will probs need a nap this afternoon though, as I'm out again tonight (typical weekend for mother of a 6 month old baby and two other young children really - hahaha!)

Aren't you going to insult me into agreeing with you @PollyRockets ? Even if I'm the only person on earth who 'believes' that the bellend people (reluctant to say 'men') can't become the egg carriers then do you think that's ok? Is it ok that we disagree?

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Hangingoninthere88 · 13/08/2022 08:14

The internet echo chamber will have you believe that JKR's views are minority but there's plenty of people who also think this way and plenty more who just don't want to admit that they do. Lots of people don't want to be held hostage by a generation of kids/just barely adults who just don't have a grasp on the reality of the situation and are too egocentric to want to hear an alternative view.... I will await my sentencing and burning at the stake...

PollyRockets · 13/08/2022 08:16

@WineIsMyCarb

No point insulting you

As you actually thinking you're in a majority is enough to keep me warm at night. Laughable

WineIsMyCarb · 13/08/2022 08:19

What makes you think I am under the impression that any of my views are held by another soul on the planet? I posted those as sort of 'goady' topics that people often disagree on the internet about, to make a point that we can disagree without name calling, or indeed that I can tolerate name calling. (Sticks and stones and all that). The topics I've posted about don't matter. We can discuss whether marmite is delicious or disgusting if you like.

But by calling my viewpoint 'laughable' is getting close. Why is it laughable?

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WineIsMyCarb · 13/08/2022 08:20

Sorry, can I change the question I've just asked? What do you hope to achieve by telling me my opinion is laughable?

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Discrimination1234 · 13/08/2022 08:23

Rozzas? Please go to Urban dictionary and update your slang immediately!

Maireas · 13/08/2022 08:26

I'm offended that you won't be offended by people being offended. I've logged your post with 101, and have sent you a bottle of Zoflora.

Maireas · 13/08/2022 08:32

Anyway, what's with all this "hate" and "bullying"? If you disagree with someone or challenge them, this is how it's dismissed.
I don't hate you, I just disagree with some of your points. I'm not a bully, I'm of a different viewpoint. All the debate and nuance has gone, which is a shame.

Maireas · 13/08/2022 08:33

Previous points not directed at you, OP, just into the ether....

SantaCarlaCalifornia · 13/08/2022 08:37

It's interesting how people have changed since having internet access.
There was a time that people could disagree and still rub along together.
Everything now means you have to take sides and bring the other side down by any means possible, usually by lying and throwing shit to see what sticks. It's completely toxic.

And no, your views on sex are absolutely not the minority as I'm sure you know. It's just the very loud voices are drowning out the sensible ones.
I think they've convinced themselves that because most people will be polite and look the other way and say nothing, that it means that they agree.

W0tnow · 13/08/2022 08:42

I think I quite like you Wineismycarb. Though now I’m not sure. It all hinges on your taste for Marmite.

Maireas · 13/08/2022 08:42

You're right, @SantaCarlaCalifornia - twitter in particular reduces complex issues to a few words, memes attempt a crude summary. Something as complicated as the Arab-Israeli conflict, the Syrian war, the refugee crisis, Brexit, reduced to a crass phrase or image which is neither enlightening nor informative, but is narrow and combative. I'm a goody and you're a baddy.

OlympicProcrastinator · 13/08/2022 08:44

Great @OlympicProcrastinator - are you able to air those differences without calling each other names? I'm presuming so if you're still married

Yes! That’s the point, polar opposite’s politically (on the whole, not every issue) but same values in everyday life just different ideas about how to achieve things politically. And guess what? We’ve had a few conversations about Brexit / voting etc and neither of us called the other thick / ignorant / deluded / selfish / or uneducated. Quite the revelation. In fact, it doesn’t effect our day to day lives at all.

Eranzer · 13/08/2022 08:44

That is refreshing, I want to get drunk with you!

I have tattoos and remain unoffended, and don't think I've ever taken offence to anything I've read on the internet.

W0tnow · 13/08/2022 08:44

Actually I’ve had many a discussion on the trans debate, with good friends, who disagree with me. Sometime things got a bit….heated. Always respectful though. We still like each other.

WineIsMyCarb · 13/08/2022 08:55

Totally agree @Maireas . The bloody memes calling each other stupid or quoting some shit film. As if that's going to win another person round to your (one's) point of view!

@Eranzer you'll struggle not to stumble over me drunk this weekend, given the uptick in my social life this weekend! Perhaps you'd like to call me a cunt and buy me a glass of white wine? (Not Australian or New Zealand, as all their white wine is gross. Every last drop). Any Aussies or kiwis about? (Crosses fingers!!)

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roarfeckingroarr · 13/08/2022 08:59

I'm with you on all points, despite having tattoos from my 20s

gotelltheoldmandowntheroad · 13/08/2022 09:30

I like you

W0tnow · 13/08/2022 09:37

Aussie here, I’m with you on the wine.

now, marmite?

WineIsMyCarb · 13/08/2022 11:14

Stop being fucking nice! I'm trying to get insulted on the internet! You all look like a bag of spanners. Get back in the kitchen and make your blokes a nice bacon sandwich. Your bedrooms are a disgrace.

Marmite is awful. Fact.

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Leafy3 · 13/08/2022 11:18

I don't agree with any of your bullet points but I'm not going to insult you for them 🙄

I respect your right to hold a different opinion to my own, even if I think your opinion(s) are wrong and potentially damaging.

ThinkingaboutLangClegosaurus · 13/08/2022 11:28

WineIsMyCarb · 13/08/2022 11:14

Stop being fucking nice! I'm trying to get insulted on the internet! You all look like a bag of spanners. Get back in the kitchen and make your blokes a nice bacon sandwich. Your bedrooms are a disgrace.

Marmite is awful. Fact.

Marmite is awful. Fact.

Now you’ve gone too far, OP. I usually quote George Orwell on liberty being the “the right to tell people what they do not want to hear”.

But insulting Marmite? That’s not on.

Maireas · 13/08/2022 11:30

Leafy3 · 13/08/2022 11:18

I don't agree with any of your bullet points but I'm not going to insult you for them 🙄

I respect your right to hold a different opinion to my own, even if I think your opinion(s) are wrong and potentially damaging.

What? Are you living in 2022? You disagree with the OP, then surely she's a hater or a bully who needs to be cancelled. Keep up!

OhWhatFuckeryIsThisNow · 13/08/2022 11:37

I can agree or disagree with your opinions, but apart from maybe saying, are you fucking mad? To some of them -who cares?
insults though, can do those.
you smell of poo. There. Bet that stung.

ThinkingaboutLangClegosaurus · 13/08/2022 11:39

PollyRockets · 13/08/2022 07:39

There was only one aspect of your strange post to claim was a majority view

Thankfully your view, and JKRs views are minority opinions

Thankfully your view, and JKRs views are minority opinions

Why, because most people think humans can change sex? Or that women are not adult human females? Or that domestic violence is a good thing?

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